Princeton LGBTQIA+ Oral History Project

1980s

36 Interviews
12 Archive Entries
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Duane McWaine

McWaine discusses attending Princeton as a questioning and closeted, gay student. He speaks about his observations of the Gay Alliance at Princeton and their parties at the top of New South. He also talks about participating in Triangle Club shows, and navigating the differences between Bay Area and East Coast cultural practices as a black man. He also reflects on his private psychiatric practice and losing friends and community members during the AIDS epidemic. Finally, he speaks about moving to New Zealand as the partner of the first openly gay ambassador and his personal work with the Samoan government.

McWaine discusses attending Princeton as a questioning and closeted, gay student. He speaks about his observations of the Gay Alliance at Princeton and their parties at the top of New South. He also talks about participating in Triangle Club shows, and navigating the differences between Bay Area and East Coast cultural practices as a black man. He also reflects on his private psychiatric practice and losing friends and community members during the AIDS epidemic. Finally, he speaks about moving to New Zealand as the partner of the first openly gay ambassador and his personal work with the Samoan government.

Class of 1980

Duane McWaine

McWaine discusses attending Princeton as a questioning and closeted, gay student. He speaks about his observations of the Gay Alliance at Princeton and their parties at the top of New South. He also talks about participating in Triangle Club shows, and navigating the differences between Bay Area and East Coast cultural practices as a black man. He also reflects on his private psychiatric practice and losing friends and community members during the AIDS epidemic. Finally, he speaks about moving to New Zealand as the partner of the first openly gay ambassador and his personal work with the Samoan government.

McWaine discusses attending Princeton as a questioning and closeted, gay student. He speaks about his observations of the Gay Alliance at Princeton and their parties at the top of New South. He also talks about participating in Triangle Club shows, and navigating the differences between Bay Area and East Coast cultural practices as a black man. He also reflects on his private psychiatric practice and losing friends and community members during the AIDS epidemic. Finally, he speaks about moving to New Zealand as the partner of the first openly gay ambassador and his personal work with the Samoan government.

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Gay men, Men, Black, Socioeconomic inequality, Public school, Private school, Dance, Music, Theater, Christian, HIV/AIDS crisis, Princeton Interview, Princeton Inn (residential college), Gospel Choir, Questioning sexuality, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), New South Gay Dance, First relationship, Closeted, Mentorship, Hookups, Triangle Club, Princeton Preview, Photography, Palmer Observatory, Forum on Interracial Communication, Colonial (eating club), Going Back Looking Forward, THRIVE conference, Every Voice conference, Shirley Tilghman, South Africa apartheid activism, Psychology, Pre-medical (educational track), Racism in policing, Medical school, USC, Meeting partner, Clubs/bars, Coming out, Family acceptance, Marriage, AIDS Project LA, Partner death, Travel abroad, Employment discrimination, Mental health, Trump Administration, Gender-affirming care
Content Notice
Racism mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 24, 2017

Howard Rosen

Rosen speaks about his experience at Princeton as a questioning, closeted gay student. He discusses how he came to attend Princeton, his participation in the university marching band, how the campus was unwelcoming towards LGBT students, and his awareness of Gay People Princeton. Finally, he discusses his career, his work as the secretary of the alumni group BTGALA, how BTGALA influences the university, coming out later in life, and his marriage.

Rosen speaks about his experience at Princeton as a questioning, closeted gay student. He discusses how he came to attend Princeton, his participation in the university marching band, how the campus was unwelcoming towards LGBT students, and his awareness of Gay People Princeton. Finally, he discusses his career, his work as the secretary of the alumni group BTGALA, how BTGALA influences the university, coming out later in life, and his marriage.

Class of 1980

Howard Rosen

Rosen speaks about his experience at Princeton as a questioning, closeted gay student. He discusses how he came to attend Princeton, his participation in the university marching band, how the campus was unwelcoming towards LGBT students, and his awareness of Gay People Princeton. Finally, he discusses his career, his work as the secretary of the alumni group BTGALA, how BTGALA influences the university, coming out later in life, and his marriage.

Rosen speaks about his experience at Princeton as a questioning, closeted gay student. He discusses how he came to attend Princeton, his participation in the university marching band, how the campus was unwelcoming towards LGBT students, and his awareness of Gay People Princeton. Finally, he discusses his career, his work as the secretary of the alumni group BTGALA, how BTGALA influences the university, coming out later in life, and his marriage.

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Gay men, Men, White, Jewish, Music, Questioning sexuality, Wilson (residential college), The Preppy Handbook, Socioeconomic inequality, Princeton Band, Civil and Environmental Engineering, First relationship, Closeted, New South Gay Dance, HIV/AIDS crisis, Harrassment, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Clubs/bars, Sexual awakening, Dance, BTGALA, Coming out, Friend acceptance, Shawn Cowls, Debbie Bazarsky, Society of Fellows, Family acceptance, Employment discrimination, Meeting partner, Marriage, Gayle Saloman, Margot Canaday, Founding of GSS department, Regina Kunzel, Harold Shapiro, Shirley Tilghman, Undergraduate
Content Notice
Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 19, 2019

Mark Wyn

Mark Wyn talks about growing up in Michigan and what it was like growing up gay in the 60s and 70s. Wyn shares insights into the activites which shaped him growing up such as the Boy Scouts and Teenage Republicans. He discusses the social and poltiical contexts of growing up in Grand Rapids during the 60s and how larger national landscapes influenced his personal development as a man. As the interview progresses Wyn is able to share insights into major LGBTQIA+ issues of the 20th century such as The Briggs Initiative and Proposition 6 of California. Towards the end of the interview he shares more on the Princeton campus life during his time there and his personal relationships with other gay men.

Mark Wyn talks about growing up in Michigan and what it was like growing up gay in the 60s and 70s. Wyn shares insights into the activites which shaped him growing up such as the Boy Scouts and Teenage Republicans. He discusses the social and poltiical contexts of growing up in Grand Rapids during the 60s and how larger national landscapes influenced his personal development as a man. As the interview progresses Wyn is able to share insights into major LGBTQIA+ issues of the 20th century such as The Briggs Initiative and Proposition 6 of California. Towards the end of the interview he shares more on the Princeton campus life during his time there and his personal relationships with other gay men.

Class of 1980

Mark Wyn

Mark Wyn talks about growing up in Michigan and what it was like growing up gay in the 60s and 70s. Wyn shares insights into the activites which shaped him growing up such as the Boy Scouts and Teenage Republicans. He discusses the social and poltiical contexts of growing up in Grand Rapids during the 60s and how larger national landscapes influenced his personal development as a man. As the interview progresses Wyn is able to share insights into major LGBTQIA+ issues of the 20th century such as The Briggs Initiative and Proposition 6 of California. Towards the end of the interview he shares more on the Princeton campus life during his time there and his personal relationships with other gay men.

Mark Wyn talks about growing up in Michigan and what it was like growing up gay in the 60s and 70s. Wyn shares insights into the activites which shaped him growing up such as the Boy Scouts and Teenage Republicans. He discusses the social and poltiical contexts of growing up in Grand Rapids during the 60s and how larger national landscapes influenced his personal development as a man. As the interview progresses Wyn is able to share insights into major LGBTQIA+ issues of the 20th century such as The Briggs Initiative and Proposition 6 of California. Towards the end of the interview he shares more on the Princeton campus life during his time there and his personal relationships with other gay men.

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Gay man, Boy Scouts, Republican, Woodrow Willson School (concentration), Divorce, Family acceptance, United Church of Christ, Christian, feminism, Attraction to friend, Sterotypes, The Mattachine Society, Save the Children Campaign, Clubs/bars, San Francisco riots, LGBT activism, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Murray Dodge, New South Gay Dance, Hookups, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Cruising, Douglas Brown, Banner stealing, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Gay Jeans Day, Drugs, Religion and queerness, Wilson college (residential colege), Every Voice conference, Reproductive justice, Stonewall, interracial relationship, cheating, Immigration, HIV positive, HIV AIDS crisis, Harvey Milk Assassination
Content Notice
Illness and death mentioned, Slur
Interviewed on 
July 7, 2017

Gay Student and Terrace Eating Club

Through the decades, Terrace eating club has been thought of as a haven for queer students on Princeton’s campus. In 1981, following the closing of New South’s dining facilities, GAP began to hold its dances at Terrace. It was thought that moving the dances off-campus would help closeted students feel more comfortable attending. This is not to say that Terrace was a safe space for queer students without fail – in 1982, a group of athletes broke a window to enter a GAP dance, where they verbally harassed attendees before being removed from the premises.

In 1983, membership at Terrace F. Club was dwindling. The Terrace president felt that the club’s low membership was related to Terrace’s image as a “gay club”; in an attempt to alter the association, Terrace canceled a GAP dance in November 1983. The club president explained, “the unfortunate reality of our community is that GAP is a controversial and unpopular group.” Terrace members were outraged by the cancellation, as were several members of GAP. The club held a referendum in which a majority of members voted to continue allowing GAP to host their dances in Terrace. Mark Shere ‘85, a member of Cloister Club with no affiliation to GAP, was appalled by the Terrace incident and held a referendum at Cloister to determine whether the club could discriminate when it rented out spaces. Though the vote was not binding because only the Cloister Board of Trustees can set club policy, Cloister voted 52 to 45 not to discriminate.

Through the decades, Terrace eating club has been thought of as a haven for queer students on Princeton’s campus. In 1981, following the closing of New South’s dining facilities, GAP began to hold its dances at Terrace. It was thought that moving the dances off-campus would help closeted students feel more comfortable attending. This is not to say that Terrace was a safe space for queer students without fail – in 1982, a group of athletes broke a window to enter a GAP dance, where they verbally harassed attendees before being removed from the premises.

In 1983, membership at Terrace F. Club was dwindling. The Terrace president felt that the club’s low membership was related to Terrace’s image as a “gay club”; in an attempt to alter the association, Terrace canceled a GAP dance in November 1983. The club president explained, “the unfortunate reality of our community is that GAP is a controversial and unpopular group.” Terrace members were outraged by the cancellation, as were several members of GAP. The club held a referendum in which a majority of members voted to continue allowing GAP to host their dances in Terrace. Mark Shere ‘85, a member of Cloister Club with no affiliation to GAP, was appalled by the Terrace incident and held a referendum at Cloister to determine whether the club could discriminate when it rented out spaces. Though the vote was not binding because only the Cloister Board of Trustees can set club policy, Cloister voted 52 to 45 not to discriminate.

Gay Student and Terrace Eating Club

Through the decades, Terrace eating club has been thought of as a haven for queer students on Princeton’s campus. In 1981, following the closing of New South’s dining facilities, GAP began to hold its dances at Terrace. It was thought that moving the dances off-campus would help closeted students feel more comfortable attending. This is not to say that Terrace was a safe space for queer students without fail – in 1982, a group of athletes broke a window to enter a GAP dance, where they verbally harassed attendees before being removed from the premises.

In 1983, membership at Terrace F. Club was dwindling. The Terrace president felt that the club’s low membership was related to Terrace’s image as a “gay club”; in an attempt to alter the association, Terrace canceled a GAP dance in November 1983. The club president explained, “the unfortunate reality of our community is that GAP is a controversial and unpopular group.” Terrace members were outraged by the cancellation, as were several members of GAP. The club held a referendum in which a majority of members voted to continue allowing GAP to host their dances in Terrace. Mark Shere ‘85, a member of Cloister Club with no affiliation to GAP, was appalled by the Terrace incident and held a referendum at Cloister to determine whether the club could discriminate when it rented out spaces. Though the vote was not binding because only the Cloister Board of Trustees can set club policy, Cloister voted 52 to 45 not to discriminate.

Through the decades, Terrace eating club has been thought of as a haven for queer students on Princeton’s campus. In 1981, following the closing of New South’s dining facilities, GAP began to hold its dances at Terrace. It was thought that moving the dances off-campus would help closeted students feel more comfortable attending. This is not to say that Terrace was a safe space for queer students without fail – in 1982, a group of athletes broke a window to enter a GAP dance, where they verbally harassed attendees before being removed from the premises.

In 1983, membership at Terrace F. Club was dwindling. The Terrace president felt that the club’s low membership was related to Terrace’s image as a “gay club”; in an attempt to alter the association, Terrace canceled a GAP dance in November 1983. The club president explained, “the unfortunate reality of our community is that GAP is a controversial and unpopular group.” Terrace members were outraged by the cancellation, as were several members of GAP. The club held a referendum in which a majority of members voted to continue allowing GAP to host their dances in Terrace. Mark Shere ‘85, a member of Cloister Club with no affiliation to GAP, was appalled by the Terrace incident and held a referendum at Cloister to determine whether the club could discriminate when it rented out spaces. Though the vote was not binding because only the Cloister Board of Trustees can set club policy, Cloister voted 52 to 45 not to discriminate.

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Ann Strayer

Strayer talks about attending Princeton as a closeted, lesbian student-athlete. She discusses her recruitment onto the women's rowing team, joining Cap and Gown eating club, dating a girl during her senior year, and studying US history. In addition, she explains her thoughts on the Naked Olympics, influential classwork, making the US Olympic Rowing team, and meeting her wife. Finally, she speaks about her involvement with the gay and lesbian bar association in San Francisco, coaching high school rowing teams, and her relationship with her children.

Strayer talks about attending Princeton as a closeted, lesbian student-athlete. She discusses her recruitment onto the women's rowing team, joining Cap and Gown eating club, dating a girl during her senior year, and studying US history. In addition, she explains her thoughts on the Naked Olympics, influential classwork, making the US Olympic Rowing team, and meeting her wife. Finally, she speaks about her involvement with the gay and lesbian bar association in San Francisco, coaching high school rowing teams, and her relationship with her children.

Class of 1982

Ann Strayer

Strayer talks about attending Princeton as a closeted, lesbian student-athlete. She discusses her recruitment onto the women's rowing team, joining Cap and Gown eating club, dating a girl during her senior year, and studying US history. In addition, she explains her thoughts on the Naked Olympics, influential classwork, making the US Olympic Rowing team, and meeting her wife. Finally, she speaks about her involvement with the gay and lesbian bar association in San Francisco, coaching high school rowing teams, and her relationship with her children.

Strayer talks about attending Princeton as a closeted, lesbian student-athlete. She discusses her recruitment onto the women's rowing team, joining Cap and Gown eating club, dating a girl during her senior year, and studying US history. In addition, she explains her thoughts on the Naked Olympics, influential classwork, making the US Olympic Rowing team, and meeting her wife. Finally, she speaks about her involvement with the gay and lesbian bar association in San Francisco, coaching high school rowing teams, and her relationship with her children.

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White, Legacy, Trump Administration, Therapy, Women's Rowing Team, U.S. Olympics, Queer awakening, Attraction to friend, Independent Meal Plan, Spelman Hall, Cap & Gown (eating club), Reagen administration, Athletics, First awareness of queer people, Law, Closeted, Coming out, breakup, Marriage, Gay Marriage legalized, Travel abroad, Sexual awakening, Family acceptance, Stonewall, Harvey Milk Assassination, Clubs/bars, LGBT Center, History, Having children, Sperm donor, interracial relationship, Siblings, Obama Administraion, LGBT activism, Nude Olympics, Reunions, Discrimination
Content Notice
Illness and death mentioned, Slur, Homophobia mentioned, Racism mentioned, Sexism mentioned
Interviewed on 
June 9, 2017

David Huebner

Huebner discusses his time at Princeton as a closested gay student and his position as an American diplomat to New Zealand and Samoa. He speaks about joining the Princeton University Band, academics at Princeton, and the lack of gay visibility during his time on campus. He also reflects on his time at Yale Law School, his experience in Japan on the Henry Luce fellowship, and how he formed the AIDS law journal. Finally, he speaks about his time working for GLAAD, including his time as the chair of the organization, his relationship with his spouse, and his work as a lawyer and American ambassador.

Huebner discusses his time at Princeton as a closested gay student and his position as an American diplomat to New Zealand and Samoa. He speaks about joining the Princeton University Band, academics at Princeton, and the lack of gay visibility during his time on campus. He also reflects on his time at Yale Law School, his experience in Japan on the Henry Luce fellowship, and how he formed the AIDS law journal. Finally, he speaks about his time working for GLAAD, including his time as the chair of the organization, his relationship with his spouse, and his work as a lawyer and American ambassador.

