Princeton LGBTQIA+ Oral History Project

1970s

28 Interviews
9 Archive Entries
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Charlize Katzenbach

Katzenbach speaks about attending Princeton and coming to terms with her identity as a trans woman over her lifetime. She talks about her artistic work at Princeton, her anti-war activism, writing for the Prism magazine, and her perspective on eating clubs at the time. She also talks about experiencing the beginning of official coeducation and meeting her wife. She reflects on major life events including medically and socially transitioning, the traumatic loss of her child, starting a construction business, joining Alcoholics Anonymous, and working on the forum TransPulse.

Katzenbach speaks about attending Princeton and coming to terms with her identity as a trans woman over her lifetime. She talks about her artistic work at Princeton, her anti-war activism, writing for the Prism magazine, and her perspective on eating clubs at the time. She also talks about experiencing the beginning of official coeducation and meeting her wife. She reflects on major life events including medically and socially transitioning, the traumatic loss of her child, starting a construction business, joining Alcoholics Anonymous, and working on the forum TransPulse.

Class of 1971

Charlize Katzenbach

Katzenbach speaks about attending Princeton and coming to terms with her identity as a trans woman over her lifetime. She talks about her artistic work at Princeton, her anti-war activism, writing for the Prism magazine, and her perspective on eating clubs at the time. She also talks about experiencing the beginning of official coeducation and meeting her wife. She reflects on major life events including medically and socially transitioning, the traumatic loss of her child, starting a construction business, joining Alcoholics Anonymous, and working on the forum TransPulse.

Katzenbach speaks about attending Princeton and coming to terms with her identity as a trans woman over her lifetime. She talks about her artistic work at Princeton, her anti-war activism, writing for the Prism magazine, and her perspective on eating clubs at the time. She also talks about experiencing the beginning of official coeducation and meeting her wife. She reflects on major life events including medically and socially transitioning, the traumatic loss of her child, starting a construction business, joining Alcoholics Anonymous, and working on the forum TransPulse.

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Trans women, Women, White, Private school, World War II, Mental health, Questioning gender, Gender dysphoria, Cross-dressing, Athletics, Butch, Drugs, First relationship, 185 Nassau Street, Art, Visual Arts, Activism, Vietnam War Activism, Theatre Intime, Esteban Vicente, University Scholar Program, Sarah Lawrence, New York Studio School, Clubs/Bars, Students for a Democratic Society, The Prism, Stonewall, Closeted, Princeton becomes co-ed, Religion (concentration), Eating clubs, Growing out hair, Towpath, Marriage, Having children, Parenting, Reagan Administration, Every Voice conference, Child death, Alcoholics Anonymous, Coming out, Internet and queer awakening, Gender affirming care, Hormone therapy (HRT), Gender affirming surgery, Reunions, Baker Rink, She Roars conference, Pride parade, Black Panthers, Therapy, Undergraduate
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Transphobia mentioned, Sexual violence mentioned, Racism mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Addiction mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Violence mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 1, 2019

Dan Berkowitz

Berkowitz discusses his childhood in Jersey City with working parents. He speaks about his brief involvement with the Aquinas Institute and the debate club and elaborates on his consistent involvement with Theatre Intime. He reflects on holding a gay identity and maintaining a gay relationship while homosexuality was defined as a mental illness. Finally, he speaks about his work as a director and production member at David Susskind Show and his work within the leather scene.

Berkowitz discusses his childhood in Jersey City with working parents. He speaks about his brief involvement with the Aquinas Institute and the debate club and elaborates on his consistent involvement with Theatre Intime. He reflects on holding a gay identity and maintaining a gay relationship while homosexuality was defined as a mental illness. Finally, he speaks about his work as a director and production member at David Susskind Show and his work within the leather scene.

Class of 1970

Dan Berkowitz

Berkowitz discusses his childhood in Jersey City with working parents. He speaks about his brief involvement with the Aquinas Institute and the debate club and elaborates on his consistent involvement with Theatre Intime. He reflects on holding a gay identity and maintaining a gay relationship while homosexuality was defined as a mental illness. Finally, he speaks about his work as a director and production member at David Susskind Show and his work within the leather scene.

Berkowitz discusses his childhood in Jersey City with working parents. He speaks about his brief involvement with the Aquinas Institute and the debate club and elaborates on his consistent involvement with Theatre Intime. He reflects on holding a gay identity and maintaining a gay relationship while homosexuality was defined as a mental illness. Finally, he speaks about his work as a director and production member at David Susskind Show and his work within the leather scene.

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gay men, White, Private school, Religious school, Catholic, Aquinas Institute, Debate team, Theater Intime, History, Questioning sexuality, Drugs, Edwards Hall, Colonial (eating club), Campus Club (eating club), First relationship, HIV/AIDS crisis, Theater, Musical Theater, breakup, Murray Dodge, IvyQ, Closeted, Religion and queerness, LGBT activism, Gay marriage legalized, Clubs/bars, The Fund for Reunion (FFR), Leather
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Illness and death mentioned, Anti-Semitism mentioned, Trauma mentioned, Racism mentioned, Homphobia mentioned, Slur
Interviewed on 
June 29, 2017

Frank Mahood

Mahood speaks about his career as a designer and production manager for Princeton University Press. He discusses his childhood amidst World War II, his experience at Carnegie Mellon University, and his arrival at Princeton. In addition, he talks about forming the Gay Alliance at Princeton, its division into separate university and township groups, and his involvement with the town group, Gay People Princeton. He also discusses making GAP's banner, posters for a dance on top of New South, and his attendance at the first International Gay Rights Congress. Finally, he discusses the development of his family, his retirement, and his work with the Baynard Center for Social Justice.

Mahood speaks about his career as a designer and production manager for Princeton University Press. He discusses his childhood amidst World War II, his experience at Carnegie Mellon University, and his arrival at Princeton. In addition, he talks about forming the Gay Alliance at Princeton, its division into separate university and township groups, and his involvement with the town group, Gay People Princeton. He also discusses making GAP's banner, posters for a dance on top of New South, and his attendance at the first International Gay Rights Congress. Finally, he discusses the development of his family, his retirement, and his work with the Baynard Center for Social Justice.

Former Staff Member

Frank Mahood

Mahood speaks about his career as a designer and production manager for Princeton University Press. He discusses his childhood amidst World War II, his experience at Carnegie Mellon University, and his arrival at Princeton. In addition, he talks about forming the Gay Alliance at Princeton, its division into separate university and township groups, and his involvement with the town group, Gay People Princeton. He also discusses making GAP's banner, posters for a dance on top of New South, and his attendance at the first International Gay Rights Congress. Finally, he discusses the development of his family, his retirement, and his work with the Baynard Center for Social Justice.

Mahood speaks about his career as a designer and production manager for Princeton University Press. He discusses his childhood amidst World War II, his experience at Carnegie Mellon University, and his arrival at Princeton. In addition, he talks about forming the Gay Alliance at Princeton, its division into separate university and township groups, and his involvement with the town group, Gay People Princeton. He also discusses making GAP's banner, posters for a dance on top of New South, and his attendance at the first International Gay Rights Congress. Finally, he discusses the development of his family, his retirement, and his work with the Baynard Center for Social Justice.

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Irish, Ukrainian, Segregation, Siblings, Second-generation immigrant, Family acceptance, Religious school, Cross-dressing, Libraries and queer awakening, Homosexual, Catholic, Religion and queerness, Mental health, Public school, Attraction to friend, Fine Arts, Drama, Body image, Counseling & Psychological Services (CPS), Coming out, Travel abroad, Sexual awakening, First relationship, Faculty, Closeted, Clubs/bars, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Arthur Eisenbach, Judith Schaeffer, New South Gay Dance, Oil Crisis, Pride Parade, Breakup, Design, Delaware Valley Gay Neighbors, Meeting Partner, Stonewall, Civil partnership, Domestic partnership, Marriage, HIV/AIDS crisis, Parenting, Coming out, Family acceptance, Bayard Rustin Center for Social Justice, Activism, Banner stealing, Generational understandings of identity, Vietnam War activism
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Racism mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, War mentioned, Anti-semitism mentioned, Violence mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Trauma mentioned, Traumatic childhood mentioned, Sexual violence mentioned, Childhood Sexual Assault mentioned, Slur
Interviewed on 
July 17, 2019

Closet Queens Unite

Life on campus for non-straight students dramatically changed on Friday, May 12, 1972 when a sophomore named Arthur Eisenbach ’74 placed a small classified advertisement in The Daily Princetonian. The advertisement read, “Closet Queens Unite! For information about organizations of gay men and women at Princeton call 452-2197.” Princeton had seen several failed attempts at creating such organizations. Eisenbach’s advertisement was significant because it actually organized the gay community into a recognized body.

The “Closet Queens Unite!” ad was posted during Reading Week, and was reprinted the next week on Wednesday the 17th. On the 19th, S. James Elliot ’72 published an editorial in response to the ad titled “Gay Liberation at Princeton.” The editorial painted a picture of an oppressive campus environment and called for gay students at Princeton to organize. “Princeton,” Elliot asserted, “is tyrannically governed by a sexist ethic, and each straight and gay is trapped in a social role that demands that he declare and assert his ‘masculinity.’” Meanwhile, Eisenbach received around a dozen responses to his advertisement, half of which were obscene. The school year was coming to a close, but Eisenbach decided to carry over the momentum drummed up from the ad and the editorial to the next school year.

Life on campus for non-straight students dramatically changed on Friday, May 12, 1972 when a sophomore named Arthur Eisenbach ’74 placed a small classified advertisement in The Daily Princetonian. The advertisement read, “Closet Queens Unite! For information about organizations of gay men and women at Princeton call 452-2197.” Princeton had seen several failed attempts at creating such organizations. Eisenbach’s advertisement was significant because it actually organized the gay community into a recognized body.

The “Closet Queens Unite!” ad was posted during Reading Week, and was reprinted the next week on Wednesday the 17th. On the 19th, S. James Elliot ’72 published an editorial in response to the ad titled “Gay Liberation at Princeton.” The editorial painted a picture of an oppressive campus environment and called for gay students at Princeton to organize. “Princeton,” Elliot asserted, “is tyrannically governed by a sexist ethic, and each straight and gay is trapped in a social role that demands that he declare and assert his ‘masculinity.’” Meanwhile, Eisenbach received around a dozen responses to his advertisement, half of which were obscene. The school year was coming to a close, but Eisenbach decided to carry over the momentum drummed up from the ad and the editorial to the next school year.

Closet Queens Unite

Life on campus for non-straight students dramatically changed on Friday, May 12, 1972 when a sophomore named Arthur Eisenbach ’74 placed a small classified advertisement in The Daily Princetonian. The advertisement read, “Closet Queens Unite! For information about organizations of gay men and women at Princeton call 452-2197.” Princeton had seen several failed attempts at creating such organizations. Eisenbach’s advertisement was significant because it actually organized the gay community into a recognized body.