Class of 1982

David Huebner

Huebner discusses his time at Princeton as a closested gay student and his position as an American diplomat to New Zealand and Samoa. He speaks about joining the Princeton University Band, academics at Princeton, and the lack of gay visibility during his time on campus. He also reflects on his time at Yale Law School, his experience in Japan on the Henry Luce fellowship, and how he formed the AIDS law journal. Finally, he speaks about his time working for GLAAD, including his time as the chair of the organization, his relationship with his spouse, and his work as a lawyer and American ambassador.

Huebner discusses his time at Princeton as a closested gay student and his position as an American diplomat to New Zealand and Samoa. He speaks about joining the Princeton University Band, academics at Princeton, and the lack of gay visibility during his time on campus. He also reflects on his time at Yale Law School, his experience in Japan on the Henry Luce fellowship, and how he formed the AIDS law journal. Finally, he speaks about his time working for GLAAD, including his time as the chair of the organization, his relationship with his spouse, and his work as a lawyer and American ambassador.

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Gay men, White, Queer awakening, Closeted, Socioeconomic inequality, FLI students (First-Generation Low-Income), Wilson (residential college), Princeton Band, Quadrangle (eating club), Woodrow Wilson School, Law, Travel abroad, HIV/AIDS crisis, HIV/AIDS activism, LGBT activism, Teaching, Reagan Administration, Politics, Clubs/bars, Meeting partner, Marriage, Wedding, Lutheran, Religion and queerness, Obama Administration, Marriage Equality Movement, Shirley Tilghman, Every Voice conference
Content Notice
Homophobia mentioned, Violence mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 24, 2017

Jenny Thomas

Jenny Thomas describes her perspective on the queer scene during her time at Princeton in the early '80s, where she studied psychology and was on the diving team. After graduating, Thomas moved to Japan, where she discovered she was a lesbian and began pursuing photography. After returning to the United States, she spent several years developing her own photography businessin San Francisco, where she met her wife, before returning to school to become a nurse.

Jenny Thomas describes her perspective on the queer scene during her time at Princeton in the early '80s, where she studied psychology and was on the diving team. After graduating, Thomas moved to Japan, where she discovered she was a lesbian and began pursuing photography. After returning to the United States, she spent several years developing her own photography businessin San Francisco, where she met her wife, before returning to school to become a nurse.

Class of 1982

Jenny Thomas

Jenny Thomas describes her perspective on the queer scene during her time at Princeton in the early '80s, where she studied psychology and was on the diving team. After graduating, Thomas moved to Japan, where she discovered she was a lesbian and began pursuing photography. After returning to the United States, she spent several years developing her own photography businessin San Francisco, where she met her wife, before returning to school to become a nurse.

Jenny Thomas describes her perspective on the queer scene during her time at Princeton in the early '80s, where she studied psychology and was on the diving team. After graduating, Thomas moved to Japan, where she discovered she was a lesbian and began pursuing photography. After returning to the United States, she spent several years developing her own photography businessin San Francisco, where she met her wife, before returning to school to become a nurse.

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Chinese, Asian, White, Biracial, Siblings, Athletics, First relationship, Interracial friendships, Losing friends, drugs, Sexual awakening, Lesbian, clubs/bars, Confucian, Queer awakening, Attraction to friend, Pyne Hall, Outdoor Action, drug, Rockefeller (residential college), Body image, breakup, Terrace Club (eating club), Drinking culture, Harvey Milk Assassination, HIV/AIDS crisis, HIV/AIDS activism, Pyschology, feminist activism, Therapy, McCosh Health Center, Activism, Travel abroad, Princeton for the Allstate Research and Planning Center, Actvism, LGBT Activism, Academia, Photography, Closeted, Cutting hair, Third World Center, Family acceptance, Adoption, Nursing, Marriage, Sperm donor, Queer, Trump Administration, Parenting
Content Notice
Trauma mentioned, Violence mentioned, Depression mentioned, Eating disorder mentioned, Slur, Racism mentioned, Self-harm mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Suicide mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 23, 2017

Founding of GALA

On March 22, 1982, an advertisement appeared in Princeton Alumni Weekly urging, “[d]on’t skip reunions because you’re gay. Contact Scott Anderson [‘72] and Jim Weinrich [‘72].” This advertisement would lead to the creation of a Reunions panel on June 5, 1982 titled “Being Gay at Princeton in the 60s and 70s.” Alumni were asked to come back and share their experiences at Princeton, or if they could not make it, to write a letter about their experience to be read aloud at the panel. Although Anderson and Weinrich were under the impression the Class of 1972 would cosponsor the panel, the class denied any knowledge of this arrangement. It was noted that this was not necessarily a homophobic reaction on the part of the Class of 1972; such miscommunications were commonplace around Reunions at the time. The panel attracted sixty people and built momentum for a possible gay alumni organization. During the next year, Karen Magee ’83 founded Princeton GALA (Gay and Lesbian Alumni) as a chapter of the national organization.

On March 22, 1982, an advertisement appeared in Princeton Alumni Weekly urging, “[d]on’t skip reunions because you’re gay. Contact Scott Anderson [‘72] and Jim Weinrich [‘72].” This advertisement would lead to the creation of a Reunions panel on June 5, 1982 titled “Being Gay at Princeton in the 60s and 70s.” Alumni were asked to come back and share their experiences at Princeton, or if they could not make it, to write a letter about their experience to be read aloud at the panel. Although Anderson and Weinrich were under the impression the Class of 1972 would cosponsor the panel, the class denied any knowledge of this arrangement. It was noted that this was not necessarily a homophobic reaction on the part of the Class of 1972; such miscommunications were commonplace around Reunions at the time. The panel attracted sixty people and built momentum for a possible gay alumni organization. During the next year, Karen Magee ’83 founded Princeton GALA (Gay and Lesbian Alumni) as a chapter of the national organization.

Founding of GALA

On March 22, 1982, an advertisement appeared in Princeton Alumni Weekly urging, “[d]on’t skip reunions because you’re gay. Contact Scott Anderson [‘72] and Jim Weinrich [‘72].” This advertisement would lead to the creation of a Reunions panel on June 5, 1982 titled “Being Gay at Princeton in the 60s and 70s.” Alumni were asked to come back and share their experiences at Princeton, or if they could not make it, to write a letter about their experience to be read aloud at the panel. Although Anderson and Weinrich were under the impression the Class of 1972 would cosponsor the panel, the class denied any knowledge of this arrangement. It was noted that this was not necessarily a homophobic reaction on the part of the Class of 1972; such miscommunications were commonplace around Reunions at the time. The panel attracted sixty people and built momentum for a possible gay alumni organization. During the next year, Karen Magee ’83 founded Princeton GALA (Gay and Lesbian Alumni) as a chapter of the national organization.

On March 22, 1982, an advertisement appeared in Princeton Alumni Weekly urging, “[d]on’t skip reunions because you’re gay. Contact Scott Anderson [‘72] and Jim Weinrich [‘72].” This advertisement would lead to the creation of a Reunions panel on June 5, 1982 titled “Being Gay at Princeton in the 60s and 70s.” Alumni were asked to come back and share their experiences at Princeton, or if they could not make it, to write a letter about their experience to be read aloud at the panel. Although Anderson and Weinrich were under the impression the Class of 1972 would cosponsor the panel, the class denied any knowledge of this arrangement. It was noted that this was not necessarily a homophobic reaction on the part of the Class of 1972; such miscommunications were commonplace around Reunions at the time. The panel attracted sixty people and built momentum for a possible gay alumni organization. During the next year, Karen Magee ’83 founded Princeton GALA (Gay and Lesbian Alumni) as a chapter of the national organization.

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Maria Trumpler

Maria Trumpler discusses studying biophysics as a woman in the 1970s and '80s, particularly her efforts to apply a feminist lens to science. She describes her time as an undergrad at Princeton before getting her PhD at Yale, where she was faculty for an extended period of time. During this time, Trumpler met her now-wife, and she describes how this relationship introduced her to ideasaround queerness and lesbianism. Trumpler later had a brief stint at Harvard before returning to Yale to work on supporting LGBTQ+ students.

Maria Trumpler discusses studying biophysics as a woman in the 1970s and '80s, particularly her efforts to apply a feminist lens to science. She describes her time as an undergrad at Princeton before getting her PhD at Yale, where she was faculty for an extended period of time. During this time, Trumpler met her now-wife, and she describes how this relationship introduced her to ideasaround queerness and lesbianism. Trumpler later had a brief stint at Harvard before returning to Yale to work on supporting LGBTQ+ students.

Class of 1982

Maria Trumpler

Maria Trumpler discusses studying biophysics as a woman in the 1970s and '80s, particularly her efforts to apply a feminist lens to science. She describes her time as an undergrad at Princeton before getting her PhD at Yale, where she was faculty for an extended period of time. During this time, Trumpler met her now-wife, and she describes how this relationship introduced her to ideasaround queerness and lesbianism. Trumpler later had a brief stint at Harvard before returning to Yale to work on supporting LGBTQ+ students.

Maria Trumpler discusses studying biophysics as a woman in the 1970s and '80s, particularly her efforts to apply a feminist lens to science. She describes her time as an undergrad at Princeton before getting her PhD at Yale, where she was faculty for an extended period of time. During this time, Trumpler met her now-wife, and she describes how this relationship introduced her to ideasaround queerness and lesbianism. Trumpler later had a brief stint at Harvard before returning to Yale to work on supporting LGBTQ+ students.

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Siblings, White, Academia, public school, Physics, gender-nonconforming, Sexual awakening, Queer awakening, First relationship, Athletics, Second-generation immigrant, Quadrangle Club (eating club), Biology, Gender and Sexuality Studies, Library and queer awakening, Employment discrimination, Gay woman, Coming out, Family Acceptance, Presbyterian, Religion and queerness, Civil partnership, Unemployment, LGBT activism, Reunions, BTGALA, Every Voice Conference, Marriage, Civil partnership, Lesbian, feminist activism
Content Notice
Homophobia mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Harrasment mentioned, Transphobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 17, 2018

Peter Aupperle

In this oral history, Peter Aupperle discusses his experience of being queer and low-income at Princeton and Columbia, including the difficulty he faced finding a psychiatric residency program due to homophobic discrimination. He describes what it was like living and working in New York City during the AIDS crisis and how his identity as a gay man intersects with his mental health struggles. He also discusses founding a still-active group for queer students studying health science at Columbia and beingthe first same-sex couple married in his city.

In this oral history, Peter Aupperle discusses his experience of being queer and low-income at Princeton and Columbia, including the difficulty he faced finding a psychiatric residency program due to homophobic discrimination. He describes what it was like living and working in New York City during the AIDS crisis and how his identity as a gay man intersects with his mental health struggles. He also discusses founding a still-active group for queer students studying health science at Columbia and beingthe first same-sex couple married in his city.

Class of 1982

Peter Aupperle

In this oral history, Peter Aupperle discusses his experience of being queer and low-income at Princeton and Columbia, including the difficulty he faced finding a psychiatric residency program due to homophobic discrimination. He describes what it was like living and working in New York City during the AIDS crisis and how his identity as a gay man intersects with his mental health struggles. He also discusses founding a still-active group for queer students studying health science at Columbia and beingthe first same-sex couple married in his city.

In this oral history, Peter Aupperle discusses his experience of being queer and low-income at Princeton and Columbia, including the difficulty he faced finding a psychiatric residency program due to homophobic discrimination. He describes what it was like living and working in New York City during the AIDS crisis and how his identity as a gay man intersects with his mental health struggles. He also discusses founding a still-active group for queer students studying health science at Columbia and beingthe first same-sex couple married in his city.

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Gay men, Men, White, Single parent, Second-generation immigrant, FLI students (first-generation low-income), Music, First awareness of queer people, First relationship, Math, Socioeconomic inequality, Work study, Long distance relationship, New South gay dance, Harrassment, GAP, Theater, Terrace (eating club), Sally Frank vs Eating Clubs Case, Daily Princetonian, Coming out, Bathhouses, Polyamory, Westminster Choir College, Hookups, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Orchestra, Pre-medical, Psychology, Neuroscience, Medical school, Breakup, Cloister (eating club), Columbia, Clubs/bars, Discrimination, HIV/AIDS crisis, Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, Civil partnership, Marriage, Gay marriage legalized, Undergraduate
Content Notice
Racism mentioned, Homphobia mentioned, Partner violence mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 21, 2022

Tina Madison White

Tina Madison White first talks about growning up and experiencing gender dysphoria, but not having the vocabulary to understand the experience. She discusses her unhappiness at Princeton, and not feeling like she could authentically say she had gone to Princeton until she came out as Tina at her 35th reunion. She details coming out after 10 years of marriage, about phsyically transitioning later in life, and about moving to North Carolina and being trans in the south.

Tina Madison White first talks about growning up and experiencing gender dysphoria, but not having the vocabulary to understand the experience. She discusses her unhappiness at Princeton, and not feeling like she could authentically say she had gone to Princeton until she came out as Tina at her 35th reunion. She details coming out after 10 years of marriage, about phsyically transitioning later in life, and about moving to North Carolina and being trans in the south.

Class of 1982

Tina Madison White

Tina Madison White first talks about growning up and experiencing gender dysphoria, but not having the vocabulary to understand the experience. She discusses her unhappiness at Princeton, and not feeling like she could authentically say she had gone to Princeton until she came out as Tina at her 35th reunion. She details coming out after 10 years of marriage, about phsyically transitioning later in life, and about moving to North Carolina and being trans in the south.

Tina Madison White first talks about growning up and experiencing gender dysphoria, but not having the vocabulary to understand the experience. She discusses her unhappiness at Princeton, and not feeling like she could authentically say she had gone to Princeton until she came out as Tina at her 35th reunion. She details coming out after 10 years of marriage, about phsyically transitioning later in life, and about moving to North Carolina and being trans in the south.

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Transphobia mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Harassment mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 21, 2018

Gay Women of Princeton

In 1982, GAP held its first women-only meeting. Female attendance at the meeting doubled that of female membership in the organization, and “Lesbians of Princeton” was formed. Barbara Clanton ’84 also explained that the split was made, in part, so that Lesbians of Princeton could provide more support to the growing lesbian feminist movement. In 1983, Lesbians of Princeton changed its name to “Gay Women of Princeton” (GWOP).

In 1982, GAP held its first women-only meeting. Female attendance at the meeting doubled that of female membership in the organization, and “Lesbians of Princeton” was formed. Barbara Clanton ’84 also explained that the split was made, in part, so that Lesbians of Princeton could provide more support to the growing lesbian feminist movement. In 1983, Lesbians of Princeton changed its name to “Gay Women of Princeton” (GWOP).

Gay Women of Princeton

In 1982, GAP held its first women-only meeting. Female attendance at the meeting doubled that of female membership in the organization, and “Lesbians of Princeton” was formed. Barbara Clanton ’84 also explained that the split was made, in part, so that Lesbians of Princeton could provide more support to the growing lesbian feminist movement. In 1983, Lesbians of Princeton changed its name to “Gay Women of Princeton” (GWOP).

In 1982, GAP held its first women-only meeting. Female attendance at the meeting doubled that of female membership in the organization, and “Lesbians of Princeton” was formed. Barbara Clanton ’84 also explained that the split was made, in part, so that Lesbians of Princeton could provide more support to the growing lesbian feminist movement. In 1983, Lesbians of Princeton changed its name to “Gay Women of Princeton” (GWOP).

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Alan Flippen

Flippen describes his experience as a closeted gay student at Princeton. He speaks about coming to terms with his sexuality through his participation in student radio station WPRB, access to books at Firestone Library, and his membership with the Gay Alliance at Princeton. In addition, he discusses his journalism career after Princeton, finding his first gay relationships in Rhode Island, his thoughts on the alumni groups Fund for Reunion and BTGALA, and how he helped form the National Lesbian and Gay Association.

Flippen describes his experience as a closeted gay student at Princeton. He speaks about coming to terms with his sexuality through his participation in student radio station WPRB, access to books at Firestone Library, and his membership with the Gay Alliance at Princeton. In addition, he discusses his journalism career after Princeton, finding his first gay relationships in Rhode Island, his thoughts on the alumni groups Fund for Reunion and BTGALA, and how he helped form the National Lesbian and Gay Association.

Class of 1984

Alan Flippen

Flippen describes his experience as a closeted gay student at Princeton. He speaks about coming to terms with his sexuality through his participation in student radio station WPRB, access to books at Firestone Library, and his membership with the Gay Alliance at Princeton. In addition, he discusses his journalism career after Princeton, finding his first gay relationships in Rhode Island, his thoughts on the alumni groups Fund for Reunion and BTGALA, and how he helped form the National Lesbian and Gay Association.

Flippen describes his experience as a closeted gay student at Princeton. He speaks about coming to terms with his sexuality through his participation in student radio station WPRB, access to books at Firestone Library, and his membership with the Gay Alliance at Princeton. In addition, he discusses his journalism career after Princeton, finding his first gay relationships in Rhode Island, his thoughts on the alumni groups Fund for Reunion and BTGALA, and how he helped form the National Lesbian and Gay Association.

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Gay men, Men, White, Jewish, Questioning sexuality, WPRB (FM Radio Station), Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), GAP wine and cheese welcome, The Daily Princetonian, Closeted, Heteronormativity, Libraries and queer awakening, Harrassment, Coming out, Terrace (eating club), Colonial (eating club), Terrace Dances, Hookups, First relationship, Journalism, Brown University, HIV/AIDS crisis, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), HIV/AIDS activism, Clubs/bars, Pride parade, First relationship, Dick Limoges, Fund for Reunion, GALA, Murray Dodge, Gay marriage legalized, Marriage, Family acceptance, Undergraduate
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Slur, Homophobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
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July 12, 2017

Barry Saiff

Saiff speaks about attending Princeton while questioning his sexuality and coming out as bisexual later in life. He discusses his close relationship with his freshman year roommate, organizing with the Democratic Socialist Organizing Committee, and starting a Princeton chapter of The Hunger Project. He talks about coming to terms with his identity after college and the LGBT community in San Francisco during the 1980's and 90's. Finally, he describes participating in the 1993 March on Washington, organizing a large-scale academic conference focused on bisexuality, and meeting his husband online.

Saiff speaks about attending Princeton while questioning his sexuality and coming out as bisexual later in life. He discusses his close relationship with his freshman year roommate, organizing with the Democratic Socialist Organizing Committee, and starting a Princeton chapter of The Hunger Project. He talks about coming to terms with his identity after college and the LGBT community in San Francisco during the 1980's and 90's. Finally, he describes participating in the 1993 March on Washington, organizing a large-scale academic conference focused on bisexuality, and meeting his husband online.

Class of 1983

Barry Saiff

Saiff speaks about attending Princeton while questioning his sexuality and coming out as bisexual later in life. He discusses his close relationship with his freshman year roommate, organizing with the Democratic Socialist Organizing Committee, and starting a Princeton chapter of The Hunger Project. He talks about coming to terms with his identity after college and the LGBT community in San Francisco during the 1980's and 90's. Finally, he describes participating in the 1993 March on Washington, organizing a large-scale academic conference focused on bisexuality, and meeting his husband online.

Saiff speaks about attending Princeton while questioning his sexuality and coming out as bisexual later in life. He discusses his close relationship with his freshman year roommate, organizing with the Democratic Socialist Organizing Committee, and starting a Princeton chapter of The Hunger Project. He talks about coming to terms with his identity after college and the LGBT community in San Francisco during the 1980's and 90's. Finally, he describes participating in the 1993 March on Washington, organizing a large-scale academic conference focused on bisexuality, and meeting his husband online.

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Bisexual men, Men, White, Questioning sexuality, Terrace (eating club), Public school, Eating clubs, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Democratic Socialist Organizing Committee, Activism, Princeton-Blairstown Center, Philosophy, Anthropology, 185 Nassau, Quadrangle (eating club), Colonial (eating club), Teacher Preparation, First relationship, Therapy, The Hunger Project, Coming out, BiNet USA, National Conference Celebrating Bisexuality, March on Washington, HIV/AIDS crisis, Cruising, Travel abroad, Internet dating, Meeting partner, Interracial relationships, Alliance of Multicultural Bisexuals, Michael Beer, Undergraduate
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Illness and death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 31, 2017

Julie Anderson

Anderson discusses how she was drawn to athletics through childhood struggles to embody feminine traits and how her athletic involvement led to her attendance at Princeton. She speaks about her experiences as a Princeton basketball and softball player and how she often struggled with class divides on campus as a middle-class student. In addition, she reflects on how she acted as a peer counselor within relationships with other LGBT students on campus. Finally, she speaks about her post-graduate work which includes graduate school, working with the LA Gay and Lesbian Center and GLAAD, and, later as an administrator in the UC college system.

Anderson discusses how she was drawn to athletics through childhood struggles to embody feminine traits and how her athletic involvement led to her attendance at Princeton. She speaks about her experiences as a Princeton basketball and softball player and how she often struggled with class divides on campus as a middle-class student. In addition, she reflects on how she acted as a peer counselor within relationships with other LGBT students on campus. Finally, she speaks about her post-graduate work which includes graduate school, working with the LA Gay and Lesbian Center and GLAAD, and, later as an administrator in the UC college system.

Class of 1984

Julie Anderson

Anderson discusses how she was drawn to athletics through childhood struggles to embody feminine traits and how her athletic involvement led to her attendance at Princeton. She speaks about her experiences as a Princeton basketball and softball player and how she often struggled with class divides on campus as a middle-class student. In addition, she reflects on how she acted as a peer counselor within relationships with other LGBT students on campus. Finally, she speaks about her post-graduate work which includes graduate school, working with the LA Gay and Lesbian Center and GLAAD, and, later as an administrator in the UC college system.

Anderson discusses how she was drawn to athletics through childhood struggles to embody feminine traits and how her athletic involvement led to her attendance at Princeton. She speaks about her experiences as a Princeton basketball and softball player and how she often struggled with class divides on campus as a middle-class student. In addition, she reflects on how she acted as a peer counselor within relationships with other LGBT students on campus. Finally, she speaks about her post-graduate work which includes graduate school, working with the LA Gay and Lesbian Center and GLAAD, and, later as an administrator in the UC college system.

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Lesbian, women, gay women, White, Christian, Athletics, Clubs/bars, Engineering, Geological Engineering, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Nude Olympics, Heteronormativity, Psychology, HIV/AIDS crisis, Spelman, Quadrangle (eating club), Work study, Coming out, Third World Center, Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), Founding of LGBT Center, Women's Center, Meeting partner
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Ilness and death mentioned, Slur, Racism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
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June 28, 2018

First Mention of AIDS in Daily Princetonian

HIV/AIDS was a large, often invisible, part of Princeton’s LGBT history in the 1980s and 1990s. The first reported case in New Jersey of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS, appeared in 1981, a year after the “gay cancer” started appearing in San Francisco. The acronym AIDS first appeared in The Daily Princetonian on February 18, 1983. The first full piece on AIDS was an editorial by Frederick C. Foote published October 6, 1983 which cited AIDS as further proof of the “anti-social and unhealthy” nature of “homosexual practices.”

By 1985, University organizations were addressing AIDS in public forums with the University Chapel, holding a lunch discussion on October 1 asking what public policy should be “towards the carriers of the AIDS virus and towards its victims.” On November 14, the Woodrow Wilson School cosponsored a forum in Dodd Auditorium, “AIDS: Rights and Realities” where panelists spoke against excluding children with AIDS from public schools and drew out the negative implications of using the then-controversial “AIDS test” to screen for AIDS victims. Both events emphasized the marginal status of AIDS victims in society.

HIV/AIDS was a large, often invisible, part of Princeton’s LGBT history in the 1980s and 1990s. The first reported case in New Jersey of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS, appeared in 1981, a year after the “gay cancer” started appearing in San Francisco. The acronym AIDS first appeared in The Daily Princetonian on February 18, 1983. The first full piece on AIDS was an editorial by Frederick C. Foote published October 6, 1983 which cited AIDS as further proof of the “anti-social and unhealthy” nature of “homosexual practices.”

By 1985, University organizations were addressing AIDS in public forums with the University Chapel, holding a lunch discussion on October 1 asking what public policy should be “towards the carriers of the AIDS virus and towards its victims.” On November 14, the Woodrow Wilson School cosponsored a forum in Dodd Auditorium, “AIDS: Rights and Realities” where panelists spoke against excluding children with AIDS from public schools and drew out the negative implications of using the then-controversial “AIDS test” to screen for AIDS victims. Both events emphasized the marginal status of AIDS victims in society.

First Mention of AIDS in Daily Princetonian

HIV/AIDS was a large, often invisible, part of Princeton’s LGBT history in the 1980s and 1990s. The first reported case in New Jersey of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS, appeared in 1981, a year after the “gay cancer” started appearing in San Francisco. The acronym AIDS first appeared in The Daily Princetonian on February 18, 1983. The first full piece on AIDS was an editorial by Frederick C. Foote published October 6, 1983 which cited AIDS as further proof of the “anti-social and unhealthy” nature of “homosexual practices.”

By 1985, University organizations were addressing AIDS in public forums with the University Chapel, holding a lunch discussion on October 1 asking what public policy should be “towards the carriers of the AIDS virus and towards its victims.” On November 14, the Woodrow Wilson School cosponsored a forum in Dodd Auditorium, “AIDS: Rights and Realities” where panelists spoke against excluding children with AIDS from public schools and drew out the negative implications of using the then-controversial “AIDS test” to screen for AIDS victims. Both events emphasized the marginal status of AIDS victims in society.

HIV/AIDS was a large, often invisible, part of Princeton’s LGBT history in the 1980s and 1990s. The first reported case in New Jersey of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS, appeared in 1981, a year after the “gay cancer” started appearing in San Francisco. The acronym AIDS first appeared in The Daily Princetonian on February 18, 1983. The first full piece on AIDS was an editorial by Frederick C. Foote published October 6, 1983 which cited AIDS as further proof of the “anti-social and unhealthy” nature of “homosexual practices.”

By 1985, University organizations were addressing AIDS in public forums with the University Chapel, holding a lunch discussion on October 1 asking what public policy should be “towards the carriers of the AIDS virus and towards its victims.” On November 14, the Woodrow Wilson School cosponsored a forum in Dodd Auditorium, “AIDS: Rights and Realities” where panelists spoke against excluding children with AIDS from public schools and drew out the negative implications of using the then-controversial “AIDS test” to screen for AIDS victims. Both events emphasized the marginal status of AIDS victims in society.

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Dorene Cornwell

Cornwell speaks about her experiences at Princeton as a visually impaired and queer student. She discusses her interactions with the Gay Alliance at Princeton and the Women's Center, her long-term relationship with another visually impaired female student, writing for the Forerunner student newspaper, and how she explored academics. She discusses the time she took off from her studies to work as a political organizer and for the Peace Action organization formerly known as SANE. Finally, she reflects on attending graduate school, her career trajectory, and romantic relationships across her adult life.

Cornwell speaks about her experiences at Princeton as a visually impaired and queer student. She discusses her interactions with the Gay Alliance at Princeton and the Women's Center, her long-term relationship with another visually impaired female student, writing for the Forerunner student newspaper, and how she explored academics. She discusses the time she took off from her studies to work as a political organizer and for the Peace Action organization formerly known as SANE. Finally, she reflects on attending graduate school, her career trajectory, and romantic relationships across her adult life.

Class of 1985

Dorene Cornwell

Cornwell speaks about her experiences at Princeton as a visually impaired and queer student. She discusses her interactions with the Gay Alliance at Princeton and the Women's Center, her long-term relationship with another visually impaired female student, writing for the Forerunner student newspaper, and how she explored academics. She discusses the time she took off from her studies to work as a political organizer and for the Peace Action organization formerly known as SANE. Finally, she reflects on attending graduate school, her career trajectory, and romantic relationships across her adult life.

Cornwell speaks about her experiences at Princeton as a visually impaired and queer student. She discusses her interactions with the Gay Alliance at Princeton and the Women's Center, her long-term relationship with another visually impaired female student, writing for the Forerunner student newspaper, and how she explored academics. She discusses the time she took off from her studies to work as a political organizer and for the Peace Action organization formerly known as SANE. Finally, she reflects on attending graduate school, her career trajectory, and romantic relationships across her adult life.

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Bisexual women, Women, White, Baptist, Quaker, Music, Disability, Marriage, Breakup, Co-op meal plan, Presbyterian, HIV/AIDS crisis, Harrassment, Women's Center, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Outdoor Action, The Forerunner (newspaper), First relationship, Activism, Physics, Russian, Feminist activism, Non-discrimination policy, Reagan Administration, Gap year, Women's Studies, Disability activism, South Africa apartheid activism, Undergraduate
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Ableism mentioned, Heterosexism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Transphobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
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July 13, 2018

Jeff Richter

Richter speaks about his time at Princeton as an out, gay student. He talks about the campus' culture of silence surrounding gay issues, participating in protests urging Princeton to divest from South Africa, attending student Gay Alliance at Princeton meetings, and attending the Gay Student's Association Conference. He also discusses coming out in high school, spending time at 2 Dickinson, and working with the Women's Center. Finally, he reflects on traveling to New York gay bars, cruising on campus, and how cultural gender norms have changed since the 1980s.

Richter speaks about his time at Princeton as an out, gay student. He talks about the campus' culture of silence surrounding gay issues, participating in protests urging Princeton to divest from South Africa, attending student Gay Alliance at Princeton meetings, and attending the Gay Student's Association Conference. He also discusses coming out in high school, spending time at 2 Dickinson, and working with the Women's Center. Finally, he reflects on traveling to New York gay bars, cruising on campus, and how cultural gender norms have changed since the 1980s.

Class of 1985

Jeff Richter

Richter speaks about his time at Princeton as an out, gay student. He talks about the campus' culture of silence surrounding gay issues, participating in protests urging Princeton to divest from South Africa, attending student Gay Alliance at Princeton meetings, and attending the Gay Student's Association Conference. He also discusses coming out in high school, spending time at 2 Dickinson, and working with the Women's Center. Finally, he reflects on traveling to New York gay bars, cruising on campus, and how cultural gender norms have changed since the 1980s.

Richter speaks about his time at Princeton as an out, gay student. He talks about the campus' culture of silence surrounding gay issues, participating in protests urging Princeton to divest from South Africa, attending student Gay Alliance at Princeton meetings, and attending the Gay Student's Association Conference. He also discusses coming out in high school, spending time at 2 Dickinson, and working with the Women's Center. Finally, he reflects on traveling to New York gay bars, cruising on campus, and how cultural gender norms have changed since the 1980s.

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Gay men, Men, White, East Asian Studies, Study abroad, Coming out, First relationship, Friend acceptance, Public school, Music, Attraction to friend, Christian, Religion and queerness, Questioning sexuality, Clubs/bars, Hookups, Campus visit, Senior thesis, Outdoor Action, Wilson (residential college), Harrassment, Business Today, Economics, Murray Dodge, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Breakup, Mental health, HIV/AIDS crisis, South Africa apartheid activism, Reunions, The Preppy Handbook, Reagan Administration, Third World Center, Equal Rights Amendment (ERA), Harvard, Graduate school, Co-op meal plan, Princeton Alumni Weekly (PAW), AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), Women's Center, History, Sexual awakening, Fulbright Scholar, Undergraduate
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Racism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Slur,
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July 12, 2018

Philip Mahin

Mahin speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted student. He discusses his major in comparative literature, his involvement with club volleyball, and his dorm in Princeton Inn. He discusses speaking about his sexuality with administrators, his crush on another student, and the Gay Alliance of Princeton's physical and social distance from the campus community. Finally, he reflects on marrying his husband under New York state law, his awareness of the AIDs crisis, and his career in continuing medical education.

Mahin speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted student. He discusses his major in comparative literature, his involvement with club volleyball, and his dorm in Princeton Inn. He discusses speaking about his sexuality with administrators, his crush on another student, and the Gay Alliance of Princeton's physical and social distance from the campus community. Finally, he reflects on marrying his husband under New York state law, his awareness of the AIDs crisis, and his career in continuing medical education.