The “Closet Queens Unite!” ad was posted during Reading Week, and was reprinted the next week on Wednesday the 17th. On the 19th, S. James Elliot ’72 published an editorial in response to the ad titled “Gay Liberation at Princeton.” The editorial painted a picture of an oppressive campus environment and called for gay students at Princeton to organize. “Princeton,” Elliot asserted, “is tyrannically governed by a sexist ethic, and each straight and gay is trapped in a social role that demands that he declare and assert his ‘masculinity.’” Meanwhile, Eisenbach received around a dozen responses to his advertisement, half of which were obscene. The school year was coming to a close, but Eisenbach decided to carry over the momentum drummed up from the ad and the editorial to the next school year.

Life on campus for non-straight students dramatically changed on Friday, May 12, 1972 when a sophomore named Arthur Eisenbach ’74 placed a small classified advertisement in The Daily Princetonian. The advertisement read, “Closet Queens Unite! For information about organizations of gay men and women at Princeton call 452-2197.” Princeton had seen several failed attempts at creating such organizations. Eisenbach’s advertisement was significant because it actually organized the gay community into a recognized body.

The “Closet Queens Unite!” ad was posted during Reading Week, and was reprinted the next week on Wednesday the 17th. On the 19th, S. James Elliot ’72 published an editorial in response to the ad titled “Gay Liberation at Princeton.” The editorial painted a picture of an oppressive campus environment and called for gay students at Princeton to organize. “Princeton,” Elliot asserted, “is tyrannically governed by a sexist ethic, and each straight and gay is trapped in a social role that demands that he declare and assert his ‘masculinity.’” Meanwhile, Eisenbach received around a dozen responses to his advertisement, half of which were obscene. The school year was coming to a close, but Eisenbach decided to carry over the momentum drummed up from the ad and the editorial to the next school year.

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Gordon Gray

Gordon describes important events throughout his upbringing like his encounters with LGBT teachers, his affinity for music and arts, attending the 1967 World's Fair, and how he came to attend the University of New Hampshire. Then, he details homophobic harassment he faced throughout college, student activism, and his time studying abroad in Vienna. He speaks on his time at Princeton as a gay man, protesting with student activists, and his experience with the gay bar scene in New Jersey. Finally, he discusses homophobic incidents he witnessed as a member of Princeton's biology department and his work with the University's drosophila group.

Gordon describes important events throughout his upbringing like his encounters with LGBT teachers, his affinity for music and arts, attending the 1967 World's Fair, and how he came to attend the University of New Hampshire. Then, he details homophobic harassment he faced throughout college, student activism, and his time studying abroad in Vienna. He speaks on his time at Princeton as a gay man, protesting with student activists, and his experience with the gay bar scene in New Jersey. Finally, he discusses homophobic incidents he witnessed as a member of Princeton's biology department and his work with the University's drosophila group.

Former Staff Member

Gordon Gray

Gordon describes important events throughout his upbringing like his encounters with LGBT teachers, his affinity for music and arts, attending the 1967 World's Fair, and how he came to attend the University of New Hampshire. Then, he details homophobic harassment he faced throughout college, student activism, and his time studying abroad in Vienna. He speaks on his time at Princeton as a gay man, protesting with student activists, and his experience with the gay bar scene in New Jersey. Finally, he discusses homophobic incidents he witnessed as a member of Princeton's biology department and his work with the University's drosophila group.

Gordon describes important events throughout his upbringing like his encounters with LGBT teachers, his affinity for music and arts, attending the 1967 World's Fair, and how he came to attend the University of New Hampshire. Then, he details homophobic harassment he faced throughout college, student activism, and his time studying abroad in Vienna. He speaks on his time at Princeton as a gay man, protesting with student activists, and his experience with the gay bar scene in New Jersey. Finally, he discusses homophobic incidents he witnessed as a member of Princeton's biology department and his work with the University's drosophila group.

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Gay men, Men, White, Catholic, Graduate student, Staff, Molecular biology, Feminist activism, Sterotypes, Socioeconomic inequality, Boy Scouts, Military, Cold War, Harrassment, Heteronormativity, Art, First awareness of queer people, Boston marriages, Music, Orchestra, Princeton becomes co-ed, Drugs, University of New Hampshire, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Banner stealing, Mintz and Brown room break-in, LGBT activism, Black activism, Vietnam war activism, Nixon Administration, McCarthyism, Edward Herps, Cleveland Howard, University Choir, South Africa apartheid activism, Equal Rights Amendment (ERA), Clubs/bars, HIV/AIDS crisis, Reagan Administration, William Bowen, Harold T. Shapiro, Terrace Dances, Sally Frank vs Eating Clubs Case, Phone dating, Shirley Tilghman, Art museum
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Homophobia mentioned, War mentioned, Sexual violence mentioned, Domestic violence mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Racism mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 3, 2018

Patrick Conway

Conway reflects on how he came to attend Princeton through the Naval Reserves program and his experiences while attending Princeton as the campus shifted from all male to co-ed. He discusses his involvement with the ROTC program on campus and the Glee club. He speaks on his experiences as a closeted student on campus, coming out to family members later in life, and his investment banking career. Finally, he talks about his experiences with gay barlife in Los Angeles, his HIV positive status, and retiring early.

Conway reflects on how he came to attend Princeton through the Naval Reserves program and his experiences while attending Princeton as the campus shifted from all male to co-ed. He discusses his involvement with the ROTC program on campus and the Glee club. He speaks on his experiences as a closeted student on campus, coming out to family members later in life, and his investment banking career. Finally, he talks about his experiences with gay barlife in Los Angeles, his HIV positive status, and retiring early.

Class of 1970

Patrick Conway

Conway reflects on how he came to attend Princeton through the Naval Reserves program and his experiences while attending Princeton as the campus shifted from all male to co-ed. He discusses his involvement with the ROTC program on campus and the Glee club. He speaks on his experiences as a closeted student on campus, coming out to family members later in life, and his investment banking career. Finally, he talks about his experiences with gay barlife in Los Angeles, his HIV positive status, and retiring early.

Conway reflects on how he came to attend Princeton through the Naval Reserves program and his experiences while attending Princeton as the campus shifted from all male to co-ed. He discusses his involvement with the ROTC program on campus and the Glee club. He speaks on his experiences as a closeted student on campus, coming out to family members later in life, and his investment banking career. Finally, he talks about his experiences with gay barlife in Los Angeles, his HIV positive status, and retiring early.

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gay men, White, Catholic, ROTC, All-male Princeton, Princeton becomes co-ed, Annual Giving, Closeted, Stonewall, Glee Club, Drugs, Vietnam War activism, Cloister (eating club), Pride parade, Sexual Awakening, Military, Athletics, Coming out, HIV/AIDS crisis, Clubs/bars, Cruising, HIV positive, Family acceptance
Content Notice
Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 19, 2017

Gay Alliance of Princeton

In the fall of 1972, Eisenbach and fellow activist Judith Schaeffer ’74 spread posters over campus advertising the first meeting of Princeton’s gay organization. The meeting was scheduled for September 14, 1972 at the Women’s Center, where Schaeffer was an officer. Twenty-five people attended, twenty-two of them being men (as the University had started accepting women only three years before). The group named their organization GAP: Gay Alliance of Princeton.

On November 20th, GAP approached the Undergraduate Student Government’s Projects Board to request funding. A member of the board told the GAP members that he found homosexuality to be a sinful sexual perversion and he would fight any appropriation awarded to GAP. Despite these protestations, GAP was given $328.

By December, said board member had collected the 200 signatures required to hold a referendum on GAP’s funding. However, he withdrew the petition upon learning that a referendum would cost almost $100. He later claimed he was not motivated by homophobia, but rather by the low attendance at GAP meetings, which regularly drew about a dozen people. Around this same time, in November of 1972, Jill Johnston, author of The Lesbian Nation: The Feminist Solution spoke on campus.

In the fall of 1972, Eisenbach and fellow activist Judith Schaeffer ’74 spread posters over campus advertising the first meeting of Princeton’s gay organization. The meeting was scheduled for September 14, 1972 at the Women’s Center, where Schaeffer was an officer. Twenty-five people attended, twenty-two of them being men (as the University had started accepting women only three years before). The group named their organization GAP: Gay Alliance of Princeton.

On November 20th, GAP approached the Undergraduate Student Government’s Projects Board to request funding. A member of the board told the GAP members that he found homosexuality to be a sinful sexual perversion and he would fight any appropriation awarded to GAP. Despite these protestations, GAP was given $328.

By December, said board member had collected the 200 signatures required to hold a referendum on GAP’s funding. However, he withdrew the petition upon learning that a referendum would cost almost $100. He later claimed he was not motivated by homophobia, but rather by the low attendance at GAP meetings, which regularly drew about a dozen people. Around this same time, in November of 1972, Jill Johnston, author of The Lesbian Nation: The Feminist Solution spoke on campus.

Gay Alliance of Princeton

In the fall of 1972, Eisenbach and fellow activist Judith Schaeffer ’74 spread posters over campus advertising the first meeting of Princeton’s gay organization. The meeting was scheduled for September 14, 1972 at the Women’s Center, where Schaeffer was an officer. Twenty-five people attended, twenty-two of them being men (as the University had started accepting women only three years before). The group named their organization GAP: Gay Alliance of Princeton.

On November 20th, GAP approached the Undergraduate Student Government’s Projects Board to request funding. A member of the board told the GAP members that he found homosexuality to be a sinful sexual perversion and he would fight any appropriation awarded to GAP. Despite these protestations, GAP was given $328.

By December, said board member had collected the 200 signatures required to hold a referendum on GAP’s funding. However, he withdrew the petition upon learning that a referendum would cost almost $100. He later claimed he was not motivated by homophobia, but rather by the low attendance at GAP meetings, which regularly drew about a dozen people. Around this same time, in November of 1972, Jill Johnston, author of The Lesbian Nation: The Feminist Solution spoke on campus.

In the fall of 1972, Eisenbach and fellow activist Judith Schaeffer ’74 spread posters over campus advertising the first meeting of Princeton’s gay organization. The meeting was scheduled for September 14, 1972 at the Women’s Center, where Schaeffer was an officer. Twenty-five people attended, twenty-two of them being men (as the University had started accepting women only three years before). The group named their organization GAP: Gay Alliance of Princeton.

On November 20th, GAP approached the Undergraduate Student Government’s Projects Board to request funding. A member of the board told the GAP members that he found homosexuality to be a sinful sexual perversion and he would fight any appropriation awarded to GAP. Despite these protestations, GAP was given $328.

By December, said board member had collected the 200 signatures required to hold a referendum on GAP’s funding. However, he withdrew the petition upon learning that a referendum would cost almost $100. He later claimed he was not motivated by homophobia, but rather by the low attendance at GAP meetings, which regularly drew about a dozen people. Around this same time, in November of 1972, Jill Johnston, author of The Lesbian Nation: The Feminist Solution spoke on campus.

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Joan Katz

Katz speaks on her experiences at Princeton as a closeted lesbian and queer woman who came out during her time at Princeton. She discusses connecting with other queer students through the Gay Alliance at Princeton, romantic relationships during college, coming out to her family, and her relationship with Judaism. She also discusses her struggles with mental health as a student and her interest in musical performance. Finally, she talks about her involvement with the alumni group Fund for Reunion, her perspective on feminism and queerness, and her advocacy for LGBT youth.