Class of 1985

Philip Mahin

Mahin speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted student. He discusses his major in comparative literature, his involvement with club volleyball, and his dorm in Princeton Inn. He discusses speaking about his sexuality with administrators, his crush on another student, and the Gay Alliance of Princeton's physical and social distance from the campus community. Finally, he reflects on marrying his husband under New York state law, his awareness of the AIDs crisis, and his career in continuing medical education.

Mahin speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted student. He discusses his major in comparative literature, his involvement with club volleyball, and his dorm in Princeton Inn. He discusses speaking about his sexuality with administrators, his crush on another student, and the Gay Alliance of Princeton's physical and social distance from the campus community. Finally, he reflects on marrying his husband under New York state law, his awareness of the AIDs crisis, and his career in continuing medical education.

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Gay men, Men, White, First-generation immigrant, Military, Catholic, Atheist, Religious school, Campus visit, Orange Key, Forbes (residential college), French and Italian, Comparative Literature, French-speaking, HIV/AIDS crisis, Reagan Administration, Concerned Alumni of Princeton, South Africa apartheid activism, Marriage, Gay marriage legalized, Meeting partner, Sexual awakening, Music, Attraction to friend, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, Bill Kirby, Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Center (SECH), Gay marriage in Princeton Chapel, Princeton Alumni Weekly (PAW), Closeted, Coming out, Family acceptance, Athletics, Quadrangle (eating club), Residential College Advisor (RCA), Princeton Interview, Every Voice conference, Undergraduate
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August 3, 2018

U-Council Includes Sexual Orientation to Non-Discrimination Policy

In 1985, thanks in large part to the urging of Provost Neil Rudenstine, the U-Council once again examined the University’s non-discrimination policy. On October 20, the U-Council considered two resolutions, one to add “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, and one simply to reaffirm the University’s commitment to non-discrimination. This time, the first resolution was approved unanimously by the U-Council and sexual orientation was added. At that time, the New Jersey State Legislature was about to vote on a bill to include sexual orientation in the State non-discrimination policy, which would have forced the University to comply.

In 1985, thanks in large part to the urging of Provost Neil Rudenstine, the U-Council once again examined the University’s non-discrimination policy. On October 20, the U-Council considered two resolutions, one to add “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, and one simply to reaffirm the University’s commitment to non-discrimination. This time, the first resolution was approved unanimously by the U-Council and sexual orientation was added. At that time, the New Jersey State Legislature was about to vote on a bill to include sexual orientation in the State non-discrimination policy, which would have forced the University to comply.

U-Council Includes Sexual Orientation to Non-Discrimination Policy

In 1985, thanks in large part to the urging of Provost Neil Rudenstine, the U-Council once again examined the University’s non-discrimination policy. On October 20, the U-Council considered two resolutions, one to add “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, and one simply to reaffirm the University’s commitment to non-discrimination. This time, the first resolution was approved unanimously by the U-Council and sexual orientation was added. At that time, the New Jersey State Legislature was about to vote on a bill to include sexual orientation in the State non-discrimination policy, which would have forced the University to comply.

In 1985, thanks in large part to the urging of Provost Neil Rudenstine, the U-Council once again examined the University’s non-discrimination policy. On October 20, the U-Council considered two resolutions, one to add “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, and one simply to reaffirm the University’s commitment to non-discrimination. This time, the first resolution was approved unanimously by the U-Council and sexual orientation was added. At that time, the New Jersey State Legislature was about to vote on a bill to include sexual orientation in the State non-discrimination policy, which would have forced the University to comply.

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Curtis Schuhmacher

Schumacher speaks about his time at Princeton as a gay student. He discusses dating his freshman year roommate, applying to enter the Wilson School for Public Policy, and coming out to his family in the middle of his first year. He talks about how his identity was tied to the ongoing AIDS crisis, internships abroad during his upper class years, joining Elm eating club, and his time as an officer for the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his involvement with a gay student group while he was a law student at NYU, his law career, his international travels, and meeting his current husband.

Schumacher speaks about his time at Princeton as a gay student. He discusses dating his freshman year roommate, applying to enter the Wilson School for Public Policy, and coming out to his family in the middle of his first year. He talks about how his identity was tied to the ongoing AIDS crisis, internships abroad during his upper class years, joining Elm eating club, and his time as an officer for the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his involvement with a gay student group while he was a law student at NYU, his law career, his international travels, and meeting his current husband.

Class of 1987

Curtis Schuhmacher

Schumacher speaks about his time at Princeton as a gay student. He discusses dating his freshman year roommate, applying to enter the Wilson School for Public Policy, and coming out to his family in the middle of his first year. He talks about how his identity was tied to the ongoing AIDS crisis, internships abroad during his upper class years, joining Elm eating club, and his time as an officer for the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his involvement with a gay student group while he was a law student at NYU, his law career, his international travels, and meeting his current husband.

Schumacher speaks about his time at Princeton as a gay student. He discusses dating his freshman year roommate, applying to enter the Wilson School for Public Policy, and coming out to his family in the middle of his first year. He talks about how his identity was tied to the ongoing AIDS crisis, internships abroad during his upper class years, joining Elm eating club, and his time as an officer for the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his involvement with a gay student group while he was a law student at NYU, his law career, his international travels, and meeting his current husband.

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White, Gay man, Adoption, Siblings, Public school, Choosing Princeton, Woodrow Wilson School, Episcopalian, Presbyterian, Women’s Movement, Athletics, Music, Boy Scouts, Queer Awakening, First relationship, First awareness of queer people, Coming out, HIV/AIDS crisis, Hookups, Butler (residential college), Sexual Awakening, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Gays and Lesbians at Princeton (GALAP), Undergraduate student, New South Gay Dance, Friend estrangement, Questioning sexuality, Breakup, Bicker, Elm (eating club), Friend acceptance, Orientation, South Africa apartheid activism, Therapy, Gay and Lesbian Alumni (GALA), Theater Intime, Triangle Club, Michael Cadden, Travel abroad, Growing out hair, Management, Student death, HIV/AIDS activism, LGBT activism, Law, Moving to LGBTQ+ friendly city, Clubs/bars, Tax, Marriage, Every Voice conference
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Illness and death, Homophobia mentioned, Slur, Suicide mentioned, Student death mentioned, Harassment mentioned
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July 17, 2017

Maru Lozano

Lozano discusses her time at Princeton as a questioning student from Puerto Rico. She speaks about working for and with the Third World Center, forming the university's first spanish-speaking theater group Teatro ochenta y seis, and her friendships with closeted students. She also speaks about childhood sexual abuse, sexual harrassment she faced on campus, repeating her junior year, and her mental health struggles. In addition, she reflects on coming out to herself as a bisexual, and later, as a gay woman across her graduate studies. Finally, she talks about returning to campus as an alumni and her employment struggles.

Lozano discusses her time at Princeton as a questioning student from Puerto Rico. She speaks about working for and with the Third World Center, forming the university's first spanish-speaking theater group Teatro ochenta y seis, and her friendships with closeted students. She also speaks about childhood sexual abuse, sexual harrassment she faced on campus, repeating her junior year, and her mental health struggles. In addition, she reflects on coming out to herself as a bisexual, and later, as a gay woman across her graduate studies. Finally, she talks about returning to campus as an alumni and her employment struggles.

Class of 1986

Maru Lozano

Lozano discusses her time at Princeton as a questioning student from Puerto Rico. She speaks about working for and with the Third World Center, forming the university's first spanish-speaking theater group Teatro ochenta y seis, and her friendships with closeted students. She also speaks about childhood sexual abuse, sexual harrassment she faced on campus, repeating her junior year, and her mental health struggles. In addition, she reflects on coming out to herself as a bisexual, and later, as a gay woman across her graduate studies. Finally, she talks about returning to campus as an alumni and her employment struggles.

Lozano discusses her time at Princeton as a questioning student from Puerto Rico. She speaks about working for and with the Third World Center, forming the university's first spanish-speaking theater group Teatro ochenta y seis, and her friendships with closeted students. She also speaks about childhood sexual abuse, sexual harrassment she faced on campus, repeating her junior year, and her mental health struggles. In addition, she reflects on coming out to herself as a bisexual, and later, as a gay woman across her graduate studies. Finally, she talks about returning to campus as an alumni and her employment struggles.

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Gay women, Puerto Rican, Latine/a/o/x or Hispanic, Spanish speaking, Mental health, Questioning sexuality, Body image, Writing, Theater, Orientation, Pre-medical (educational track), Creative Writing, Third World Center, Mathey (residential college), Latin American Studies, Socioeconomic inequality, Brooke Shields, McCosh Health Center, Susan Packer, Friend estrangement, Gap year, Student Government, Latino Task Force, Activism, Therapy, Teatro 86, Attraction to friend, Feminist activism, Take Back the Night, Reagan Administration, Senior thesis, Women’s Center, Charter (eating club), Stevenson Hall, Catholic, Closeted, Drugs, Pornography, Athletics, Sexual awakening, HIV/AIDS crisis, Queer awakening, Spiritual, Coming out, Family acceptance, Translation, ¡Adelante Tigres! conference
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Depression mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Assault mentioned, Sexual violence mentioned, Childhood Sexual Assault mentioned. Traumatic childhood, Trauma mentioned, Harassment mentioned, slur, Violence mentioned, Racism mentioned, Fatphobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Biphobia mentioned, Abusive relationship mentioned
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July 11, 2017

Tim Joslin

Joslin discusses his successful career as an architect and his experiences as a gay man. This includes the connection between his faith and gay identity, his experiences exploring his sexuality in the 1980s, and his engagement with the lesbian and gay community while at Princeton. Joslin also describes his experiences learning to live with HIV.

Joslin discusses his successful career as an architect and his experiences as a gay man. This includes the connection between his faith and gay identity, his experiences exploring his sexuality in the 1980s, and his engagement with the lesbian and gay community while at Princeton. Joslin also describes his experiences learning to live with HIV.

Class of 1986

Tim Joslin

Joslin discusses his successful career as an architect and his experiences as a gay man. This includes the connection between his faith and gay identity, his experiences exploring his sexuality in the 1980s, and his engagement with the lesbian and gay community while at Princeton. Joslin also describes his experiences learning to live with HIV.

Joslin discusses his successful career as an architect and his experiences as a gay man. This includes the connection between his faith and gay identity, his experiences exploring his sexuality in the 1980s, and his engagement with the lesbian and gay community while at Princeton. Joslin also describes his experiences learning to live with HIV.

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Homophobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Xenophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 14, 2022

Fund for Reunion

During the 1985 reunions, Richard Limoges ‘60, who was attending his 25th reunion, attempted to make a donation to the University “to be used to fund gay and lesbian student activities.” The University refused the donation, so in the fall of 1985, Limoges turned to student leaders Shawn Cowls ‘87 and Margaret Miller ‘87, recruiting them to find a way in which the money donated to GAP and GWOP could be officially recognized by the University.

GAP had accumulated a number of alumni contacts in the fourteen years since its conception. Using these contacts, Cowls found approximately thirty alumni interested in creating a gay alumni group. Ten alumni met for a reception and meeting on Alumni Day, 1986. At this first meeting, the group worked to find a name for their new organization. Reaching a consensus was difficult, but the alumni collectively agreed on the name “Fund for Reunion.” The name was kept purposefully vague for discretion, so alumni could receive letters from the group without being outed.

The group would also work to support gay and lesbian student groups and lobby the University to improve the campus climate for gay students. Cowls, Miller, and Limoges had met with Dean Muriel Whitcomb on December 9, 1985 to explore the possibility of establishing a gay alumni group, which could support gay student groups. It would become clear in the following months that University restrictions on the formation of such a group would be prohibitive. For this reason, FFR was created to be entirely separate from the University. A lawyer who was present at the first meeting incorporated FFR as a non-profit organization on May 30, 1986. It was also decided at the first meeting that FFR would be separate from Princeton GALA. However, the two organizations merged eight months later under FFR, and its events began appearing in the Reunions Guide in 1993.

During the 1985 reunions, Richard Limoges ‘60, who was attending his 25th reunion, attempted to make a donation to the University “to be used to fund gay and lesbian student activities.” The University refused the donation, so in the fall of 1985, Limoges turned to student leaders Shawn Cowls ‘87 and Margaret Miller ‘87, recruiting them to find a way in which the money donated to GAP and GWOP could be officially recognized by the University.

GAP had accumulated a number of alumni contacts in the fourteen years since its conception. Using these contacts, Cowls found approximately thirty alumni interested in creating a gay alumni group. Ten alumni met for a reception and meeting on Alumni Day, 1986. At this first meeting, the group worked to find a name for their new organization. Reaching a consensus was difficult, but the alumni collectively agreed on the name “Fund for Reunion.” The name was kept purposefully vague for discretion, so alumni could receive letters from the group without being outed.

The group would also work to support gay and lesbian student groups and lobby the University to improve the campus climate for gay students. Cowls, Miller, and Limoges had met with Dean Muriel Whitcomb on December 9, 1985 to explore the possibility of establishing a gay alumni group, which could support gay student groups. It would become clear in the following months that University restrictions on the formation of such a group would be prohibitive. For this reason, FFR was created to be entirely separate from the University. A lawyer who was present at the first meeting incorporated FFR as a non-profit organization on May 30, 1986. It was also decided at the first meeting that FFR would be separate from Princeton GALA. However, the two organizations merged eight months later under FFR, and its events began appearing in the Reunions Guide in 1993.

Fund for Reunion

During the 1985 reunions, Richard Limoges ‘60, who was attending his 25th reunion, attempted to make a donation to the University “to be used to fund gay and lesbian student activities.” The University refused the donation, so in the fall of 1985, Limoges turned to student leaders Shawn Cowls ‘87 and Margaret Miller ‘87, recruiting them to find a way in which the money donated to GAP and GWOP could be officially recognized by the University.

GAP had accumulated a number of alumni contacts in the fourteen years since its conception. Using these contacts, Cowls found approximately thirty alumni interested in creating a gay alumni group. Ten alumni met for a reception and meeting on Alumni Day, 1986. At this first meeting, the group worked to find a name for their new organization. Reaching a consensus was difficult, but the alumni collectively agreed on the name “Fund for Reunion.” The name was kept purposefully vague for discretion, so alumni could receive letters from the group without being outed.

The group would also work to support gay and lesbian student groups and lobby the University to improve the campus climate for gay students. Cowls, Miller, and Limoges had met with Dean Muriel Whitcomb on December 9, 1985 to explore the possibility of establishing a gay alumni group, which could support gay student groups. It would become clear in the following months that University restrictions on the formation of such a group would be prohibitive. For this reason, FFR was created to be entirely separate from the University. A lawyer who was present at the first meeting incorporated FFR as a non-profit organization on May 30, 1986. It was also decided at the first meeting that FFR would be separate from Princeton GALA. However, the two organizations merged eight months later under FFR, and its events began appearing in the Reunions Guide in 1993.

During the 1985 reunions, Richard Limoges ‘60, who was attending his 25th reunion, attempted to make a donation to the University “to be used to fund gay and lesbian student activities.” The University refused the donation, so in the fall of 1985, Limoges turned to student leaders Shawn Cowls ‘87 and Margaret Miller ‘87, recruiting them to find a way in which the money donated to GAP and GWOP could be officially recognized by the University.

GAP had accumulated a number of alumni contacts in the fourteen years since its conception. Using these contacts, Cowls found approximately thirty alumni interested in creating a gay alumni group. Ten alumni met for a reception and meeting on Alumni Day, 1986. At this first meeting, the group worked to find a name for their new organization. Reaching a consensus was difficult, but the alumni collectively agreed on the name “Fund for Reunion.” The name was kept purposefully vague for discretion, so alumni could receive letters from the group without being outed.