Katz speaks on her experiences at Princeton as a closeted lesbian and queer woman who came out during her time at Princeton. She discusses connecting with other queer students through the Gay Alliance at Princeton, romantic relationships during college, coming out to her family, and her relationship with Judaism. She also discusses her struggles with mental health as a student and her interest in musical performance. Finally, she talks about her involvement with the alumni group Fund for Reunion, her perspective on feminism and queerness, and her advocacy for LGBT youth.

Class of 1979

Joan Katz

Katz speaks on her experiences at Princeton as a closeted lesbian and queer woman who came out during her time at Princeton. She discusses connecting with other queer students through the Gay Alliance at Princeton, romantic relationships during college, coming out to her family, and her relationship with Judaism. She also discusses her struggles with mental health as a student and her interest in musical performance. Finally, she talks about her involvement with the alumni group Fund for Reunion, her perspective on feminism and queerness, and her advocacy for LGBT youth.

Katz speaks on her experiences at Princeton as a closeted lesbian and queer woman who came out during her time at Princeton. She discusses connecting with other queer students through the Gay Alliance at Princeton, romantic relationships during college, coming out to her family, and her relationship with Judaism. She also discusses her struggles with mental health as a student and her interest in musical performance. Finally, she talks about her involvement with the alumni group Fund for Reunion, her perspective on feminism and queerness, and her advocacy for LGBT youth.

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Lesbians, Queer, Jewish (ethnicity), Jewish (religion), First awareness of queer people, Attraction to friend, Queer awakening, Coming out, Colonial (eating club), Family acceptance, Friend acceptance, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Mintz and Brown room break-in, Chancellor Green Pub, New South Gay Dance, Sexual Awakening, Mental health, Eating clubs, Princeton becomes co-ed, Religion (concentration), Heteronormativity, Women’s Center, South Africa apartheid activism, Feminist activism, LGBT activism, Trump Administration, Reunions, The Fund for Reunion (FFR), LGBT alumni, Generational understandings of identity
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Depression mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Fatphobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 2, 2018

Jen Handler

Handler describes her time at Princeton as the university's first full-time LGB coordinator. She talks about her attempts to engage the wider campus community with LGBT issues through events like Gay Jeans Day, speaker events, and collaboration with the Women's Center. She also speaks about forming a historical preservation group named Queer Core, renovating the LGBA office in Aaron Burr Hall, and how she dealt with public outcry from alumni in reaction to her position. Finally, she discusses coordinating the peer education program Calypso, student worries about the administration co-opting the LGBT community, and LGBT programming coordinated by the Center for Jewish Life.

Handler describes her time at Princeton as the university's first full-time LGB coordinator. She talks about her attempts to engage the wider campus community with LGBT issues through events like Gay Jeans Day, speaker events, and collaboration with the Women's Center. She also speaks about forming a historical preservation group named Queer Core, renovating the LGBA office in Aaron Burr Hall, and how she dealt with public outcry from alumni in reaction to her position. Finally, she discusses coordinating the peer education program Calypso, student worries about the administration co-opting the LGBT community, and LGBT programming coordinated by the Center for Jewish Life.

Former Staff Member

Jen Handler

Handler describes her time at Princeton as the university's first full-time LGB coordinator. She talks about her attempts to engage the wider campus community with LGBT issues through events like Gay Jeans Day, speaker events, and collaboration with the Women's Center. She also speaks about forming a historical preservation group named Queer Core, renovating the LGBA office in Aaron Burr Hall, and how she dealt with public outcry from alumni in reaction to her position. Finally, she discusses coordinating the peer education program Calypso, student worries about the administration co-opting the LGBT community, and LGBT programming coordinated by the Center for Jewish Life.

Handler describes her time at Princeton as the university's first full-time LGB coordinator. She talks about her attempts to engage the wider campus community with LGBT issues through events like Gay Jeans Day, speaker events, and collaboration with the Women's Center. She also speaks about forming a historical preservation group named Queer Core, renovating the LGBA office in Aaron Burr Hall, and how she dealt with public outcry from alumni in reaction to her position. Finally, she discusses coordinating the peer education program Calypso, student worries about the administration co-opting the LGBT community, and LGBT programming coordinated by the Center for Jewish Life.

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Women, White, Staff, Administration, Brown University, Office of Student Life, LGB Coordinator, Activism, LGBT activism, Pride Week, Awareness Week, Gay Jeans Day, Affinity groups, Gender and Sexuality Studies, Peer Educators, Women's Center, Third World Center, The Daily Princetonian, Thomas Pyle, Aaron Burr Hall, D'nita Montera, Robert George, Athletics, Terrace (eating club), Don't Ask Don't Tell, Kathleen Deignan, The Closet, Lesbian Gay Bisexual Alliance (LGBA), Pride parade, ROTC, Film festival, Center for Jewish Life (CJL)
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Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 12, 2017

GAP Dance

On May 19, 1973, GAP held its first dance on the top floor of New South, which was then used as an undergraduate cafeteria. The cafeteria was decorated with candles, and the bands “Bad Taste” and “The Crabs” provided the music. Over 300 people – including non-Princeton students – attended, making the GAP dance the largest gay dance in New Jersey to date. The dance was covered by CBS and The  New York Times , but was not mentioned in The Daily Princetonian . GAP had no trouble with the administration in planning the dance, but received threats from the football team. There was no interference with the dance itself.

On May 19, 1973, GAP held its first dance on the top floor of New South, which was then used as an undergraduate cafeteria. The cafeteria was decorated with candles, and the bands “Bad Taste” and “The Crabs” provided the music. Over 300 people – including non-Princeton students – attended, making the GAP dance the largest gay dance in New Jersey to date. The dance was covered by CBS and The  New York Times , but was not mentioned in The Daily Princetonian . GAP had no trouble with the administration in planning the dance, but received threats from the football team. There was no interference with the dance itself.

On May 19, 1973, GAP held its first dance on the top floor of New South, which was then used as an undergraduate cafeteria. The cafeteria was decorated with candles, and the bands “Bad Taste” and “The Crabs” provided the music. Over 300 people – including non-Princeton students – attended, making the GAP dance the largest gay dance in New Jersey to date. The dance was covered by CBS and The  New York Times , but was not mentioned in The Daily Princetonian . GAP had no trouble with the administration in planning the dance, but received threats from the football team. There was no interference with the dance itself.

On May 19, 1973, GAP held its first dance on the top floor of New South, which was then used as an undergraduate cafeteria. The cafeteria was decorated with candles, and the bands “Bad Taste” and “The Crabs” provided the music. Over 300 people – including non-Princeton students – attended, making the GAP dance the largest gay dance in New Jersey to date. The dance was covered by CBS and The  New York Times , but was not mentioned in The Daily Princetonian . GAP had no trouble with the administration in planning the dance, but received threats from the football team. There was no interference with the dance itself.

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Glenn Stover

Stover speaks about attending Princeton as a gay student. He discusses his family's history, how he decided to attend Princeton, questioning his identity, and receiving treatment at McCosh. He also talks about the beginning of co-education on campus, joining Theatre Intime, and his awareness of the gay community at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about losing friends and loved ones to the AIDS crisis, his law career, and the importance of his faith.

Stover speaks about attending Princeton as a gay student. He discusses his family's history, how he decided to attend Princeton, questioning his identity, and receiving treatment at McCosh. He also talks about the beginning of co-education on campus, joining Theatre Intime, and his awareness of the gay community at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about losing friends and loved ones to the AIDS crisis, his law career, and the importance of his faith.

Class of 1971

Glenn Stover

Stover speaks about attending Princeton as a gay student. He discusses his family's history, how he decided to attend Princeton, questioning his identity, and receiving treatment at McCosh. He also talks about the beginning of co-education on campus, joining Theatre Intime, and his awareness of the gay community at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about losing friends and loved ones to the AIDS crisis, his law career, and the importance of his faith.

Stover speaks about attending Princeton as a gay student. He discusses his family's history, how he decided to attend Princeton, questioning his identity, and receiving treatment at McCosh. He also talks about the beginning of co-education on campus, joining Theatre Intime, and his awareness of the gay community at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about losing friends and loved ones to the AIDS crisis, his law career, and the importance of his faith.

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Gay men, Men, White, Traumatic childhood, Parents divorce, Religious school, Presbyterian, All-male Princeton, Woodrow Wilson School, Colonial (eating club), Law school, Harvard, Clubs/bars, Sex work, Politics, Employment discrimination, Closeted, Sammy’s Bowery Follies, Glee Club, Yearbook, Theatre Intime, Community News Service, Natural Resources Defence Council, Nixon administration, Climate activism, Coming out, Losing friends, Family acceptance, Marriage, HIV/AIDS crisis, Partner death, Catholic, Religion and queerness, Reunions, BTGALA, Undergraduate
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Sexual violence mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
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June 9, 2017

John Philip

Phillip speaks about his experience at Princeton as a gay man and coming out on campus. He discusses his experience in an openly gay relationship, peer reactions to his coming out, attending dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his experience at the Every Voice alumni conference. In addition, he describes attending gay clubs as a student, closeted gay men in Ivy Club, and his friendships at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about living in New York City before and during the AIDS crisis, his experience on Fire Island, and losing friends to AIDS.

Phillip speaks about his experience at Princeton as a gay man and coming out on campus. He discusses his experience in an openly gay relationship, peer reactions to his coming out, attending dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his experience at the Every Voice alumni conference. In addition, he describes attending gay clubs as a student, closeted gay men in Ivy Club, and his friendships at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about living in New York City before and during the AIDS crisis, his experience on Fire Island, and losing friends to AIDS.

Class of 1976

John Philip

Phillip speaks about his experience at Princeton as a gay man and coming out on campus. He discusses his experience in an openly gay relationship, peer reactions to his coming out, attending dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his experience at the Every Voice alumni conference. In addition, he describes attending gay clubs as a student, closeted gay men in Ivy Club, and his friendships at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about living in New York City before and during the AIDS crisis, his experience on Fire Island, and losing friends to AIDS.

Phillip speaks about his experience at Princeton as a gay man and coming out on campus. He discusses his experience in an openly gay relationship, peer reactions to his coming out, attending dances hosted by the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and his experience at the Every Voice alumni conference. In addition, he describes attending gay clubs as a student, closeted gay men in Ivy Club, and his friendships at Princeton. Finally, he speaks about living in New York City before and during the AIDS crisis, his experience on Fire Island, and losing friends to AIDS.

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Gay men, Men, White, Public school, Single-gender school, Boarding school, First awareness of queer people, Heteronormativity, Closeted, Sexual awakening, Stonewall, Friend acceptance, New South Gay Dance, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), First relationship, Breakup, Ivy (eating club), Coming out, Theatre Intime, Theater, Hookups, Fire Island, HIV/AIDS crisis, Legacy, Every Voice conference, BTGALA, Harrassment, Colonial (eating club), Clubs/bars, Gap year, Partner death, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), Adoption, Parenting, Generational understandings of identity, Undergraduate
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Homophobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Suicide mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 26, 2017

GAP Headquarters - “The Closet”

In the fall of 1973, a first-year student ran for student government on an anti-GAP platform and lost the election. That semester, GAP was given room 306 of Aaron Burr Hall for their office. The headquarters was called “The Closet,” reflecting the secretive nature of the organization and the small dimensions (10’x15’) of the room. One alumnus recalled that “the ceiling was higher than the room was long.” The office was equipped with a phone. Although the office moved and expanded, the 3rd  floor of Aaron Burr remained the home of LGBT+ student organizations until the summer of 2001 when they were forced to move out because of renovations. Pride Alliance moved into an office in Frist Campus Center in 2002.

In the fall of 1973, a first-year student ran for student government on an anti-GAP platform and lost the election. That semester, GAP was given room 306 of Aaron Burr Hall for their office. The headquarters was called “The Closet,” reflecting the secretive nature of the organization and the small dimensions (10’x15’) of the room. One alumnus recalled that “the ceiling was higher than the room was long.” The office was equipped with a phone. Although the office moved and expanded, the 3rd  floor of Aaron Burr remained the home of LGBT+ student organizations until the summer of 2001 when they were forced to move out because of renovations. Pride Alliance moved into an office in Frist Campus Center in 2002.

GAP Headquarters - “The Closet”

In the fall of 1973, a first-year student ran for student government on an anti-GAP platform and lost the election. That semester, GAP was given room 306 of Aaron Burr Hall for their office. The headquarters was called “The Closet,” reflecting the secretive nature of the organization and the small dimensions (10’x15’) of the room. One alumnus recalled that “the ceiling was higher than the room was long.” The office was equipped with a phone. Although the office moved and expanded, the 3rd  floor of Aaron Burr remained the home of LGBT+ student organizations until the summer of 2001 when they were forced to move out because of renovations. Pride Alliance moved into an office in Frist Campus Center in 2002.

In the fall of 1973, a first-year student ran for student government on an anti-GAP platform and lost the election. That semester, GAP was given room 306 of Aaron Burr Hall for their office. The headquarters was called “The Closet,” reflecting the secretive nature of the organization and the small dimensions (10’x15’) of the room. One alumnus recalled that “the ceiling was higher than the room was long.” The office was equipped with a phone. Although the office moved and expanded, the 3rd  floor of Aaron Burr remained the home of LGBT+ student organizations until the summer of 2001 when they were forced to move out because of renovations. Pride Alliance moved into an office in Frist Campus Center in 2002.

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Jim Weinrich

Jim Weinrich discusses attending Princeton when it first became co-ed and the gay liberation movement. He describes realizing he was gay and attending G.A.P. meetings after seeing the “Closet Queens Unite!” ad in the Princetonian. He then went to Harvard to study sexuality and biology, and describes late 20th century scientific thought on sexuality.

Jim Weinrich discusses attending Princeton when it first became co-ed and the gay liberation movement. He describes realizing he was gay and attending G.A.P. meetings after seeing the “Closet Queens Unite!” ad in the Princetonian. He then went to Harvard to study sexuality and biology, and describes late 20th century scientific thought on sexuality.

Class of 1972

Jim Weinrich

Jim Weinrich discusses attending Princeton when it first became co-ed and the gay liberation movement. He describes realizing he was gay and attending G.A.P. meetings after seeing the “Closet Queens Unite!” ad in the Princetonian. He then went to Harvard to study sexuality and biology, and describes late 20th century scientific thought on sexuality.

Jim Weinrich discusses attending Princeton when it first became co-ed and the gay liberation movement. He describes realizing he was gay and attending G.A.P. meetings after seeing the “Closet Queens Unite!” ad in the Princetonian. He then went to Harvard to study sexuality and biology, and describes late 20th century scientific thought on sexuality.

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Gay men, Men, Men who have sex with men, White, Legacy, Debate team, Boy Scouts, Athletics, Student government, Wilson (residential college), Andy Napolitano, Samuel Alito, Queer awakening, Mathematics, Princeton becomes co-ed, YMCA, Dillon Gym pool, Naked swimming, “Closet Queens Unite”, Stonewall, Conversion therapy, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Reunions, New South Gay Dance, Anti-sodomy laws overturned, Harvard, Coming out, Biology, Gender and Sexuality Studies, HIV/AIDS crisis, Undergraduate
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Homophobia mentioned, Racism mentioned
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July 13, 2022

Matt Carcella

Carcella speaks about his diverse family and his experiences as a student organizer at Allegheny College. Carcella then details his time working at Princeton as an assistant to the newly formed LGBT Center and with its director Debbi Bazarsky. He describes balancing his gay identity in a professional setting and how he organized LGBT-centered programming in collaboration with the Princeton community. Other topics include his work as the director of Cornell's LGBT Resource Center, the LGBT Resource Professionals Consortium, and the Fund for Reunions alumni group.

Carcella speaks about his diverse family and his experiences as a student organizer at Allegheny College. Carcella then details his time working at Princeton as an assistant to the newly formed LGBT Center and with its director Debbi Bazarsky. He describes balancing his gay identity in a professional setting and how he organized LGBT-centered programming in collaboration with the Princeton community. Other topics include his work as the director of Cornell's LGBT Resource Center, the LGBT Resource Professionals Consortium, and the Fund for Reunions alumni group.

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Matt Carcella

Carcella speaks about his diverse family and his experiences as a student organizer at Allegheny College. Carcella then details his time working at Princeton as an assistant to the newly formed LGBT Center and with its director Debbi Bazarsky. He describes balancing his gay identity in a professional setting and how he organized LGBT-centered programming in collaboration with the Princeton community. Other topics include his work as the director of Cornell's LGBT Resource Center, the LGBT Resource Professionals Consortium, and the Fund for Reunions alumni group.

Carcella speaks about his diverse family and his experiences as a student organizer at Allegheny College. Carcella then details his time working at Princeton as an assistant to the newly formed LGBT Center and with its director Debbi Bazarsky. He describes balancing his gay identity in a professional setting and how he organized LGBT-centered programming in collaboration with the Princeton community. Other topics include his work as the director of Cornell's LGBT Resource Center, the LGBT Resource Professionals Consortium, and the Fund for Reunions alumni group.

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Staff, Gay men, Queer men, White, Catholic, First awareness of queer people, Questioning sexuality, Queer awakening, Sexual Awakening, Closeted, Activism, LGBT activism, George W. Bush Administration, Debbie Bazarsky, LGBT Center, Sean Weaver, Campus resources, The Fund for Reunion (FFR), Creating Change Conference, Pride Alliance, Lavender Graduation, Peer Educators, Margot Canaday, Marriage Equality Movement, Domestic partnerships, Gay marriage legalized, High Tops, Sexual Harassment/Assault Advising Resources and Education (SHARE), Coming out, Women’s Center, Amanda Sandoval, Consortium for LGBT Higher Education Professionals, LGBT alumni
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Racism mentioned, Violence, Homophobia mentioned, Slur, Harassment mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 11, 2019

Nancy Kraybill

Kraybill reflects on her time at Princeton as a student in the fourth class allowing co-education, coming out as a lesbian during law school, and how she conceived and adopted her children. She discusses struggling academically at Princeton, her advocacy for the university's divestment from South Africa, meeting other LGBT students, and how she came to major in art history. She also speaks about questioning her sexuality after Princeton, attending UCLA law school, and her relationship with her daughters.

Kraybill reflects on her time at Princeton as a student in the fourth class allowing co-education, coming out as a lesbian during law school, and how she conceived and adopted her children. She discusses struggling academically at Princeton, her advocacy for the university's divestment from South Africa, meeting other LGBT students, and how she came to major in art history. She also speaks about questioning her sexuality after Princeton, attending UCLA law school, and her relationship with her daughters.

Class of 1976

Nancy Kraybill

Kraybill reflects on her time at Princeton as a student in the fourth class allowing co-education, coming out as a lesbian during law school, and how she conceived and adopted her children. She discusses struggling academically at Princeton, her advocacy for the university's divestment from South Africa, meeting other LGBT students, and how she came to major in art history. She also speaks about questioning her sexuality after Princeton, attending UCLA law school, and her relationship with her daughters.

Kraybill reflects on her time at Princeton as a student in the fourth class allowing co-education, coming out as a lesbian during law school, and how she conceived and adopted her children. She discusses struggling academically at Princeton, her advocacy for the university's divestment from South Africa, meeting other LGBT students, and how she came to major in art history. She also speaks about questioning her sexuality after Princeton, attending UCLA law school, and her relationship with her daughters.

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Lesbians, Women, White, Presbyterian, Vietnam war activism, Black activism, Black Panthers, Feminist activism, Study abroad, Student government, Princeton becomes co-ed, Legacy, Socioeconomic inequality, Campus visit, Gal's Hall, Politics, Art History, Work study, South Africa apartheid activism, Residential College Advisor (RCA), Eating clubs, Sally Frank vs Eating Clubs Case, Colonial (eating club), Drugs, The Annex, Chancellor Green Pub, First awareness of queer people, Spelman Hall, Graduate school, Breakup, Law school, UCLA, Coming out, Marriage, Having children, Parenting, Lambda Legal Defense, Adoption, Sperm donor, Shirley Tilghman, Undergraduate
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Racism mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Sexual violence mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 25, 2018

Events on Campus

In October 1973, lesbian activist Julie Lee spoke at Princeton, as well as Dr. Charles Ilhlendfeld ’59 who gave a lecture about homosexual counseling. In November 1973, GAP brought Dr. Howard Brown to speak on campus. Brown, former NYC Health Services Commissioner and founder of the National Gay Task Force, came out in a speech in front of 600 colleagues.

During its first two years, GAP took advantage of its proximity to New York by bringing leaders of the blossoming gay rights movement to campus. Arthur Eisenbach reached out to a number of speakers and writers, and many agreed to come to Princeton. One professor from the City University of New York wrote in a letter to Eisenbach, “it was lovely to see that letterhead ‘Gay Alliance of Princeton.’ The times they  are  a-changin’!” GAP speakers included Vito Russo, author of The Celluloid Closet,  and Sidney Barbara Love, author of Sappho Was Right on Woman, among many others.

In October 1973, lesbian activist Julie Lee spoke at Princeton, as well as Dr. Charles Ilhlendfeld ’59 who gave a lecture about homosexual counseling. In November 1973, GAP brought Dr. Howard Brown to speak on campus. Brown, former NYC Health Services Commissioner and founder of the National Gay Task Force, came out in a speech in front of 600 colleagues.

During its first two years, GAP took advantage of its proximity to New York by bringing leaders of the blossoming gay rights movement to campus. Arthur Eisenbach reached out to a number of speakers and writers, and many agreed to come to Princeton. One professor from the City University of New York wrote in a letter to Eisenbach, “it was lovely to see that letterhead ‘Gay Alliance of Princeton.’ The times they  are  a-changin’!” GAP speakers included Vito Russo, author of The Celluloid Closet,  and Sidney Barbara Love, author of Sappho Was Right on Woman, among many others.

Events on Campus

In October 1973, lesbian activist Julie Lee spoke at Princeton, as well as Dr. Charles Ilhlendfeld ’59 who gave a lecture about homosexual counseling. In November 1973, GAP brought Dr. Howard Brown to speak on campus. Brown, former NYC Health Services Commissioner and founder of the National Gay Task Force, came out in a speech in front of 600 colleagues.