The group would also work to support gay and lesbian student groups and lobby the University to improve the campus climate for gay students. Cowls, Miller, and Limoges had met with Dean Muriel Whitcomb on December 9, 1985 to explore the possibility of establishing a gay alumni group, which could support gay student groups. It would become clear in the following months that University restrictions on the formation of such a group would be prohibitive. For this reason, FFR was created to be entirely separate from the University. A lawyer who was present at the first meeting incorporated FFR as a non-profit organization on May 30, 1986. It was also decided at the first meeting that FFR would be separate from Princeton GALA. However, the two organizations merged eight months later under FFR, and its events began appearing in the Reunions Guide in 1993.

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David Jackson

Jackson reflects on his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student who advocated for better racial inclusion efforts from administrators. He speaks about his time as USG president, his involvement with the College Republicans, and his advocacy for a more diverse RA population. In addition, he discusses his graduate studies, his time at Lehman Brothers, coming out to his family, and his changing opinions on his Princeton experience. Finally, he also speaks on racism he faced throughout his life, his reactions to discrimination, and the friendships he formed at Princeton.

Jackson reflects on his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student who advocated for better racial inclusion efforts from administrators. He speaks about his time as USG president, his involvement with the College Republicans, and his advocacy for a more diverse RA population. In addition, he discusses his graduate studies, his time at Lehman Brothers, coming out to his family, and his changing opinions on his Princeton experience. Finally, he also speaks on racism he faced throughout his life, his reactions to discrimination, and the friendships he formed at Princeton.

Class of 1987

David Jackson

Jackson reflects on his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student who advocated for better racial inclusion efforts from administrators. He speaks about his time as USG president, his involvement with the College Republicans, and his advocacy for a more diverse RA population. In addition, he discusses his graduate studies, his time at Lehman Brothers, coming out to his family, and his changing opinions on his Princeton experience. Finally, he also speaks on racism he faced throughout his life, his reactions to discrimination, and the friendships he formed at Princeton.

Jackson reflects on his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student who advocated for better racial inclusion efforts from administrators. He speaks about his time as USG president, his involvement with the College Republicans, and his advocacy for a more diverse RA population. In addition, he discusses his graduate studies, his time at Lehman Brothers, coming out to his family, and his changing opinions on his Princeton experience. Finally, he also speaks on racism he faced throughout his life, his reactions to discrimination, and the friendships he formed at Princeton.

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Homosexual men, Black, African-American, Catholic, Military, 9/11, Mental health, Religion and queerness, Campus visit, Third World Center, Student Government, Cloister (eating club), College Republicans, Log Cabin Republicans, George W. Bush Administration, Residential College Advisor (RCA), Aquinas Institute, Terrace (eating club), HIV/AIDS activism, Reunions, LGBT alumni, Finance, Coming out, Friend acceptance, Family estrangement, Family acceptance
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Racism mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Depression mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 10, 2018

Glen Pannell

Glen Pannell discusses his involvement with the theater scene while at Princeton University, then his engagement with the New York theater scene, which introduced him to the gay community at the height of the AIDS crisis. He describes going on to a graduate program in theatrical performance in California and working as a professional in the theater world. Pannell discusses his process of exploring his sexuality and coming out to his friends and family. Finally, Pannell discusses his current community-oriented work, including dressing as a sexy Mike Pence to raise over $66,000 for charities like Planned Parenthood during the Trump administration and his work mentoring queer immigrants.

Glen Pannell discusses his involvement with the theater scene while at Princeton University, then his engagement with the New York theater scene, which introduced him to the gay community at the height of the AIDS crisis. He describes going on to a graduate program in theatrical performance in California and working as a professional in the theater world. Pannell discusses his process of exploring his sexuality and coming out to his friends and family. Finally, Pannell discusses his current community-oriented work, including dressing as a sexy Mike Pence to raise over $66,000 for charities like Planned Parenthood during the Trump administration and his work mentoring queer immigrants.

Class of 1987

Glen Pannell

Glen Pannell discusses his involvement with the theater scene while at Princeton University, then his engagement with the New York theater scene, which introduced him to the gay community at the height of the AIDS crisis. He describes going on to a graduate program in theatrical performance in California and working as a professional in the theater world. Pannell discusses his process of exploring his sexuality and coming out to his friends and family. Finally, Pannell discusses his current community-oriented work, including dressing as a sexy Mike Pence to raise over $66,000 for charities like Planned Parenthood during the Trump administration and his work mentoring queer immigrants.

Glen Pannell discusses his involvement with the theater scene while at Princeton University, then his engagement with the New York theater scene, which introduced him to the gay community at the height of the AIDS crisis. He describes going on to a graduate program in theatrical performance in California and working as a professional in the theater world. Pannell discusses his process of exploring his sexuality and coming out to his friends and family. Finally, Pannell discusses his current community-oriented work, including dressing as a sexy Mike Pence to raise over $66,000 for charities like Planned Parenthood during the Trump administration and his work mentoring queer immigrants.

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Gay men, Men, White, Catholic, Religious school, English, Theater, University Press, Triangle Club, The Annex (bar), Ivy Inn, Michael Cadden, University of San Diego, Clubs/bars, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Cruising, First relationship, Heteronormativity, HIV/AIDS crisis, Closeted, Coming out, PFLAG, Harrassment, Trump Administration, Activism, LGBT activism, Feminist activism, Reproductive justice, Immigration, Undergraduate
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Homophobia meantioned, Illness and death mentioned
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July 26, 2022

Hayley Gorenberg

Gorenberg speaks about her time at Princeton as a female student and her legal work in support of LGBT communities. She describes misogyny she faced at Princeton, influential classes, and how she formed a community with other women at the university. She talks about her activist and journalistic work during the AIDS pandemic and her legal career in public interest law. Finally, she discusses attending the She Roars alumni events and her role as director of New York Lawyers for Public Interest.

Gorenberg speaks about her time at Princeton as a female student and her legal work in support of LGBT communities. She describes misogyny she faced at Princeton, influential classes, and how she formed a community with other women at the university. She talks about her activist and journalistic work during the AIDS pandemic and her legal career in public interest law. Finally, she discusses attending the She Roars alumni events and her role as director of New York Lawyers for Public Interest.

Class of 1987

Hayley Gorenberg

Gorenberg speaks about her time at Princeton as a female student and her legal work in support of LGBT communities. She describes misogyny she faced at Princeton, influential classes, and how she formed a community with other women at the university. She talks about her activist and journalistic work during the AIDS pandemic and her legal career in public interest law. Finally, she discusses attending the She Roars alumni events and her role as director of New York Lawyers for Public Interest.

Gorenberg speaks about her time at Princeton as a female student and her legal work in support of LGBT communities. She describes misogyny she faced at Princeton, influential classes, and how she formed a community with other women at the university. She talks about her activist and journalistic work during the AIDS pandemic and her legal career in public interest law. Finally, she discusses attending the She Roars alumni events and her role as director of New York Lawyers for Public Interest.

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Harassment mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Anti-Semitism mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
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July 1, 2019

Student Groups

In the Fall of 1987, GWOP and GAP merged to become GALAP (Gays and Lesbians at Princeton). However, the main GALAP meetings remained dominated by men, while women continued to meet separately under the title “Lesbian Task Force.” This would continue until 2002. GAP underwent a number of name changes in the 1980s and 1990s, including: Gay and Bi Men on Campus, GALAP, GABLAP, GLOBAL, LGBA, and Pride Alliance.

In the same semester that GWOP and GAP merged, a GALAP member named Greg Christianson ‘89 attempted to lead a GALAP campaign calling for the University to enforce its non-discrimination policy. GALAP members were not enthusiastic; most wanted GALAP to remain a social group. Thus, in 1988, Christenson founded the Coalition Against Homophobia, an organization separate from GALAP, which could engage in campus activism as well as attract straight allies .

In the Fall of 1987, GWOP and GAP merged to become GALAP (Gays and Lesbians at Princeton). However, the main GALAP meetings remained dominated by men, while women continued to meet separately under the title “Lesbian Task Force.” This would continue until 2002. GAP underwent a number of name changes in the 1980s and 1990s, including: Gay and Bi Men on Campus, GALAP, GABLAP, GLOBAL, LGBA, and Pride Alliance.

In the same semester that GWOP and GAP merged, a GALAP member named Greg Christianson ‘89 attempted to lead a GALAP campaign calling for the University to enforce its non-discrimination policy. GALAP members were not enthusiastic; most wanted GALAP to remain a social group. Thus, in 1988, Christenson founded the Coalition Against Homophobia, an organization separate from GALAP, which could engage in campus activism as well as attract straight allies .

In the Fall of 1987, GWOP and GAP merged to become GALAP (Gays and Lesbians at Princeton). However, the main GALAP meetings remained dominated by men, while women continued to meet separately under the title “Lesbian Task Force.” This would continue until 2002. GAP underwent a number of name changes in the 1980s and 1990s, including: Gay and Bi Men on Campus, GALAP, GABLAP, GLOBAL, LGBA, and Pride Alliance.

In the same semester that GWOP and GAP merged, a GALAP member named Greg Christianson ‘89 attempted to lead a GALAP campaign calling for the University to enforce its non-discrimination policy. GALAP members were not enthusiastic; most wanted GALAP to remain a social group. Thus, in 1988, Christenson founded the Coalition Against Homophobia, an organization separate from GALAP, which could engage in campus activism as well as attract straight allies .

In the Fall of 1987, GWOP and GAP merged to become GALAP (Gays and Lesbians at Princeton). However, the main GALAP meetings remained dominated by men, while women continued to meet separately under the title “Lesbian Task Force.” This would continue until 2002. GAP underwent a number of name changes in the 1980s and 1990s, including: Gay and Bi Men on Campus, GALAP, GABLAP, GLOBAL, LGBA, and Pride Alliance.

In the same semester that GWOP and GAP merged, a GALAP member named Greg Christianson ‘89 attempted to lead a GALAP campaign calling for the University to enforce its non-discrimination policy. GALAP members were not enthusiastic; most wanted GALAP to remain a social group. Thus, in 1988, Christenson founded the Coalition Against Homophobia, an organization separate from GALAP, which could engage in campus activism as well as attract straight allies .

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Joe Smoke

Smoke discusses attending Princeton as an out, gay student-athlete. He speaks about questioning his sexuality during his childhood, how he came to attend Princeton, and early sexual experiences. He also talks about coming out during the AIDS epidemic, other students who were out on campus, joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, his time as a member of Terrace eating club, and cruising in Firestone Library. Finally, he discusses changing his name, organizing with ACT UP in New York and LA, his involvement with the leather community, and his photography career.

Smoke discusses attending Princeton as an out, gay student-athlete. He speaks about questioning his sexuality during his childhood, how he came to attend Princeton, and early sexual experiences. He also talks about coming out during the AIDS epidemic, other students who were out on campus, joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, his time as a member of Terrace eating club, and cruising in Firestone Library. Finally, he discusses changing his name, organizing with ACT UP in New York and LA, his involvement with the leather community, and his photography career.

Class of 1987

Joe Smoke

Smoke discusses attending Princeton as an out, gay student-athlete. He speaks about questioning his sexuality during his childhood, how he came to attend Princeton, and early sexual experiences. He also talks about coming out during the AIDS epidemic, other students who were out on campus, joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, his time as a member of Terrace eating club, and cruising in Firestone Library. Finally, he discusses changing his name, organizing with ACT UP in New York and LA, his involvement with the leather community, and his photography career.

Smoke discusses attending Princeton as an out, gay student-athlete. He speaks about questioning his sexuality during his childhood, how he came to attend Princeton, and early sexual experiences. He also talks about coming out during the AIDS epidemic, other students who were out on campus, joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, his time as a member of Terrace eating club, and cruising in Firestone Library. Finally, he discusses changing his name, organizing with ACT UP in New York and LA, his involvement with the leather community, and his photography career.

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White, Gay, Undergraduate student, Siblings, Coming out, Name change, Athletics, Immigration, Second-generation immigrant, Music, Catholic, Christian, Queer awakening, First relationship, Losing a friend, Hookups, Princeton Swim Team, Campus visit, Personal Ads, Sexual awakening, Library and queer awakening, First awareness of queer people, Butler (residential college), Triangle Club, Closeted, Bicker, Ivy (eating club), Terrace (eating club), Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Theater, Closeted, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Gay dance, Clubs/bars, GAP lending library, HIV/AIDS crisis, Leather, Art History, HIV/AIDS activism, Senior thesis, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), Losing friends, Moved to LGBTQ+ friendly city, Naked swimming, Dillon Gym Pool, Family estrangement, Family acceptance, Religion and queerness, LGBT Activism, Philanthropy, Discrimination, Fetish, Photography, Divorce, Internet dating
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Racism mentioned, Sexism mentioned
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July 26, 2017

Jon Carl Lewis

Lewis speaks about his time at Princeton as a black, closeted student. He discusses his time with the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, the discrimination faced by Black students, the Nude Olympics, and his inability to enter an eating club during his last two years at Princeton. He also speaks about homophobia during his time at the Princeton Theological Seminary, his transfer to Harvard Divinity School, and his career as a journalist. Finally, he discusses re-developing his connection to Princeton by joining the board for the alumni group Fund for Reunion.

Lewis speaks about his time at Princeton as a black, closeted student. He discusses his time with the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, the discrimination faced by Black students, the Nude Olympics, and his inability to enter an eating club during his last two years at Princeton. He also speaks about homophobia during his time at the Princeton Theological Seminary, his transfer to Harvard Divinity School, and his career as a journalist. Finally, he discusses re-developing his connection to Princeton by joining the board for the alumni group Fund for Reunion.

Class of 1987

Jon Carl Lewis

Lewis speaks about his time at Princeton as a black, closeted student. He discusses his time with the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, the discrimination faced by Black students, the Nude Olympics, and his inability to enter an eating club during his last two years at Princeton. He also speaks about homophobia during his time at the Princeton Theological Seminary, his transfer to Harvard Divinity School, and his career as a journalist. Finally, he discusses re-developing his connection to Princeton by joining the board for the alumni group Fund for Reunion.

Lewis speaks about his time at Princeton as a black, closeted student. He discusses his time with the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, the discrimination faced by Black students, the Nude Olympics, and his inability to enter an eating club during his last two years at Princeton. He also speaks about homophobia during his time at the Princeton Theological Seminary, his transfer to Harvard Divinity School, and his career as a journalist. Finally, he discusses re-developing his connection to Princeton by joining the board for the alumni group Fund for Reunion.

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Gay men, Men, Black, Methodist, Evangelical, Episcopalian, Employment discrimination, Socioeconomic inequality, Sexual awakening, Coming out, Mental health, Religion and queerness, Blair Hall, Same-sex dorms, Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, First relationship, Shawn Cowls, Reunions, BTGALA, Princeton Theological Seminary, HIV/AIDS crisis, Cruising, McCosh Hall, Bicker, Ivy (eating club), Carter Cooper, Athletics, Nude Olympics, Cane Spree, Michelle Robinson, Chapel Choir, Terrace (eating club), Terrace Dances, Stevenson Hall, Fund for Reunion, John Boswell, Harvard Divinity, Journalism, LGBT activism, Gay marriage legalized, Moving to LGBTQ+ friendly city, Marriage, Therapy, Undergraduate
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Racism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Student death mentioned, Sexism mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 1, 2019

Rhonda Adams Medina

Adams discusses her familial and academic upbringing as racially discriminatory but largely affirming of her identity as a Black woman and her childhood perspective on LGBTQ identities. She explains her experience as an ally at a Gay at Princeton (GAP) meeting in the 1980s and reflects on the ways she used awareness of the group to better inform her RA work. Finally, she explains how she's continued to maintain her allyship throughout her personal life. Other topics include personal, formative college experiences like her long-term relationship with her boyfriend and her close proximity to a student death on campus.

Adams discusses her familial and academic upbringing as racially discriminatory but largely affirming of her identity as a Black woman and her childhood perspective on LGBTQ identities. She explains her experience as an ally at a Gay at Princeton (GAP) meeting in the 1980s and reflects on the ways she used awareness of the group to better inform her RA work. Finally, she explains how she's continued to maintain her allyship throughout her personal life. Other topics include personal, formative college experiences like her long-term relationship with her boyfriend and her close proximity to a student death on campus.

Class of 1987

Rhonda Adams Medina

Adams discusses her familial and academic upbringing as racially discriminatory but largely affirming of her identity as a Black woman and her childhood perspective on LGBTQ identities. She explains her experience as an ally at a Gay at Princeton (GAP) meeting in the 1980s and reflects on the ways she used awareness of the group to better inform her RA work. Finally, she explains how she's continued to maintain her allyship throughout her personal life. Other topics include personal, formative college experiences like her long-term relationship with her boyfriend and her close proximity to a student death on campus.

Adams discusses her familial and academic upbringing as racially discriminatory but largely affirming of her identity as a Black woman and her childhood perspective on LGBTQ identities. She explains her experience as an ally at a Gay at Princeton (GAP) meeting in the 1980s and reflects on the ways she used awareness of the group to better inform her RA work. Finally, she explains how she's continued to maintain her allyship throughout her personal life. Other topics include personal, formative college experiences like her long-term relationship with her boyfriend and her close proximity to a student death on campus.

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Christian, Black, women, African-American, Ally, Stonewall, Family acceptance, East Asian Studies, African American Studies, Woodrow Wilson School, Japanese Language, Third World Center, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Residential College Advisor (RCA), Eating clubs, HIV/AIDS crisis, Drugs, Minority Business Association (MBA), Gospel Choir, South Africa Apartheid Activism, interracial friendships, interracial relationships, Law
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Homophobia mentioned, Slur, Suicide mentioned, Student death mentioned
Interviewed on 
June 30, 2017

First LGBTQ+ Course Offered at Princeton

The first gay-themed course was offered at Princeton in Spring 1988. The English department offered an undergraduate seminar, “Sexuality and Textuality: Speaking the Unspeakable,” taught by Michael Cadden, an assistant professor. The course explored the development of gay literature and included readings from the Bible, Shakespeare, Herman Melville, and Virginia Woolf. Cadden would go on to become Director of the Princeton Theatre Program and Acting Chair of the Peter B. Lewis Center for the Arts. Diana Fuss and a few other faculty were also instrumental in offering LGBT and queer courses, generating scholarship, and supporting students’ academic pursuits.

The first gay-themed course was offered at Princeton in Spring 1988. The English department offered an undergraduate seminar, “Sexuality and Textuality: Speaking the Unspeakable,” taught by Michael Cadden, an assistant professor. The course explored the development of gay literature and included readings from the Bible, Shakespeare, Herman Melville, and Virginia Woolf. Cadden would go on to become Director of the Princeton Theatre Program and Acting Chair of the Peter B. Lewis Center for the Arts. Diana Fuss and a few other faculty were also instrumental in offering LGBT and queer courses, generating scholarship, and supporting students’ academic pursuits.

First LGBTQ+ Course Offered at Princeton

The first gay-themed course was offered at Princeton in Spring 1988. The English department offered an undergraduate seminar, “Sexuality and Textuality: Speaking the Unspeakable,” taught by Michael Cadden, an assistant professor. The course explored the development of gay literature and included readings from the Bible, Shakespeare, Herman Melville, and Virginia Woolf. Cadden would go on to become Director of the Princeton Theatre Program and Acting Chair of the Peter B. Lewis Center for the Arts. Diana Fuss and a few other faculty were also instrumental in offering LGBT and queer courses, generating scholarship, and supporting students’ academic pursuits.

The first gay-themed course was offered at Princeton in Spring 1988. The English department offered an undergraduate seminar, “Sexuality and Textuality: Speaking the Unspeakable,” taught by Michael Cadden, an assistant professor. The course explored the development of gay literature and included readings from the Bible, Shakespeare, Herman Melville, and Virginia Woolf. Cadden would go on to become Director of the Princeton Theatre Program and Acting Chair of the Peter B. Lewis Center for the Arts. Diana Fuss and a few other faculty were also instrumental in offering LGBT and queer courses, generating scholarship, and supporting students’ academic pursuits.

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Robert Gleason

Gleason discusses his time at Princeton as a male gay student. He speaks about his involvement with a variety of theater groups on campus including his time as general manager of Theatre Intime, a stage manager for a variety of student shows, and his experience as a member of Triangle Club. He also talks about his visibility as one of the few out students on campus, finding a queer community within Terrace Eating Club, and how he perceived the dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his career as a hotel executive, forming a family after receiving marriage equality, and his involvement as a patron for San Diego's LGBT center and arts groups.

Gleason discusses his time at Princeton as a male gay student. He speaks about his involvement with a variety of theater groups on campus including his time as general manager of Theatre Intime, a stage manager for a variety of student shows, and his experience as a member of Triangle Club. He also talks about his visibility as one of the few out students on campus, finding a queer community within Terrace Eating Club, and how he perceived the dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his career as a hotel executive, forming a family after receiving marriage equality, and his involvement as a patron for San Diego's LGBT center and arts groups.

Class of 1987

Robert Gleason

Gleason discusses his time at Princeton as a male gay student. He speaks about his involvement with a variety of theater groups on campus including his time as general manager of Theatre Intime, a stage manager for a variety of student shows, and his experience as a member of Triangle Club. He also talks about his visibility as one of the few out students on campus, finding a queer community within Terrace Eating Club, and how he perceived the dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his career as a hotel executive, forming a family after receiving marriage equality, and his involvement as a patron for San Diego's LGBT center and arts groups.

Gleason discusses his time at Princeton as a male gay student. He speaks about his involvement with a variety of theater groups on campus including his time as general manager of Theatre Intime, a stage manager for a variety of student shows, and his experience as a member of Triangle Club. He also talks about his visibility as one of the few out students on campus, finding a queer community within Terrace Eating Club, and how he perceived the dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about his career as a hotel executive, forming a family after receiving marriage equality, and his involvement as a patron for San Diego's LGBT center and arts groups.

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Gay men, White, Theater, Religious school, Catholic, Coming out, First relationship, HIV/AIDS crisis, Every Voice conference, Princeton Preview, Triangle Club, Theater Intime, 185 Nassau, Butler (residential college), Terrace (eating club), Economics, Senior thesis, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Reunions, BTGALA, Third World Center, Law, LGBT activism, Marriage, Having children, Marriage Equality Movement, Gay marriage legalized, Parenting
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Harassment mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 3, 2017

Shawn Cowls

Cowls speaks about attending Princeton as an out gay man and the president of the Gay Alliance at Princeton. He discusses interviewing with local and student newspapers amidst the AIDS crisis, the programming and reforms he enacted on GAP as president, organizing funding for LGBT events through the Fund for Reunion and Princeton GALA alumni groups, and the discomfort he felt on campus. In addition, he speaks on the influence of the Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP) group, how his identity affected his working and personal life after Princeton, and his continued work with Princeton BTGALA.

Cowls speaks about attending Princeton as an out gay man and the president of the Gay Alliance at Princeton. He discusses interviewing with local and student newspapers amidst the AIDS crisis, the programming and reforms he enacted on GAP as president, organizing funding for LGBT events through the Fund for Reunion and Princeton GALA alumni groups, and the discomfort he felt on campus. In addition, he speaks on the influence of the Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP) group, how his identity affected his working and personal life after Princeton, and his continued work with Princeton BTGALA.

Class of 1987

Shawn Cowls

Cowls speaks about attending Princeton as an out gay man and the president of the Gay Alliance at Princeton. He discusses interviewing with local and student newspapers amidst the AIDS crisis, the programming and reforms he enacted on GAP as president, organizing funding for LGBT events through the Fund for Reunion and Princeton GALA alumni groups, and the discomfort he felt on campus. In addition, he speaks on the influence of the Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP) group, how his identity affected his working and personal life after Princeton, and his continued work with Princeton BTGALA.

Cowls speaks about attending Princeton as an out gay man and the president of the Gay Alliance at Princeton. He discusses interviewing with local and student newspapers amidst the AIDS crisis, the programming and reforms he enacted on GAP as president, organizing funding for LGBT events through the Fund for Reunion and Princeton GALA alumni groups, and the discomfort he felt on campus. In addition, he speaks on the influence of the Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP) group, how his identity affected his working and personal life after Princeton, and his continued work with Princeton BTGALA.

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Gay men, White, closeted, Coming out, Sexuality Education, Counseling , and Health (SECH), Generational understandings of identity, Travel abroad, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP), HIV/AIDS crisis, LGBT activism, Margaret Miller, The Closet, Murray Dodge, The Fund for Reunion (FFR), Gay and Lesbian Alumni (GALA), Charter (eating club), William Bowen, Michael Cadden, The Annex, Clubs/bars, Family estrangement, Family acceptance, Employment discrimination, Marriage, Princeton University Chapel, Meeting partner, LGBT Center, Annual Giving, LGBT alumni
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Sexism mentioned, Slur, Homophobia mentioned, Harassment mentioned, Depression mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 16, 2017

Tanya Dotson Winckler

Dotson discusses her upbringing in a lower-middle class family in the Bronx and how April Hosting influenced her decision to attend Princeton. She describes coming out in her junior and senior year of college and her parent's negative reaction. In addition, she speaks about feeling comfortable in the Princeton Inn dorms and at the Third World Center. Finally, she talks about her relationship with her current wife, personal inspirations, and her entrepreneurial career.

Dotson discusses her upbringing in a lower-middle class family in the Bronx and how April Hosting influenced her decision to attend Princeton. She describes coming out in her junior and senior year of college and her parent's negative reaction. In addition, she speaks about feeling comfortable in the Princeton Inn dorms and at the Third World Center. Finally, she talks about her relationship with her current wife, personal inspirations, and her entrepreneurial career.

Class of 1982

Tanya Dotson Winckler

Dotson discusses her upbringing in a lower-middle class family in the Bronx and how April Hosting influenced her decision to attend Princeton. She describes coming out in her junior and senior year of college and her parent's negative reaction. In addition, she speaks about feeling comfortable in the Princeton Inn dorms and at the Third World Center. Finally, she talks about her relationship with her current wife, personal inspirations, and her entrepreneurial career.

Dotson discusses her upbringing in a lower-middle class family in the Bronx and how April Hosting influenced her decision to attend Princeton. She describes coming out in her junior and senior year of college and her parent's negative reaction. In addition, she speaks about feeling comfortable in the Princeton Inn dorms and at the Third World Center. Finally, she talks about her relationship with her current wife, personal inspirations, and her entrepreneurial career.

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Gay women, Women, Black, Socioeconomic inequality, Music, Queer awakening, Campus visit, Pre-medical (educational track), Psychology, Science and Human Affairs, First relationship, Attraction to friend, Heteronormativity, Coming out, Losing friends, Family estrangement, Medical school, Marriage, Divorce, Third World Center, Forbes (residential college), Dance, Expressions Dance Company, Athletics, Parenting, Undergraduate
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Racism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Abusive relationship mentioned, Slur
Interviewed on 
July 19, 2017

William Ho

Ho speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He speaks on how he decided to attend Princeton, his membership with the Quadrangle eating club, his thoughts on the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his involvement with the University yearbook club. In addition, he talks about coming out during medical school, leading support groups for gay students, and participating in gay activism. Finally, he discusses how he found a career in biotechnology, met his husband, and his current social network.

Ho speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He speaks on how he decided to attend Princeton, his membership with the Quadrangle eating club, his thoughts on the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his involvement with the University yearbook club. In addition, he talks about coming out during medical school, leading support groups for gay students, and participating in gay activism. Finally, he discusses how he found a career in biotechnology, met his husband, and his current social network.

Class of 1987

William Ho

Ho speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He speaks on how he decided to attend Princeton, his membership with the Quadrangle eating club, his thoughts on the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his involvement with the University yearbook club. In addition, he talks about coming out during medical school, leading support groups for gay students, and participating in gay activism. Finally, he discusses how he found a career in biotechnology, met his husband, and his current social network.

Ho speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He speaks on how he decided to attend Princeton, his membership with the Quadrangle eating club, his thoughts on the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his involvement with the University yearbook club. In addition, he talks about coming out during medical school, leading support groups for gay students, and participating in gay activism. Finally, he discusses how he found a career in biotechnology, met his husband, and his current social network.

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Gay men, Men, Asian-American, Chinese, Zee group, Closeted, Reunions, Public school, Molecular biology, UCSF, Medical school, Grad school, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Shawn Cowls, Michael Paley, Stanford, Coming out, Family acceptance, LGBT activism, Princeton Alumni Weekly (PAW), Terrace Dances, Yearbook, Work study, Quadrangle (eating club), Butler (residential college), Fund for Reunion, Third World Center, Glen Pannell, Marriage, Internet dating, HIV/AIDS crisis, Pride parade, Trump Administration, Undergraduate
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Interviewed on 
June 11, 2017

Student Discourse and HIV/AIDS

In April 1988, Heather Stephenson ‘90 and Greg Christianson ‘98 organized a week-long AIDS benefit to raise campus awareness as well as money. Few graduates and undergraduates participated. This was indicative of student attitudes towards AIDS. Said one graduate student who attended a panel, “An undergrad asked me, ‘Why should we have this AIDS benefit? Nobody here has AIDS.’”

By 1989, the Princeton response to the AIDS epidemic had grown from being a problem the University was hesitant to touch to becoming a major part of Princeton discourse. In the early days of the disease, McCosh was hesitant to send out AIDS prevention pamphlets to the general population, not wanting to “cause undue panic” In contrast, on October 11, 1989, AIDS information was handed out at tables outside Firestone. The University started a Campus AIDS Education Coordinating Committee.

In April 1988, Heather Stephenson ‘90 and Greg Christianson ‘98 organized a week-long AIDS benefit to raise campus awareness as well as money. Few graduates and undergraduates participated. This was indicative of student attitudes towards AIDS. Said one graduate student who attended a panel, “An undergrad asked me, ‘Why should we have this AIDS benefit? Nobody here has AIDS.’”

By 1989, the Princeton response to the AIDS epidemic had grown from being a problem the University was hesitant to touch to becoming a major part of Princeton discourse. In the early days of the disease, McCosh was hesitant to send out AIDS prevention pamphlets to the general population, not wanting to “cause undue panic” In contrast, on October 11, 1989, AIDS information was handed out at tables outside Firestone. The University started a Campus AIDS Education Coordinating Committee.

Student Discourse and HIV/AIDS

In April 1988, Heather Stephenson ‘90 and Greg Christianson ‘98 organized a week-long AIDS benefit to raise campus awareness as well as money. Few graduates and undergraduates participated. This was indicative of student attitudes towards AIDS. Said one graduate student who attended a panel, “An undergrad asked me, ‘Why should we have this AIDS benefit? Nobody here has AIDS.’”

By 1989, the Princeton response to the AIDS epidemic had grown from being a problem the University was hesitant to touch to becoming a major part of Princeton discourse. In the early days of the disease, McCosh was hesitant to send out AIDS prevention pamphlets to the general population, not wanting to “cause undue panic” In contrast, on October 11, 1989, AIDS information was handed out at tables outside Firestone. The University started a Campus AIDS Education Coordinating Committee.

In April 1988, Heather Stephenson ‘90 and Greg Christianson ‘98 organized a week-long AIDS benefit to raise campus awareness as well as money. Few graduates and undergraduates participated. This was indicative of student attitudes towards AIDS. Said one graduate student who attended a panel, “An undergrad asked me, ‘Why should we have this AIDS benefit? Nobody here has AIDS.’”

By 1989, the Princeton response to the AIDS epidemic had grown from being a problem the University was hesitant to touch to becoming a major part of Princeton discourse. In the early days of the disease, McCosh was hesitant to send out AIDS prevention pamphlets to the general population, not wanting to “cause undue panic” In contrast, on October 11, 1989, AIDS information was handed out at tables outside Firestone. The University started a Campus AIDS Education Coordinating Committee.

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Daniel Acosta

Acosta reflects on his childhood in Chicago and how he navigated his second generation Mexican-American identity. He discusses his arrival to Princeton and his involvement in Charter, the Aquinas Institute, and the Third World Center. He also speaks about the visibility of an "out" classmate, his refusal to experiment during the AIDs crisis, and how he learned about Gay life through books at Firestone Library. Finally, he reflects on how he came to terms with his identity and discrimination he received during and after his time at Princeton.