During its first two years, GAP took advantage of its proximity to New York by bringing leaders of the blossoming gay rights movement to campus. Arthur Eisenbach reached out to a number of speakers and writers, and many agreed to come to Princeton. One professor from the City University of New York wrote in a letter to Eisenbach, “it was lovely to see that letterhead ‘Gay Alliance of Princeton.’ The times they  are  a-changin’!” GAP speakers included Vito Russo, author of The Celluloid Closet,  and Sidney Barbara Love, author of Sappho Was Right on Woman, among many others.

In October 1973, lesbian activist Julie Lee spoke at Princeton, as well as Dr. Charles Ilhlendfeld ’59 who gave a lecture about homosexual counseling. In November 1973, GAP brought Dr. Howard Brown to speak on campus. Brown, former NYC Health Services Commissioner and founder of the National Gay Task Force, came out in a speech in front of 600 colleagues.

During its first two years, GAP took advantage of its proximity to New York by bringing leaders of the blossoming gay rights movement to campus. Arthur Eisenbach reached out to a number of speakers and writers, and many agreed to come to Princeton. One professor from the City University of New York wrote in a letter to Eisenbach, “it was lovely to see that letterhead ‘Gay Alliance of Princeton.’ The times they  are  a-changin’!” GAP speakers included Vito Russo, author of The Celluloid Closet,  and Sidney Barbara Love, author of Sappho Was Right on Woman, among many others.

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Ann Herendeen

Herendeen describes her time at Princeton as a disabled, queer, female student. She explains the social isolation she experienced at Princeton, the ways she was unable to accommodate her physical disability at Princeton, and her experiences during a leave of absence. She also talks about finding community with other gay students through Stevenson Hall, dances on New South, and by exploring her sexuality. FInally, she discusses gay culture before the AIDS epidemic,her participation in political activism at Princeton, and her writing career.

Herendeen describes her time at Princeton as a disabled, queer, female student. She explains the social isolation she experienced at Princeton, the ways she was unable to accommodate her physical disability at Princeton, and her experiences during a leave of absence. She also talks about finding community with other gay students through Stevenson Hall, dances on New South, and by exploring her sexuality. FInally, she discusses gay culture before the AIDS epidemic,her participation in political activism at Princeton, and her writing career.

Class of 1977

Ann Herendeen

Herendeen describes her time at Princeton as a disabled, queer, female student. She explains the social isolation she experienced at Princeton, the ways she was unable to accommodate her physical disability at Princeton, and her experiences during a leave of absence. She also talks about finding community with other gay students through Stevenson Hall, dances on New South, and by exploring her sexuality. FInally, she discusses gay culture before the AIDS epidemic,her participation in political activism at Princeton, and her writing career.

Herendeen describes her time at Princeton as a disabled, queer, female student. She explains the social isolation she experienced at Princeton, the ways she was unable to accommodate her physical disability at Princeton, and her experiences during a leave of absence. She also talks about finding community with other gay students through Stevenson Hall, dances on New South, and by exploring her sexuality. FInally, she discusses gay culture before the AIDS epidemic,her participation in political activism at Princeton, and her writing career.

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Bisexual women, Queer women, Women, White, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Socioeconomic inequality, Private school, Vietnam war activism, Disability, Gap year, Travel abroad, Theater, Wilson (residential college), Body image, First relationship, Stevenson Hall, Coming out, Queer awakening, Princeton becomes co-ed, Douglas Brown, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Banner stealing, Harrassment, Questioning sexuality, Stereotypes, Stonewall, LGBT activism, Clubs/bars, New South Gay Dance, Drugs, Hookups, Pride parade, HIV/AIDS crisis, Gay marriage legalized, Writer, English, Nixon Administration, Reagan Administration, Sally Frank, South Africa apartheid activism, Undergraduate
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Sexism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Ableism mentioned, Biphobia mentioned, Slur
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July 14, 2017

Lia Bostian

Bostian details how she navigated her sexuality without role models and within a Catholic, Italian-American immigrant environment. She explains her membership at the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship (PEF) and her participation in bible studies, prayer meetings, and discussions. Further, she details the long process of repressing and eventually accepting her sexuality later in life through counseling and community with other LGBT christians. She also discusses connecting with LGBT alumni through the Every Voice conference and her career as a pastoral and psychological counselor.

Bostian details how she navigated her sexuality without role models and within a Catholic, Italian-American immigrant environment. She explains her membership at the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship (PEF) and her participation in bible studies, prayer meetings, and discussions. Further, she details the long process of repressing and eventually accepting her sexuality later in life through counseling and community with other LGBT christians. She also discusses connecting with LGBT alumni through the Every Voice conference and her career as a pastoral and psychological counselor.

Class of 1975

Lia Bostian

Bostian details how she navigated her sexuality without role models and within a Catholic, Italian-American immigrant environment. She explains her membership at the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship (PEF) and her participation in bible studies, prayer meetings, and discussions. Further, she details the long process of repressing and eventually accepting her sexuality later in life through counseling and community with other LGBT christians. She also discusses connecting with LGBT alumni through the Every Voice conference and her career as a pastoral and psychological counselor.

Bostian details how she navigated her sexuality without role models and within a Catholic, Italian-American immigrant environment. She explains her membership at the Princeton Evangelical Fellowship (PEF) and her participation in bible studies, prayer meetings, and discussions. Further, she details the long process of repressing and eventually accepting her sexuality later in life through counseling and community with other LGBT christians. She also discusses connecting with LGBT alumni through the Every Voice conference and her career as a pastoral and psychological counselor.

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Italian speaking, Italian, White, Catholic, Christian, Evangelical, Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, First relationship, women loving women, women oriented women, gay women, lesbian, Nude Olympics, Socioeconomic inequality, Princeton becomes co-ed, Religion and queerness, Princeton Evangelical Fellowship, Athletics, Computer Science, Mental health, Conversion therapy, Marriage, Having children, Queer awakening, Heteronormativity, Employment discrimination, Losing friends, Every Voice conference, Body image
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Depression mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 12, 2018

Scott Anderson

Anderson describes dating other gay men in high school and within Princeton's traditional, conservative environment. He discusses studying abroad his junior and senior years as a History major and his experiences as a student living in Nassau Inn. He also speaks about his time as a graduate student at UC Berkeley, his work on the prominent gay magazine The Advocate, and his experiences with the AIDs crisis. Finally, he talks about his world travels, consulting career, and long-lasting friendships.

Anderson describes dating other gay men in high school and within Princeton's traditional, conservative environment. He discusses studying abroad his junior and senior years as a History major and his experiences as a student living in Nassau Inn. He also speaks about his time as a graduate student at UC Berkeley, his work on the prominent gay magazine The Advocate, and his experiences with the AIDs crisis. Finally, he talks about his world travels, consulting career, and long-lasting friendships.

Class of 1972

Scott Anderson

Anderson describes dating other gay men in high school and within Princeton's traditional, conservative environment. He discusses studying abroad his junior and senior years as a History major and his experiences as a student living in Nassau Inn. He also speaks about his time as a graduate student at UC Berkeley, his work on the prominent gay magazine The Advocate, and his experiences with the AIDs crisis. Finally, he talks about his world travels, consulting career, and long-lasting friendships.

Anderson describes dating other gay men in high school and within Princeton's traditional, conservative environment. He discusses studying abroad his junior and senior years as a History major and his experiences as a student living in Nassau Inn. He also speaks about his time as a graduate student at UC Berkeley, his work on the prominent gay magazine The Advocate, and his experiences with the AIDs crisis. Finally, he talks about his world travels, consulting career, and long-lasting friendships.

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Gay men, White, Queer awakening, Sexual awakening, First-generation immigrant, French speaking, Athletics, Russian speaking, Russian East European and Eurasian Studies, Comparative Literature, Study abroad, Drugs, Woody Woo (location), Gay and Lesbian Alumni (GALA), Shirley Tilghman, First relationship, Parenting, Clubs/bars, HIV/AIDS crisis, AIDS Project Los Angeles, the Buddy Program, Meeting partner
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Traumatic childhood mentioned, Domestic violence mentioned, Slur, Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
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July 24, 2017

Thomas Stephens

Stephens speaks about attending Princeton as an out, gay graduate student. He speaks about his time as an undergraduate at UC Boulder, entering Princeton's graduate urban planning program at the Woodrow Wilson School, and coming out to a small number of classmates. In addition, he speaks about entering gay culture, his experience with Princeton academics, and working for the New Jersey parole board. Finally, he speaks about teaching a class at Princeton, attending Harvard Law school, leading an anti-discrimination petition, coming out to his family, and his career as a lawyer.

Stephens speaks about attending Princeton as an out, gay graduate student. He speaks about his time as an undergraduate at UC Boulder, entering Princeton's graduate urban planning program at the Woodrow Wilson School, and coming out to a small number of classmates. In addition, he speaks about entering gay culture, his experience with Princeton academics, and working for the New Jersey parole board. Finally, he speaks about teaching a class at Princeton, attending Harvard Law school, leading an anti-discrimination petition, coming out to his family, and his career as a lawyer.

Graduate Class of 1976

Thomas Stephens

Stephens speaks about attending Princeton as an out, gay graduate student. He speaks about his time as an undergraduate at UC Boulder, entering Princeton's graduate urban planning program at the Woodrow Wilson School, and coming out to a small number of classmates. In addition, he speaks about entering gay culture, his experience with Princeton academics, and working for the New Jersey parole board. Finally, he speaks about teaching a class at Princeton, attending Harvard Law school, leading an anti-discrimination petition, coming out to his family, and his career as a lawyer.

Stephens speaks about attending Princeton as an out, gay graduate student. He speaks about his time as an undergraduate at UC Boulder, entering Princeton's graduate urban planning program at the Woodrow Wilson School, and coming out to a small number of classmates. In addition, he speaks about entering gay culture, his experience with Princeton academics, and working for the New Jersey parole board. Finally, he speaks about teaching a class at Princeton, attending Harvard Law school, leading an anti-discrimination petition, coming out to his family, and his career as a lawyer.

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White, Athletics, Politics, Anti-war movement, Sexual awakening, First awareness of queer people, Cruising, Woodrow Wilson School, Graduate student, Coming out, Travel abroad, Clubs/bars, Law, LGBT activism, Employment discrimination, Family acceptance, Friend acceptance, Hookups, First relationship, Discrimination, Gay marriage legalized
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War mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 2, 2018

Second Annual GAP Dance

The second annual GAP dance was held on April 17, 1974 and drew 240 people, 74 of whom were Princeton students. With lingering concerns about funding, GAP decided to hold monthly paid dances, so they would not be wholly dependent on University support. At a one-dollar admission charge, the first dance effectively doubled GAP’s budget. GAP dances continued to draw about 200 people every month, and featured GAP’s very own disco ball.

The second annual GAP dance was held on April 17, 1974 and drew 240 people, 74 of whom were Princeton students. With lingering concerns about funding, GAP decided to hold monthly paid dances, so they would not be wholly dependent on University support. At a one-dollar admission charge, the first dance effectively doubled GAP’s budget. GAP dances continued to draw about 200 people every month, and featured GAP’s very own disco ball.

Second Annual GAP Dance

The second annual GAP dance was held on April 17, 1974 and drew 240 people, 74 of whom were Princeton students. With lingering concerns about funding, GAP decided to hold monthly paid dances, so they would not be wholly dependent on University support. At a one-dollar admission charge, the first dance effectively doubled GAP’s budget. GAP dances continued to draw about 200 people every month, and featured GAP’s very own disco ball.