Acosta reflects on his childhood in Chicago and how he navigated his second generation Mexican-American identity. He discusses his arrival to Princeton and his involvement in Charter, the Aquinas Institute, and the Third World Center. He also speaks about the visibility of an "out" classmate, his refusal to experiment during the AIDs crisis, and how he learned about Gay life through books at Firestone Library. Finally, he reflects on how he came to terms with his identity and discrimination he received during and after his time at Princeton.

Class of 1988

Daniel Acosta

Acosta reflects on his childhood in Chicago and how he navigated his second generation Mexican-American identity. He discusses his arrival to Princeton and his involvement in Charter, the Aquinas Institute, and the Third World Center. He also speaks about the visibility of an "out" classmate, his refusal to experiment during the AIDs crisis, and how he learned about Gay life through books at Firestone Library. Finally, he reflects on how he came to terms with his identity and discrimination he received during and after his time at Princeton.

Acosta reflects on his childhood in Chicago and how he navigated his second generation Mexican-American identity. He discusses his arrival to Princeton and his involvement in Charter, the Aquinas Institute, and the Third World Center. He also speaks about the visibility of an "out" classmate, his refusal to experiment during the AIDs crisis, and how he learned about Gay life through books at Firestone Library. Finally, he reflects on how he came to terms with his identity and discrimination he received during and after his time at Princeton.

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Gay men, Men, Latine/a/o/x or Hispanic, Mexican, Catholic, Mathey (residential college), socioeconomic inequality, Charter (eating club), hazing, Aquinas Institute, Third World Center, Chicano Caucus, Chemistry, Economics, Closeted, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), HIV/AIDS crisis, Libraries and queer awakening, Consulting, Phone Dating, Meeting partner, First date, Law, Second-generation immigrant, Religion and queerness
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Racism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 19, 2017

Greg Christianson

Christianson discusses his experience as an out, transfer student at Princeton from North Dakota. He speaks on joining the Gay Alliance of Princeton, later the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Princeton, leading an AIDS benefit his sophomore year, and organizing the Coalition Against Homophobia. Christianson highlights campus discourse surrounding ROTC and CIA recruitment efforts and a sit-in at Nassau Hall during his senior year. Finally, he talks about his career as an environmental lawyer and his current community network.

Christianson discusses his experience as an out, transfer student at Princeton from North Dakota. He speaks on joining the Gay Alliance of Princeton, later the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Princeton, leading an AIDS benefit his sophomore year, and organizing the Coalition Against Homophobia. Christianson highlights campus discourse surrounding ROTC and CIA recruitment efforts and a sit-in at Nassau Hall during his senior year. Finally, he talks about his career as an environmental lawyer and his current community network.

Class of 1989

Greg Christianson

Christianson discusses his experience as an out, transfer student at Princeton from North Dakota. He speaks on joining the Gay Alliance of Princeton, later the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Princeton, leading an AIDS benefit his sophomore year, and organizing the Coalition Against Homophobia. Christianson highlights campus discourse surrounding ROTC and CIA recruitment efforts and a sit-in at Nassau Hall during his senior year. Finally, he talks about his career as an environmental lawyer and his current community network.

Christianson discusses his experience as an out, transfer student at Princeton from North Dakota. He speaks on joining the Gay Alliance of Princeton, later the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Princeton, leading an AIDS benefit his sophomore year, and organizing the Coalition Against Homophobia. Christianson highlights campus discourse surrounding ROTC and CIA recruitment efforts and a sit-in at Nassau Hall during his senior year. Finally, he talks about his career as an environmental lawyer and his current community network.

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Gay men, White, Lutheran, Agnostic, Closeted, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Gay Women of Princeton (GWOP), Take Back the Night, Sexual Harassment/Assault Advising Resources and Education (SHARE), Non-discrimination policy, HIV/AIDS crisis, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), Lean on Me AIDS Benefit, Harold T. Shapiro, ROTC, Coalition Against Homophobia, Activism, LGBT Activism, Black activism, Architecture, Law, Clubs/bars, Eating clubs, Independent Meal Plan, Employment discrimination
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Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 11, 2017

Sean Foley

Foley discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about his time with the Glee Club, touring with the group, and his observations on gay student leaders and gay life within the University. He talks about entering his first gay relationship while working abroad, his time as a student at the Northwestern Kellogg School of Business, the role of spirituality in his life, and the process of coming out to his family. Other topics include: meeting his long-term, long-distance partner, finding a career in business consulting, and his opinion on the Every Voice conference.

Foley discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about his time with the Glee Club, touring with the group, and his observations on gay student leaders and gay life within the University. He talks about entering his first gay relationship while working abroad, his time as a student at the Northwestern Kellogg School of Business, the role of spirituality in his life, and the process of coming out to his family. Other topics include: meeting his long-term, long-distance partner, finding a career in business consulting, and his opinion on the Every Voice conference.

Class of 1989

Sean Foley

Foley discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about his time with the Glee Club, touring with the group, and his observations on gay student leaders and gay life within the University. He talks about entering his first gay relationship while working abroad, his time as a student at the Northwestern Kellogg School of Business, the role of spirituality in his life, and the process of coming out to his family. Other topics include: meeting his long-term, long-distance partner, finding a career in business consulting, and his opinion on the Every Voice conference.

Foley discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about his time with the Glee Club, touring with the group, and his observations on gay student leaders and gay life within the University. He talks about entering his first gay relationship while working abroad, his time as a student at the Northwestern Kellogg School of Business, the role of spirituality in his life, and the process of coming out to his family. Other topics include: meeting his long-term, long-distance partner, finding a career in business consulting, and his opinion on the Every Voice conference.

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gay men, White, Second-generation immigrant, Catholic, Public school, Campus visit, Glee Club, HIV/AIDS crisis, Chemical and Biological Engineering, Student government, Rockefeller (residential college), Asian American Student Association (AASA), Footnotes, Quadrangle (eating club), Closeted, Chancellor Green, Travel abroad, First relationship, Queer awakening, Coming out, Family acceptance, Religion and queerness, Meeting partner, Consulting, Every Voice conference
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Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
September 9, 2017
Lesbian Gay Bisexual Alliance Records (AC037), Box 3

Gay Jeans Day

By 1989, some GALAP members were becoming frustrated with the group’s stagnation. GALAP often attracted only a dozen students, who met in the basement of Murray Dodge. One member from that time called the group “a lonely hearts club.” GALAP wanted to revitalize itself. The members decided to have an awareness week. Daniel Mendelsohn *94, a GALAP member, suggested GALAP hold a Gay Jeans Day at Princeton, borrowing the idea from his undergraduate school. Gay Jeans Day was a simple concept; gay people and their allies would wear jeans to show their support. Mendelsohn had a background in advertising, and he was determined to advertise the event widely in order to make the day a success. GALAP members covered the campus in Gay Jeans Day posters on October 4, 1989. The posters were torn down almost as rapidly as they were tacked up, so the group made another round of postering on the 5th, and then again on the 6th. They also ran a half-page advertisement for a GALAP open house in The Daily Princetonian on the 6th, reading: “Open eyes? Open ears? Open minds? Open hearts? Open House.” On Monday October 9th, GALAP placed letters in every faculty and undergraduate mailbox explaining Gay Jeans Day. GALAP placed an editorial in The Prince on the 10th explaining Gay Jeans Day, as well as a full-page ad: “If you aren’t wearing jeans tomorrow everyone will know about you.”

According to Daniel Mendelsohn, faculty described October 11, 1989, Gay Jeans Day as the most volatile event that had taken place on campus since the Vietnam protests. Every athlete on the football team wore khaki shorts. As one student said, “I am not gay and neither do I want to support their gayness.” Many were reportedly offended by the decision the event required of them. The purpose of Gay Jeans Day was to force straight people to confront their feelings towards “homosexuality” just as gay people were perpetually forced to decide whether to be open about their sexuality or not. It unfortunately had the double effect of putting closeted students in a difficult position – to publicly affiliate themselves with the campus’ LGBTQIA+ community, or to appear to be positioned against it. Though the number of people who wore jeans that day is unknown, the event succeeded in raising awareness and calling attention to “the closet,” as well as emboldening GALAP.

By 1989, some GALAP members were becoming frustrated with the group’s stagnation. GALAP often attracted only a dozen students, who met in the basement of Murray Dodge. One member from that time called the group “a lonely hearts club.” GALAP wanted to revitalize itself. The members decided to have an awareness week. Daniel Mendelsohn *94, a GALAP member, suggested GALAP hold a Gay Jeans Day at Princeton, borrowing the idea from his undergraduate school. Gay Jeans Day was a simple concept; gay people and their allies would wear jeans to show their support. Mendelsohn had a background in advertising, and he was determined to advertise the event widely in order to make the day a success. GALAP members covered the campus in Gay Jeans Day posters on October 4, 1989. The posters were torn down almost as rapidly as they were tacked up, so the group made another round of postering on the 5th, and then again on the 6th. They also ran a half-page advertisement for a GALAP open house in The Daily Princetonian on the 6th, reading: “Open eyes? Open ears? Open minds? Open hearts? Open House.” On Monday October 9th, GALAP placed letters in every faculty and undergraduate mailbox explaining Gay Jeans Day. GALAP placed an editorial in The Prince on the 10th explaining Gay Jeans Day, as well as a full-page ad: “If you aren’t wearing jeans tomorrow everyone will know about you.”

According to Daniel Mendelsohn, faculty described October 11, 1989, Gay Jeans Day as the most volatile event that had taken place on campus since the Vietnam protests. Every athlete on the football team wore khaki shorts. As one student said, “I am not gay and neither do I want to support their gayness.” Many were reportedly offended by the decision the event required of them. The purpose of Gay Jeans Day was to force straight people to confront their feelings towards “homosexuality” just as gay people were perpetually forced to decide whether to be open about their sexuality or not. It unfortunately had the double effect of putting closeted students in a difficult position – to publicly affiliate themselves with the campus’ LGBTQIA+ community, or to appear to be positioned against it. Though the number of people who wore jeans that day is unknown, the event succeeded in raising awareness and calling attention to “the closet,” as well as emboldening GALAP.

By 1989, some GALAP members were becoming frustrated with the group’s stagnation. GALAP often attracted only a dozen students, who met in the basement of Murray Dodge. One member from that time called the group “a lonely hearts club.” GALAP wanted to revitalize itself. The members decided to have an awareness week. Daniel Mendelsohn *94, a GALAP member, suggested GALAP hold a Gay Jeans Day at Princeton, borrowing the idea from his undergraduate school. Gay Jeans Day was a simple concept; gay people and their allies would wear jeans to show their support. Mendelsohn had a background in advertising, and he was determined to advertise the event widely in order to make the day a success. GALAP members covered the campus in Gay Jeans Day posters on October 4, 1989. The posters were torn down almost as rapidly as they were tacked up, so the group made another round of postering on the 5th, and then again on the 6th. They also ran a half-page advertisement for a GALAP open house in The Daily Princetonian on the 6th, reading: “Open eyes? Open ears? Open minds? Open hearts? Open House.” On Monday October 9th, GALAP placed letters in every faculty and undergraduate mailbox explaining Gay Jeans Day. GALAP placed an editorial in The Prince on the 10th explaining Gay Jeans Day, as well as a full-page ad: “If you aren’t wearing jeans tomorrow everyone will know about you.”

According to Daniel Mendelsohn, faculty described October 11, 1989, Gay Jeans Day as the most volatile event that had taken place on campus since the Vietnam protests. Every athlete on the football team wore khaki shorts. As one student said, “I am not gay and neither do I want to support their gayness.” Many were reportedly offended by the decision the event required of them. The purpose of Gay Jeans Day was to force straight people to confront their feelings towards “homosexuality” just as gay people were perpetually forced to decide whether to be open about their sexuality or not. It unfortunately had the double effect of putting closeted students in a difficult position – to publicly affiliate themselves with the campus’ LGBTQIA+ community, or to appear to be positioned against it. Though the number of people who wore jeans that day is unknown, the event succeeded in raising awareness and calling attention to “the closet,” as well as emboldening GALAP.

By 1989, some GALAP members were becoming frustrated with the group’s stagnation. GALAP often attracted only a dozen students, who met in the basement of Murray Dodge. One member from that time called the group “a lonely hearts club.” GALAP wanted to revitalize itself. The members decided to have an awareness week. Daniel Mendelsohn *94, a GALAP member, suggested GALAP hold a Gay Jeans Day at Princeton, borrowing the idea from his undergraduate school. Gay Jeans Day was a simple concept; gay people and their allies would wear jeans to show their support. Mendelsohn had a background in advertising, and he was determined to advertise the event widely in order to make the day a success. GALAP members covered the campus in Gay Jeans Day posters on October 4, 1989. The posters were torn down almost as rapidly as they were tacked up, so the group made another round of postering on the 5th, and then again on the 6th. They also ran a half-page advertisement for a GALAP open house in The Daily Princetonian on the 6th, reading: “Open eyes? Open ears? Open minds? Open hearts? Open House.” On Monday October 9th, GALAP placed letters in every faculty and undergraduate mailbox explaining Gay Jeans Day. GALAP placed an editorial in The Prince on the 10th explaining Gay Jeans Day, as well as a full-page ad: “If you aren’t wearing jeans tomorrow everyone will know about you.”

According to Daniel Mendelsohn, faculty described October 11, 1989, Gay Jeans Day as the most volatile event that had taken place on campus since the Vietnam protests. Every athlete on the football team wore khaki shorts. As one student said, “I am not gay and neither do I want to support their gayness.” Many were reportedly offended by the decision the event required of them. The purpose of Gay Jeans Day was to force straight people to confront their feelings towards “homosexuality” just as gay people were perpetually forced to decide whether to be open about their sexuality or not. It unfortunately had the double effect of putting closeted students in a difficult position – to publicly affiliate themselves with the campus’ LGBTQIA+ community, or to appear to be positioned against it. Though the number of people who wore jeans that day is unknown, the event succeeded in raising awareness and calling attention to “the closet,” as well as emboldening GALAP.

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Joan Kowalik

Kowalik discusses her time at Princeton as the women's head basketball coach from 1984 through 1995. She talks about hiding her sexuality while coaching students, her record as Princeton's coach, and her perspective on prominent homophobic collegiate coaches. She also speaks about her coaching career at St. Lawrence University, attending the Ewing Presbyterian Church, working at St. Andrews as an athletic director and health educator, and marrying her wife.

Kowalik discusses her time at Princeton as the women's head basketball coach from 1984 through 1995. She talks about hiding her sexuality while coaching students, her record as Princeton's coach, and her perspective on prominent homophobic collegiate coaches. She also speaks about her coaching career at St. Lawrence University, attending the Ewing Presbyterian Church, working at St. Andrews as an athletic director and health educator, and marrying her wife.

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Joan Kowalik

Kowalik discusses her time at Princeton as the women's head basketball coach from 1984 through 1995. She talks about hiding her sexuality while coaching students, her record as Princeton's coach, and her perspective on prominent homophobic collegiate coaches. She also speaks about her coaching career at St. Lawrence University, attending the Ewing Presbyterian Church, working at St. Andrews as an athletic director and health educator, and marrying her wife.

Kowalik discusses her time at Princeton as the women's head basketball coach from 1984 through 1995. She talks about hiding her sexuality while coaching students, her record as Princeton's coach, and her perspective on prominent homophobic collegiate coaches. She also speaks about her coaching career at St. Lawrence University, attending the Ewing Presbyterian Church, working at St. Andrews as an athletic director and health educator, and marrying her wife.

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Homophobia mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Suicide mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 21, 2019

Wartenburg Committee

While GALAP was planning Gay Jeans Day, Rob Spencer ‘87, who had worked with Greg Christianson on ROTC and CIA issues, returned to campus to work part time as an advocate for LGBT issues while also working in the faculty dining hall. He formed the organization “Some Of Us” (Sexual Orientation Minorities Education organization for University Sensitivity), an offshoot branch of FFR under which he could campaign for gay issues. Spencer worked closely with Carl Wartenburg, a Unitarian Universalist minister and an assistant to President Harold Shapiro (Wartenburg later served as Associate Provost). In 1989, they placed a notice in The Daily Princetonian advertising the formation of a new panel to address gay and lesbian needs and concerns. Initially, the committee had no name and was simply called the “No Name Committee.” It would eventually be named the Ad Hoc Committee For Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns,” known more commonly as the Wartenburg Committee after Carl Wartenburg who chaired the committee. Though the committee was not recognized by the University, two members, Associate Provost for Affirmative Action, Mimi Coffey, and David Coster *93, also sat on the President’s Advisory Committee. The Wartenburg Committee produced a report in which it made many recommendations to the University, including: additional space for GALAP, domestic partnership benefits, better cataloging of LGBT materials in the library, a permanent coordinator position, a Gay and Lesbian Studies Program, and a standing committee on Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns. Most of these recommendations have since been realized. Although President Shapiro did not form a standing committee, many members of the Wartenburg Committee continued to meet initially as the Committee on Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Concerns and later as the LGBT Task Force.

While GALAP was planning Gay Jeans Day, Rob Spencer ‘87, who had worked with Greg Christianson on ROTC and CIA issues, returned to campus to work part time as an advocate for LGBT issues while also working in the faculty dining hall. He formed the organization “Some Of Us” (Sexual Orientation Minorities Education organization for University Sensitivity), an offshoot branch of FFR under which he could campaign for gay issues. Spencer worked closely with Carl Wartenburg, a Unitarian Universalist minister and an assistant to President Harold Shapiro (Wartenburg later served as Associate Provost). In 1989, they placed a notice in The Daily Princetonian advertising the formation of a new panel to address gay and lesbian needs and concerns. Initially, the committee had no name and was simply called the “No Name Committee.” It would eventually be named the Ad Hoc Committee For Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns,” known more commonly as the Wartenburg Committee after Carl Wartenburg who chaired the committee. Though the committee was not recognized by the University, two members, Associate Provost for Affirmative Action, Mimi Coffey, and David Coster *93, also sat on the President’s Advisory Committee. The Wartenburg Committee produced a report in which it made many recommendations to the University, including: additional space for GALAP, domestic partnership benefits, better cataloging of LGBT materials in the library, a permanent coordinator position, a Gay and Lesbian Studies Program, and a standing committee on Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns. Most of these recommendations have since been realized. Although President Shapiro did not form a standing committee, many members of the Wartenburg Committee continued to meet initially as the Committee on Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Concerns and later as the LGBT Task Force.

Wartenburg Committee

While GALAP was planning Gay Jeans Day, Rob Spencer ‘87, who had worked with Greg Christianson on ROTC and CIA issues, returned to campus to work part time as an advocate for LGBT issues while also working in the faculty dining hall. He formed the organization “Some Of Us” (Sexual Orientation Minorities Education organization for University Sensitivity), an offshoot branch of FFR under which he could campaign for gay issues. Spencer worked closely with Carl Wartenburg, a Unitarian Universalist minister and an assistant to President Harold Shapiro (Wartenburg later served as Associate Provost). In 1989, they placed a notice in The Daily Princetonian advertising the formation of a new panel to address gay and lesbian needs and concerns. Initially, the committee had no name and was simply called the “No Name Committee.” It would eventually be named the Ad Hoc Committee For Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns,” known more commonly as the Wartenburg Committee after Carl Wartenburg who chaired the committee. Though the committee was not recognized by the University, two members, Associate Provost for Affirmative Action, Mimi Coffey, and David Coster *93, also sat on the President’s Advisory Committee. The Wartenburg Committee produced a report in which it made many recommendations to the University, including: additional space for GALAP, domestic partnership benefits, better cataloging of LGBT materials in the library, a permanent coordinator position, a Gay and Lesbian Studies Program, and a standing committee on Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns. Most of these recommendations have since been realized. Although President Shapiro did not form a standing committee, many members of the Wartenburg Committee continued to meet initially as the Committee on Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Concerns and later as the LGBT Task Force.

While GALAP was planning Gay Jeans Day, Rob Spencer ‘87, who had worked with Greg Christianson on ROTC and CIA issues, returned to campus to work part time as an advocate for LGBT issues while also working in the faculty dining hall. He formed the organization “Some Of Us” (Sexual Orientation Minorities Education organization for University Sensitivity), an offshoot branch of FFR under which he could campaign for gay issues. Spencer worked closely with Carl Wartenburg, a Unitarian Universalist minister and an assistant to President Harold Shapiro (Wartenburg later served as Associate Provost). In 1989, they placed a notice in The Daily Princetonian advertising the formation of a new panel to address gay and lesbian needs and concerns. Initially, the committee had no name and was simply called the “No Name Committee.” It would eventually be named the Ad Hoc Committee For Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns,” known more commonly as the Wartenburg Committee after Carl Wartenburg who chaired the committee. Though the committee was not recognized by the University, two members, Associate Provost for Affirmative Action, Mimi Coffey, and David Coster *93, also sat on the President’s Advisory Committee. The Wartenburg Committee produced a report in which it made many recommendations to the University, including: additional space for GALAP, domestic partnership benefits, better cataloging of LGBT materials in the library, a permanent coordinator position, a Gay and Lesbian Studies Program, and a standing committee on Gay and Lesbian Needs and Concerns. Most of these recommendations have since been realized. Although President Shapiro did not form a standing committee, many members of the Wartenburg Committee continued to meet initially as the Committee on Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Concerns and later as the LGBT Task Force.

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Muriel Whitcomb

Staff

Muriel Whitcomb

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Women, Ally, White, Staff, Administration, Office of the Dean of Undergraduate Students (ODUS), Stanford University, Psychology, Sociology, Cornell, Greek life, Princeton becomes co-ed, Reproductive justice, Lehigh University, Marriage, Gene Lowe, Kathleen Dagnan, Women's Center, Third World Center, International Center, Athletics, Princeton University Band, Aaron Burr Hall, Jan Strout, FLI students (First-Generation Low-Income), Socioeconomic inequality, Nellie Gorbea, Rick Curtis, Chris van Sellis, Gays and Lesbians at Princeton (GALAP), Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, The Closet, Harold Shapiro, William Bowen, Office of Religious Life (ORL), Murray Dodge, The Fund for Reunion (FFR), HIV/AIDS crisis, Sally Frank, Jan Holmgren, Divorce, Mills College, Activism, Sexual Harassment/Assault Advising Resources and Education (SHARE), Kay Warren, Women's Studies
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July 12, 2022

Michael Cadden

Cadden describes the development of his interest in theater during his time studying at Yale and as a Marshall Scholar in the U.K., eventually leading to a career studying theater. He discusses his long career at Princeton, during which he taught the first LGBT literature course and witnessed the development of queer studies at Princeton. Finally, he discusses some of his work with developing a group for queer Princeton alums.

Cadden describes the development of his interest in theater during his time studying at Yale and as a Marshall Scholar in the U.K., eventually leading to a career studying theater. He discusses his long career at Princeton, during which he taught the first LGBT literature course and witnessed the development of queer studies at Princeton. Finally, he discusses some of his work with developing a group for queer Princeton alums.

Faculty

Michael Cadden

Cadden describes the development of his interest in theater during his time studying at Yale and as a Marshall Scholar in the U.K., eventually leading to a career studying theater. He discusses his long career at Princeton, during which he taught the first LGBT literature course and witnessed the development of queer studies at Princeton. Finally, he discusses some of his work with developing a group for queer Princeton alums.

Cadden describes the development of his interest in theater during his time studying at Yale and as a Marshall Scholar in the U.K., eventually leading to a career studying theater. He discusses his long career at Princeton, during which he taught the first LGBT literature course and witnessed the development of queer studies at Princeton. Finally, he discusses some of his work with developing a group for queer Princeton alums.

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Gay men, Men, White, Faculty, Catholic, Religious school, World War II, Yale University, All-male Princeton, Libraries and queer awakening, Athletics, Theater, Psychology, Humanistic studies, Closeted, Queer awakening, First relationship, Marshall scholar, University of Bristol, Yale law school, Yale drama school, Anti-sodomy laws overturned, Bread Loaf School of English, Gender and Sexuality Studies, First Princeton queer studies course, Every Voice conference, Diana Fuss, Jeff Nunokawa, Walter Hughes, HIV/AIDS crisis, Berlind theater, Lewis Center for the Arts, The Annex (Princeton bar), Bartlett Giamatti, Daniel Mendelson, Meeting partner, Marriage, Gay marriage legalized, Fund for Reunion, GALA, HIV/AIDS activism, Firestone library
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July 19, 2022

Sue Anne Steffey Morrow

Morrow speaks about the support she offered to LGBT students as a Dean of the Chapel from 1981 through 2003. She discusses working on an unnamed LGBT task force, providing an office for the Gay Alliance at Princeton, hiring the first LGBT coordinators for the university, and officiating the first same-sex wedding in the University Chapel. She talks about negative alumni reactions to the wedding, explains why same-sex and straight marriages were documented separately, and her experience working under three different university presidents.

Morrow speaks about the support she offered to LGBT students as a Dean of the Chapel from 1981 through 2003. She discusses working on an unnamed LGBT task force, providing an office for the Gay Alliance at Princeton, hiring the first LGBT coordinators for the university, and officiating the first same-sex wedding in the University Chapel. She talks about negative alumni reactions to the wedding, explains why same-sex and straight marriages were documented separately, and her experience working under three different university presidents.

Former Staff Member

Sue Anne Steffey Morrow

Morrow speaks about the support she offered to LGBT students as a Dean of the Chapel from 1981 through 2003. She discusses working on an unnamed LGBT task force, providing an office for the Gay Alliance at Princeton, hiring the first LGBT coordinators for the university, and officiating the first same-sex wedding in the University Chapel. She talks about negative alumni reactions to the wedding, explains why same-sex and straight marriages were documented separately, and her experience working under three different university presidents.

Morrow speaks about the support she offered to LGBT students as a Dean of the Chapel from 1981 through 2003. She discusses working on an unnamed LGBT task force, providing an office for the Gay Alliance at Princeton, hiring the first LGBT coordinators for the university, and officiating the first same-sex wedding in the University Chapel. She talks about negative alumni reactions to the wedding, explains why same-sex and straight marriages were documented separately, and her experience working under three different university presidents.

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Ally, Women, White, Methodist, Staff, Office of Religious Life (ORL), Administration, Princeton University Chapel, Civil Rights Movement, Skidmore College, University of Denver, Vietnam War activism, Anti-war movement, History, Feminist activism, Union Theological Seminary, First awareness of queer people, Stonewall, Duke Divinity School, Shirley Tilghman, Murray Dodge, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Women's Center, Aaron Bull Hall, Non-discrimination policy, HIV/AIDS crisis, GAP Lending Library, Paul Davis, Gay Jeans Day, Awareness Week, Karen Krahulik, Gays and Lesbians at Princeton (GALAP), Third World Center, Daniel Mendelson, Domestic partnerships, Gay marriage in Princeton Chapel, Harold Shapiro, Harrassment, Gay marriage legalized
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August 14, 2018

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator 1989 was a pivotal year in Princeton’s LGBTQIA+ history for several reasons. Besides Gay Jeans Day and the Wartenburg Committee, 1989 was the first year that the University hired a coordinator to concentrate on LGBT issues at the University. Reverend Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, Assistant Dean of the Chapel, had been working quietly on LGB issues since she arrived on campus in 1982, counseling students and providing support where she could. In 1989, Morrow was able to hire Paul Davis, and Princeton became the sixth University in the country to create an LGBT coordinator position. Davis’s job was to provide momentum to GALAP, including writing a weekly newsletter and running the monthly dances. GALAP was given an additional room in Aaron Burr to serve as Davis’ office. Over the next decade, Paul Davis’ position would morph into the LGBT Coordinator position, which in the 2000s became the LGBT Concerns/LGBT Student Services Coordinator.

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator 1989 was a pivotal year in Princeton’s LGBTQIA+ history for several reasons. Besides Gay Jeans Day and the Wartenburg Committee, 1989 was the first year that the University hired a coordinator to concentrate on LGBT issues at the University. Reverend Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, Assistant Dean of the Chapel, had been working quietly on LGB issues since she arrived on campus in 1982, counseling students and providing support where she could. In 1989, Morrow was able to hire Paul Davis, and Princeton became the sixth University in the country to create an LGBT coordinator position. Davis’s job was to provide momentum to GALAP, including writing a weekly newsletter and running the monthly dances. GALAP was given an additional room in Aaron Burr to serve as Davis’ office. Over the next decade, Paul Davis’ position would morph into the LGBT Coordinator position, which in the 2000s became the LGBT Concerns/LGBT Student Services Coordinator.

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator 1989 was a pivotal year in Princeton’s LGBTQIA+ history for several reasons. Besides Gay Jeans Day and the Wartenburg Committee, 1989 was the first year that the University hired a coordinator to concentrate on LGBT issues at the University. Reverend Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, Assistant Dean of the Chapel, had been working quietly on LGB issues since she arrived on campus in 1982, counseling students and providing support where she could. In 1989, Morrow was able to hire Paul Davis, and Princeton became the sixth University in the country to create an LGBT coordinator position. Davis’s job was to provide momentum to GALAP, including writing a weekly newsletter and running the monthly dances. GALAP was given an additional room in Aaron Burr to serve as Davis’ office. Over the next decade, Paul Davis’ position would morph into the LGBT Coordinator position, which in the 2000s became the LGBT Concerns/LGBT Student Services Coordinator.

Princeton Hires an LGBT Coordinator 1989 was a pivotal year in Princeton’s LGBTQIA+ history for several reasons. Besides Gay Jeans Day and the Wartenburg Committee, 1989 was the first year that the University hired a coordinator to concentrate on LGBT issues at the University. Reverend Sue Anne Steffey Morrow, Assistant Dean of the Chapel, had been working quietly on LGB issues since she arrived on campus in 1982, counseling students and providing support where she could. In 1989, Morrow was able to hire Paul Davis, and Princeton became the sixth University in the country to create an LGBT coordinator position. Davis’s job was to provide momentum to GALAP, including writing a weekly newsletter and running the monthly dances. GALAP was given an additional room in Aaron Burr to serve as Davis’ office. Over the next decade, Paul Davis’ position would morph into the LGBT Coordinator position, which in the 2000s became the LGBT Concerns/LGBT Student Services Coordinator.

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Jay Kloecker

Kloecker talks about his experiences as a closeted, gay student at Princeton. He speaks about harassment he faced as an adolescent and how he realized his sexuality at a young age. He discusses his experiences with Outdoor Action, the Freshman Singers Club, and having girlfriends as a cover for his sexuality. He speaks about his experiences at Duke University's law school, his law career, and his time as a choral singer. He also reflects on meeting other alumni at reunions, working for gay couples as a lawyer, and his advocacy for same-sex marriage within the Episcopal Church.

Kloecker talks about his experiences as a closeted, gay student at Princeton. He speaks about harassment he faced as an adolescent and how he realized his sexuality at a young age. He discusses his experiences with Outdoor Action, the Freshman Singers Club, and having girlfriends as a cover for his sexuality. He speaks about his experiences at Duke University's law school, his law career, and his time as a choral singer. He also reflects on meeting other alumni at reunions, working for gay couples as a lawyer, and his advocacy for same-sex marriage within the Episcopal Church.

Class of 1988

Jay Kloecker

Kloecker talks about his experiences as a closeted, gay student at Princeton. He speaks about harassment he faced as an adolescent and how he realized his sexuality at a young age. He discusses his experiences with Outdoor Action, the Freshman Singers Club, and having girlfriends as a cover for his sexuality. He speaks about his experiences at Duke University's law school, his law career, and his time as a choral singer. He also reflects on meeting other alumni at reunions, working for gay couples as a lawyer, and his advocacy for same-sex marriage within the Episcopal Church.

Kloecker talks about his experiences as a closeted, gay student at Princeton. He speaks about harassment he faced as an adolescent and how he realized his sexuality at a young age. He discusses his experiences with Outdoor Action, the Freshman Singers Club, and having girlfriends as a cover for his sexuality. He speaks about his experiences at Duke University's law school, his law career, and his time as a choral singer. He also reflects on meeting other alumni at reunions, working for gay couples as a lawyer, and his advocacy for same-sex marriage within the Episcopal Church.

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July 27, 2017
Princeton LGBTQIA+ Oral History Project

1990s

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