The second annual GAP dance was held on April 17, 1974 and drew 240 people, 74 of whom were Princeton students. With lingering concerns about funding, GAP decided to hold monthly paid dances, so they would not be wholly dependent on University support. At a one-dollar admission charge, the first dance effectively doubled GAP’s budget. GAP dances continued to draw about 200 people every month, and featured GAP’s very own disco ball.

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Bill Goodman

Goodman discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay male amidst the Vietnam War. He talks about his struggles with depression as a student, his time abroad in Spain, and protests on campus by the Students for Democratic Society. He also speaks about the beginnings of co-ed education at the university, the general atmosphere around gay students, and how his career intersected with his gay identity.

Goodman discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay male amidst the Vietnam War. He talks about his struggles with depression as a student, his time abroad in Spain, and protests on campus by the Students for Democratic Society. He also speaks about the beginnings of co-ed education at the university, the general atmosphere around gay students, and how his career intersected with his gay identity.

Class of 1973

Bill Goodman

Goodman discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay male amidst the Vietnam War. He talks about his struggles with depression as a student, his time abroad in Spain, and protests on campus by the Students for Democratic Society. He also speaks about the beginnings of co-ed education at the university, the general atmosphere around gay students, and how his career intersected with his gay identity.

Goodman discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay male amidst the Vietnam War. He talks about his struggles with depression as a student, his time abroad in Spain, and protests on campus by the Students for Democratic Society. He also speaks about the beginnings of co-ed education at the university, the general atmosphere around gay students, and how his career intersected with his gay identity.

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Gay men, Men, White, Jewish, Law school, Heteronormativity, All-male Princeton, Princeton becomes co-ed, Theater, First awareness of queer people, Libraries and queer awakening, Closeted, Therapy, Coming out, Family estrangement, Family acceptance, Partner death, Spanish and Portuguese, Study abroad, First relationship, Stonewall, Founding of GAP, Cannon (eating club), Vietnam war activism, Print shop, HIV/AIDS crisis, Gay marriage legalized, Reunions, Undergraduate
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Homophobia mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 1, 2018

David Groff

Groff discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about encountering other gay students through his involvement with Theatre Intime, on the B Floor in Firestone Library, at the Dinky Station, and in the Chancellor Green pub. Further, he discusses how the Douglas Brown incident and studying abroad in Britain influenced his time at Princeton. In addition, he speaks about dating women while closeted, his marriage, and how his work as a poet intersects with his gay identity and cultural activism.

Groff discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about encountering other gay students through his involvement with Theatre Intime, on the B Floor in Firestone Library, at the Dinky Station, and in the Chancellor Green pub. Further, he discusses how the Douglas Brown incident and studying abroad in Britain influenced his time at Princeton. In addition, he speaks about dating women while closeted, his marriage, and how his work as a poet intersects with his gay identity and cultural activism.

Class of 1979

David Groff

Groff discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about encountering other gay students through his involvement with Theatre Intime, on the B Floor in Firestone Library, at the Dinky Station, and in the Chancellor Green pub. Further, he discusses how the Douglas Brown incident and studying abroad in Britain influenced his time at Princeton. In addition, he speaks about dating women while closeted, his marriage, and how his work as a poet intersects with his gay identity and cultural activism.

Groff discusses his time at Princeton as a closeted gay student. He talks about encountering other gay students through his involvement with Theatre Intime, on the B Floor in Firestone Library, at the Dinky Station, and in the Chancellor Green pub. Further, he discusses how the Douglas Brown incident and studying abroad in Britain influenced his time at Princeton. In addition, he speaks about dating women while closeted, his marriage, and how his work as a poet intersects with his gay identity and cultural activism.

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Episcopalian, White, Public school, Private school, Religious school, Princeton becomes co-ed, Closeted, Attraction to friend, Queer awakening, Woodrow Wilson School, English, 185 Nassau, Creative Writing, Theater Intime, William Bowen, South Africa apartheid activism, Concerned Alumni of Princeton, Third World Center, Donald Rumsfeld, LGBT activism, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), New South Gay Dance, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Cottage (eating club), Anne-Marie Slaughter, Triangle Club, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Cruising, Chancellor Green, Colonial (eating club), Terrace (eating club), Study abroad, Murray Dodge, HIV/AIDS crisis, Theater, Shirley Tilghman, LGBT alumni, Marriage, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), Writing
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Harassment mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Student death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 7, 2017

Fred Bernstein

Bernstein describes coming out his freshman year at Princeton and subsequently joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton (GAP). He discusses designing GAP's first logo and bringing politician Elaine Noble and psychologist Don Clark to campus as speakers in 1976. He speaks about meeting other gay men on campus and forming a community through the Kosher Dining Hall. He also reflects on the Douglas Brown incident and his attendance at LGBT alumni events like Every Voice and the annual Fund for Reunion.

Bernstein describes coming out his freshman year at Princeton and subsequently joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton (GAP). He discusses designing GAP's first logo and bringing politician Elaine Noble and psychologist Don Clark to campus as speakers in 1976. He speaks about meeting other gay men on campus and forming a community through the Kosher Dining Hall. He also reflects on the Douglas Brown incident and his attendance at LGBT alumni events like Every Voice and the annual Fund for Reunion.

Class of 1977

Fred Bernstein

Bernstein describes coming out his freshman year at Princeton and subsequently joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton (GAP). He discusses designing GAP's first logo and bringing politician Elaine Noble and psychologist Don Clark to campus as speakers in 1976. He speaks about meeting other gay men on campus and forming a community through the Kosher Dining Hall. He also reflects on the Douglas Brown incident and his attendance at LGBT alumni events like Every Voice and the annual Fund for Reunion.

Bernstein describes coming out his freshman year at Princeton and subsequently joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton (GAP). He discusses designing GAP's first logo and bringing politician Elaine Noble and psychologist Don Clark to campus as speakers in 1976. He speaks about meeting other gay men on campus and forming a community through the Kosher Dining Hall. He also reflects on the Douglas Brown incident and his attendance at LGBT alumni events like Every Voice and the annual Fund for Reunion.

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gay men, White, Attraction to friend, Ally, Clubs/bars, New South Gay Dance, The Closet, Aaron Burr Hall, Martin Duberman, Elaine Noble, Woody Woo (location), Don Clark, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Every Voice conference, Christopher Eisgruber, Shirley Tilghman, Jewish (ethnicity)
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Homophobia mentioned
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July 12, 2017

Shirley M. Tilghman

Shirley Tilghman discusses her career as a woman studying STEM in the 1960s and '70s, including her time as a molecular biology professor at Princeton University. She then describes her time as president at Princeton University, including the founding of the LGBT center, advocating for Muslim students in the wake of 9/11, and her goals for the university that she was not able to achieve during her presidency.

Shirley Tilghman discusses her career as a woman studying STEM in the 1960s and '70s, including her time as a molecular biology professor at Princeton University. She then describes her time as president at Princeton University, including the founding of the LGBT center, advocating for Muslim students in the wake of 9/11, and her goals for the university that she was not able to achieve during her presidency.

former University President

Shirley M. Tilghman

Shirley Tilghman discusses her career as a woman studying STEM in the 1960s and '70s, including her time as a molecular biology professor at Princeton University. She then describes her time as president at Princeton University, including the founding of the LGBT center, advocating for Muslim students in the wake of 9/11, and her goals for the university that she was not able to achieve during her presidency.

Shirley Tilghman discusses her career as a woman studying STEM in the 1960s and '70s, including her time as a molecular biology professor at Princeton University. She then describes her time as president at Princeton University, including the founding of the LGBT center, advocating for Muslim students in the wake of 9/11, and her goals for the university that she was not able to achieve during her presidency.

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White, Siblings, Immigration, public school, Discrimination, Academia, Marriage, Women's Movement, Mentorship, Having children, Parenting, HIV/AIDS crisis, HIV/AIDS activism, Administration, Harold Shapiro, Lewis-Sigler Institute for Integrative Genomics, Lewis Center for the Arts, George W. Bush Administration, 9/11, LGBT Center, Founding of LGBT Center, Lavender Graduation, Nassau Hall, Fund for Reunion (FFR), Bendheim Center for Finance, LGBT activism, Religion and queerness, West College, Frist Campus Center, Debbie Bazarsky, Reunions, African American Studies, Black activism, Feminist activism, She Roars conference, Every Voice Conference, THRIVE conference, ¡Adelante Tigres! conference, Woodrow Wilson School, Grandchildren, Christopher Eisgruber, Andlinger Center for Energy and the Environment
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Sexism mentioned, Islamophobia mentioned, Illness and Death mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 31, 2019

Campaign to Widen Princeton’s Non-Discrimination Policy

In the mid-1970s after facing harassment on campus, GAP members decided to campaign for the University to widen its non-discrimination policy to include “sexual and affectional orientation.” On February 13, 1976, Provost Albert Rees was quoted in The Daily Princetonian as saying, “Why do they need a public pronouncement? Isn’t it the University policy [not to discriminate against gays]?...Have you thought a little about what Prospect Magazine would think of that?” Prospect Magazine was a publication of Concerned Alumni of Princeton—CAP— a conservative organization founded in 1972 largely in response to Princeton’s decision to admit women beginning in 1969. One member of CAP stated, “I know of very few people who would want to send their children to an institution where the stated policy of non-discrimination towards homosexuals was stated in their admissions literature.”

Though the University’s non-discrimination policy did not explicitly include sexual orientation, some administration officials felt that a wider understanding of non-discrimination was implicit in the policy. The University did not discriminate based on sex, religion, race, color and national origin, as required by law, but Provost Rees was emphatic that, “of course our commitment to non-discrimination is much broader than that.” As Adele Simmons, Dean of Student Affairs, put it, “as part of the policy of non-discrimination, the University cannot condone discrimination on the basis of sexual and affectional preference and must do all that it can to ensure that such discrimination does not take place.”

Douglas Brown ‘79 and his roommate Michael Mintz ‘79, GAP members and two of the most active student voices on this policy, often endured harassment because of their stance. Students threw eggs, oranges, and rocks at them, and chucked smoke bombs into their 1903 Hall dorm room in January 1976 after Brown and Mintz hung a GAP banner in the window. An anti-gay letter written to The Prince, at this time, was met with a “deluge” of pro-gay letters. One visiting student felt that this response demonstrated that “the Princeton community apparently harbors more hostility towards anti-gays than towards gays”.

In the mid-1970s after facing harassment on campus, GAP members decided to campaign for the University to widen its non-discrimination policy to include “sexual and affectional orientation.” On February 13, 1976, Provost Albert Rees was quoted in The Daily Princetonian as saying, “Why do they need a public pronouncement? Isn’t it the University policy [not to discriminate against gays]?...Have you thought a little about what Prospect Magazine would think of that?” Prospect Magazine was a publication of Concerned Alumni of Princeton—CAP— a conservative organization founded in 1972 largely in response to Princeton’s decision to admit women beginning in 1969. One member of CAP stated, “I know of very few people who would want to send their children to an institution where the stated policy of non-discrimination towards homosexuals was stated in their admissions literature.”

Though the University’s non-discrimination policy did not explicitly include sexual orientation, some administration officials felt that a wider understanding of non-discrimination was implicit in the policy. The University did not discriminate based on sex, religion, race, color and national origin, as required by law, but Provost Rees was emphatic that, “of course our commitment to non-discrimination is much broader than that.” As Adele Simmons, Dean of Student Affairs, put it, “as part of the policy of non-discrimination, the University cannot condone discrimination on the basis of sexual and affectional preference and must do all that it can to ensure that such discrimination does not take place.”

Douglas Brown ‘79 and his roommate Michael Mintz ‘79, GAP members and two of the most active student voices on this policy, often endured harassment because of their stance. Students threw eggs, oranges, and rocks at them, and chucked smoke bombs into their 1903 Hall dorm room in January 1976 after Brown and Mintz hung a GAP banner in the window. An anti-gay letter written to The Prince, at this time, was met with a “deluge” of pro-gay letters. One visiting student felt that this response demonstrated that “the Princeton community apparently harbors more hostility towards anti-gays than towards gays”.

Campaign to Widen Princeton’s Non-Discrimination Policy

In the mid-1970s after facing harassment on campus, GAP members decided to campaign for the University to widen its non-discrimination policy to include “sexual and affectional orientation.” On February 13, 1976, Provost Albert Rees was quoted in The Daily Princetonian as saying, “Why do they need a public pronouncement? Isn’t it the University policy [not to discriminate against gays]?...Have you thought a little about what Prospect Magazine would think of that?” Prospect Magazine was a publication of Concerned Alumni of Princeton—CAP— a conservative organization founded in 1972 largely in response to Princeton’s decision to admit women beginning in 1969. One member of CAP stated, “I know of very few people who would want to send their children to an institution where the stated policy of non-discrimination towards homosexuals was stated in their admissions literature.”

Though the University’s non-discrimination policy did not explicitly include sexual orientation, some administration officials felt that a wider understanding of non-discrimination was implicit in the policy. The University did not discriminate based on sex, religion, race, color and national origin, as required by law, but Provost Rees was emphatic that, “of course our commitment to non-discrimination is much broader than that.” As Adele Simmons, Dean of Student Affairs, put it, “as part of the policy of non-discrimination, the University cannot condone discrimination on the basis of sexual and affectional preference and must do all that it can to ensure that such discrimination does not take place.”

Douglas Brown ‘79 and his roommate Michael Mintz ‘79, GAP members and two of the most active student voices on this policy, often endured harassment because of their stance. Students threw eggs, oranges, and rocks at them, and chucked smoke bombs into their 1903 Hall dorm room in January 1976 after Brown and Mintz hung a GAP banner in the window. An anti-gay letter written to The Prince, at this time, was met with a “deluge” of pro-gay letters. One visiting student felt that this response demonstrated that “the Princeton community apparently harbors more hostility towards anti-gays than towards gays”.

In the mid-1970s after facing harassment on campus, GAP members decided to campaign for the University to widen its non-discrimination policy to include “sexual and affectional orientation.” On February 13, 1976, Provost Albert Rees was quoted in The Daily Princetonian as saying, “Why do they need a public pronouncement? Isn’t it the University policy [not to discriminate against gays]?...Have you thought a little about what Prospect Magazine would think of that?” Prospect Magazine was a publication of Concerned Alumni of Princeton—CAP— a conservative organization founded in 1972 largely in response to Princeton’s decision to admit women beginning in 1969. One member of CAP stated, “I know of very few people who would want to send their children to an institution where the stated policy of non-discrimination towards homosexuals was stated in their admissions literature.”

Though the University’s non-discrimination policy did not explicitly include sexual orientation, some administration officials felt that a wider understanding of non-discrimination was implicit in the policy. The University did not discriminate based on sex, religion, race, color and national origin, as required by law, but Provost Rees was emphatic that, “of course our commitment to non-discrimination is much broader than that.” As Adele Simmons, Dean of Student Affairs, put it, “as part of the policy of non-discrimination, the University cannot condone discrimination on the basis of sexual and affectional preference and must do all that it can to ensure that such discrimination does not take place.”

Douglas Brown ‘79 and his roommate Michael Mintz ‘79, GAP members and two of the most active student voices on this policy, often endured harassment because of their stance. Students threw eggs, oranges, and rocks at them, and chucked smoke bombs into their 1903 Hall dorm room in January 1976 after Brown and Mintz hung a GAP banner in the window. An anti-gay letter written to The Prince, at this time, was met with a “deluge” of pro-gay letters. One visiting student felt that this response demonstrated that “the Princeton community apparently harbors more hostility towards anti-gays than towards gays”.

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Dana Leslie

Leslie speaks about her life as a bisexual, trans woman and her experiences at Princeton while closeted. She discusses becoming blind, attending the New School, and transferring to Princeton as a sophomore. In addition, she speaks about cruising while at Princeton and the small gay community at the University. She also speaks about her bisexual activism, specifically for the 1978 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights, her activism for transgender rights in the late 1990's, and her transition. Finally, she discusses her graduate studies at Brown University and the LGBA community support she found at the university.

Leslie speaks about her life as a bisexual, trans woman and her experiences at Princeton while closeted. She discusses becoming blind, attending the New School, and transferring to Princeton as a sophomore. In addition, she speaks about cruising while at Princeton and the small gay community at the University. She also speaks about her bisexual activism, specifically for the 1978 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights, her activism for transgender rights in the late 1990's, and her transition. Finally, she discusses her graduate studies at Brown University and the LGBA community support she found at the university.

Class of 1978

Dana Leslie

Leslie speaks about her life as a bisexual, trans woman and her experiences at Princeton while closeted. She discusses becoming blind, attending the New School, and transferring to Princeton as a sophomore. In addition, she speaks about cruising while at Princeton and the small gay community at the University. She also speaks about her bisexual activism, specifically for the 1978 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights, her activism for transgender rights in the late 1990's, and her transition. Finally, she discusses her graduate studies at Brown University and the LGBA community support she found at the university.

Leslie speaks about her life as a bisexual, trans woman and her experiences at Princeton while closeted. She discusses becoming blind, attending the New School, and transferring to Princeton as a sophomore. In addition, she speaks about cruising while at Princeton and the small gay community at the University. She also speaks about her bisexual activism, specifically for the 1978 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights, her activism for transgender rights in the late 1990's, and her transition. Finally, she discusses her graduate studies at Brown University and the LGBA community support she found at the university.

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Transgender women, Bisexual, White, Disability, Public school, Philosophy, Closeted, Cruising, LGBT activism, Activism, Anti-sodomy laws overturned, Questioning gender, Coming out, Family estrangement, Transitioning, Reunions, Judy Jarvis, LGBT Center, HIV/AIDS crisis
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Transphobia mentioned
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July 25, 2018

Helen Zia

Helen Zia discussing growing up in New Jersey as an Asian-American, and finding community with other Asian-American students at Princeton. She details her work with the Third World movement, which led to the creation of the Third World Center, as well as being involved in founding the Asian-American Student Association. She talks about her sexual identity: not having the language her attractions while at Princeton, learning about lesbian identity through Our Bodies, Ourselves, and being told that if she was a lesbian she would be kicked out of the civil rights groups she was part of post-Princeton. She discusses her career journey of med school to construction work to automobile manufacturing to journalism, and the role that Vincent Chin's murder played in her eventual journalism career. Finally, she details her coming out process, her time working at Ms. magazine, and her experiences with the gay marriage movement.

Helen Zia discussing growing up in New Jersey as an Asian-American, and finding community with other Asian-American students at Princeton. She details her work with the Third World movement, which led to the creation of the Third World Center, as well as being involved in founding the Asian-American Student Association. She talks about her sexual identity: not having the language her attractions while at Princeton, learning about lesbian identity through Our Bodies, Ourselves, and being told that if she was a lesbian she would be kicked out of the civil rights groups she was part of post-Princeton. She discusses her career journey of med school to construction work to automobile manufacturing to journalism, and the role that Vincent Chin's murder played in her eventual journalism career. Finally, she details her coming out process, her time working at Ms. magazine, and her experiences with the gay marriage movement.

Class of 1973

Helen Zia

Helen Zia discussing growing up in New Jersey as an Asian-American, and finding community with other Asian-American students at Princeton. She details her work with the Third World movement, which led to the creation of the Third World Center, as well as being involved in founding the Asian-American Student Association. She talks about her sexual identity: not having the language her attractions while at Princeton, learning about lesbian identity through Our Bodies, Ourselves, and being told that if she was a lesbian she would be kicked out of the civil rights groups she was part of post-Princeton. She discusses her career journey of med school to construction work to automobile manufacturing to journalism, and the role that Vincent Chin's murder played in her eventual journalism career. Finally, she details her coming out process, her time working at Ms. magazine, and her experiences with the gay marriage movement.

Helen Zia discussing growing up in New Jersey as an Asian-American, and finding community with other Asian-American students at Princeton. She details her work with the Third World movement, which led to the creation of the Third World Center, as well as being involved in founding the Asian-American Student Association. She talks about her sexual identity: not having the language her attractions while at Princeton, learning about lesbian identity through Our Bodies, Ourselves, and being told that if she was a lesbian she would be kicked out of the civil rights groups she was part of post-Princeton. She discusses her career journey of med school to construction work to automobile manufacturing to journalism, and the role that Vincent Chin's murder played in her eventual journalism career. Finally, she details her coming out process, her time working at Ms. magazine, and her experiences with the gay marriage movement.

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Asian-American, Confucian, World War II, Cold War, Vietnam War, Shanghai dialect speaking, Civil Rights Movement, Student Activism, Vietnam War Activism, Anti-War Movement, 1970 Student Strike, Little Hall (residential hall), Pre-medical (educational track), Princeton becomes co-ed, Woodrow Wilson School (concentration), Medical School, Third World Movement, Third World Center, Carl A. Fields Center, Osborne Field House, Asian American Student Association (AASA), Affinity groups, Dillon Gym pool, Naked swimming, Women's Crew Team, Women's Center, Therapy, Feminism, Pearl Harbor, Asian-American Activism, Marriage, HIV/AIDS crisis
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War mentioned, Racism mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Domestic violence mentioned
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July 14, 2017

John Marcom

Macom speaks about his time at Princeton as a questioning, closeted student. He discusses writing for the student magazine Business Today, influential classes, working in New York City during after his junior year, and interning at the New Jersey State Endowment for Trenton. He also talks about his time in Seoul on a Luce Fellowship, his work with the Wall Street Journal, losing friends during the AIDs crisis, and coming out to his family. Finally, he reflects on meeting his husband and returning to work for TIME magazine.

Macom speaks about his time at Princeton as a questioning, closeted student. He discusses writing for the student magazine Business Today, influential classes, working in New York City during after his junior year, and interning at the New Jersey State Endowment for Trenton. He also talks about his time in Seoul on a Luce Fellowship, his work with the Wall Street Journal, losing friends during the AIDs crisis, and coming out to his family. Finally, he reflects on meeting his husband and returning to work for TIME magazine.

Class of 1979

John Marcom

Macom speaks about his time at Princeton as a questioning, closeted student. He discusses writing for the student magazine Business Today, influential classes, working in New York City during after his junior year, and interning at the New Jersey State Endowment for Trenton. He also talks about his time in Seoul on a Luce Fellowship, his work with the Wall Street Journal, losing friends during the AIDs crisis, and coming out to his family. Finally, he reflects on meeting his husband and returning to work for TIME magazine.

Macom speaks about his time at Princeton as a questioning, closeted student. He discusses writing for the student magazine Business Today, influential classes, working in New York City during after his junior year, and interning at the New Jersey State Endowment for Trenton. He also talks about his time in Seoul on a Luce Fellowship, his work with the Wall Street Journal, losing friends during the AIDs crisis, and coming out to his family. Finally, he reflects on meeting his husband and returning to work for TIME magazine.

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Gay men, Men, White, Protestant, Presbyterian, White, Religious school, Private school, Socioeconomic inequality, Harrassment, Mental health, First awareness of queer people, Sexual awakening, HIV/AIDS crisis, Campus visit, Zee group, First relationship, Breakup, Heteronormativity, Closeted, Every Voice conference, Cottage (eating club), Travel abroad, Douglas Brown, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Journalism, Business Today, Economics, Bathhouses, Arts in Trenton, Marriage, Coming out, Family acceptance, Religion and queerness, Business school, Undergraduate
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Racism mentioned, Anti-Semitism mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Slur, Suicide mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
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August 14, 2017

Trey Peters

Peters discusses her time at Princeton as a lesbian student. She reflects on joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, the threat of physical violence against out LGBT students on campus, her activism for a university anti-discrimination clause, and the Douglas Brown banner incident. In addition, she reflects on LGBT peers and friendships she made on campus, allyship from the Sex Education Center, and how some in the administration helped GAP students. Finally, she describes losing a classmate to HIV, marrying her wife, adopting her children, and her struggles as a low-income, first generation student.

Peters discusses her time at Princeton as a lesbian student. She reflects on joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, the threat of physical violence against out LGBT students on campus, her activism for a university anti-discrimination clause, and the Douglas Brown banner incident. In addition, she reflects on LGBT peers and friendships she made on campus, allyship from the Sex Education Center, and how some in the administration helped GAP students. Finally, she describes losing a classmate to HIV, marrying her wife, adopting her children, and her struggles as a low-income, first generation student.

Class of 1979

Trey Peters

Peters discusses her time at Princeton as a lesbian student. She reflects on joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, the threat of physical violence against out LGBT students on campus, her activism for a university anti-discrimination clause, and the Douglas Brown banner incident. In addition, she reflects on LGBT peers and friendships she made on campus, allyship from the Sex Education Center, and how some in the administration helped GAP students. Finally, she describes losing a classmate to HIV, marrying her wife, adopting her children, and her struggles as a low-income, first generation student.

Peters discusses her time at Princeton as a lesbian student. She reflects on joining the Gay Alliance at Princeton, the threat of physical violence against out LGBT students on campus, her activism for a university anti-discrimination clause, and the Douglas Brown banner incident. In addition, she reflects on LGBT peers and friendships she made on campus, allyship from the Sex Education Center, and how some in the administration helped GAP students. Finally, she describes losing a classmate to HIV, marrying her wife, adopting her children, and her struggles as a low-income, first generation student.

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Lesbians, Mexican, Questioning gender, Gender nonconforming, Family acceptance, Doug Brown, Clubs/bars, Non-discrimination policy, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), New South Gay Dance, Third World Center, Socioeconomic inequality, FLI students (First-Generation Low-Income), 185 Nassau, Financial aid, LGBT alumni, Gay Rights Movement, Activism, LGBT activism, HIV/AIDS crisis, 9/11, Having children, Adoption, Pride parade, Wedding, Marriage, Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Center (SECH)
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Homophobia mentioned, Violence mentioned, Illness and death mentioned, slur, Harassment mentioned
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August 8, 2017

The Banner Incident

Not deterred by homophobic harassment, Douglas Brown and Michael Mintz hung a banner from the window of their dorm room reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” A group of eight students tried to scale the wall of Brown and Mintzs’ dormitory building to tear down the banner on February 23, 1976. When this failed, they broke into the room to steal the banner, hurling a chair against the wall and throwing books out the window. Several days after the banner was stolen, it appeared at the office of The Daily Princetonian with a note reading “Hetero is Betero.” Other banners appeared on campus in opposition to GAP, including banners reading: “HUMP: Heterosexual Undergraduates of Princeton,” “Gay is Okay, but Hetero is Betero,” “Anti-F****t Alliance,” and “Be Happy, Not Gay.” Two female undergraduate allies hung a banner reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” When asked about the banner, the women responded they felt everyone should put up a banner to support students subject to such harassment.

Though The Daily Princetonian called for immediate expulsion, the eight perpetrators of the banner incident were punished with two years of academic probation and a censure on their permanent record.

On February 22, 1976, the Undergraduate Student Government voted 16 to 2 in favor of urging the U-Council to include “sexual orientation” in the non-discrimination policy. On February 25, The Daily Princetonian reported a Cottage Club petition urging the University to stand against pressure from an “abnormal minority.” “[Homosexuals] must impose themselves upon a healthy and normal majority,” the petition read. “Homosexuality is not a minority like being black, it’s a sickness.” The petition went on to argue that by adding “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, the “overall excellence of the University will decline.” This petition garnered 40 signatures, less than half of Cottage’s 140 members. The U-Council voted on the matter on March 9, 1976. Rather than voting to include sexual orientation in the policy, the council chose to affirm the right to free expression. The body stated that it “strongly censures and abhors personal violence committed with the intent of intimidating, punishing or interfering with free expression.”

Not deterred by homophobic harassment, Douglas Brown and Michael Mintz hung a banner from the window of their dorm room reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” A group of eight students tried to scale the wall of Brown and Mintzs’ dormitory building to tear down the banner on February 23, 1976. When this failed, they broke into the room to steal the banner, hurling a chair against the wall and throwing books out the window. Several days after the banner was stolen, it appeared at the office of The Daily Princetonian with a note reading “Hetero is Betero.” Other banners appeared on campus in opposition to GAP, including banners reading: “HUMP: Heterosexual Undergraduates of Princeton,” “Gay is Okay, but Hetero is Betero,” “Anti-F****t Alliance,” and “Be Happy, Not Gay.” Two female undergraduate allies hung a banner reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” When asked about the banner, the women responded they felt everyone should put up a banner to support students subject to such harassment.

Though The Daily Princetonian called for immediate expulsion, the eight perpetrators of the banner incident were punished with two years of academic probation and a censure on their permanent record.

On February 22, 1976, the Undergraduate Student Government voted 16 to 2 in favor of urging the U-Council to include “sexual orientation” in the non-discrimination policy. On February 25, The Daily Princetonian reported a Cottage Club petition urging the University to stand against pressure from an “abnormal minority.” “[Homosexuals] must impose themselves upon a healthy and normal majority,” the petition read. “Homosexuality is not a minority like being black, it’s a sickness.” The petition went on to argue that by adding “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, the “overall excellence of the University will decline.” This petition garnered 40 signatures, less than half of Cottage’s 140 members. The U-Council voted on the matter on March 9, 1976. Rather than voting to include sexual orientation in the policy, the council chose to affirm the right to free expression. The body stated that it “strongly censures and abhors personal violence committed with the intent of intimidating, punishing or interfering with free expression.”

The Banner Incident

Not deterred by homophobic harassment, Douglas Brown and Michael Mintz hung a banner from the window of their dorm room reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” A group of eight students tried to scale the wall of Brown and Mintzs’ dormitory building to tear down the banner on February 23, 1976. When this failed, they broke into the room to steal the banner, hurling a chair against the wall and throwing books out the window. Several days after the banner was stolen, it appeared at the office of The Daily Princetonian with a note reading “Hetero is Betero.” Other banners appeared on campus in opposition to GAP, including banners reading: “HUMP: Heterosexual Undergraduates of Princeton,” “Gay is Okay, but Hetero is Betero,” “Anti-F****t Alliance,” and “Be Happy, Not Gay.” Two female undergraduate allies hung a banner reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” When asked about the banner, the women responded they felt everyone should put up a banner to support students subject to such harassment.

Though The Daily Princetonian called for immediate expulsion, the eight perpetrators of the banner incident were punished with two years of academic probation and a censure on their permanent record.

On February 22, 1976, the Undergraduate Student Government voted 16 to 2 in favor of urging the U-Council to include “sexual orientation” in the non-discrimination policy. On February 25, The Daily Princetonian reported a Cottage Club petition urging the University to stand against pressure from an “abnormal minority.” “[Homosexuals] must impose themselves upon a healthy and normal majority,” the petition read. “Homosexuality is not a minority like being black, it’s a sickness.” The petition went on to argue that by adding “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, the “overall excellence of the University will decline.” This petition garnered 40 signatures, less than half of Cottage’s 140 members. The U-Council voted on the matter on March 9, 1976. Rather than voting to include sexual orientation in the policy, the council chose to affirm the right to free expression. The body stated that it “strongly censures and abhors personal violence committed with the intent of intimidating, punishing or interfering with free expression.”

Not deterred by homophobic harassment, Douglas Brown and Michael Mintz hung a banner from the window of their dorm room reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” A group of eight students tried to scale the wall of Brown and Mintzs’ dormitory building to tear down the banner on February 23, 1976. When this failed, they broke into the room to steal the banner, hurling a chair against the wall and throwing books out the window. Several days after the banner was stolen, it appeared at the office of The Daily Princetonian with a note reading “Hetero is Betero.” Other banners appeared on campus in opposition to GAP, including banners reading: “HUMP: Heterosexual Undergraduates of Princeton,” “Gay is Okay, but Hetero is Betero,” “Anti-F****t Alliance,” and “Be Happy, Not Gay.” Two female undergraduate allies hung a banner reading “Gay Alliance of Princeton.” When asked about the banner, the women responded they felt everyone should put up a banner to support students subject to such harassment.

Though The Daily Princetonian called for immediate expulsion, the eight perpetrators of the banner incident were punished with two years of academic probation and a censure on their permanent record.

On February 22, 1976, the Undergraduate Student Government voted 16 to 2 in favor of urging the U-Council to include “sexual orientation” in the non-discrimination policy. On February 25, The Daily Princetonian reported a Cottage Club petition urging the University to stand against pressure from an “abnormal minority.” “[Homosexuals] must impose themselves upon a healthy and normal majority,” the petition read. “Homosexuality is not a minority like being black, it’s a sickness.” The petition went on to argue that by adding “sexual orientation” to the non-discrimination policy, the “overall excellence of the University will decline.” This petition garnered 40 signatures, less than half of Cottage’s 140 members. The U-Council voted on the matter on March 9, 1976. Rather than voting to include sexual orientation in the policy, the council chose to affirm the right to free expression. The body stated that it “strongly censures and abhors personal violence committed with the intent of intimidating, punishing or interfering with free expression.”

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Bob Tuschman

Bob Tuschman discusses his experiences of internalized homophobia, as well as his coming out process during his senior year at Princeton University. He describes early GAP meetings and his writing of the first Princeton thesis to include the word "gay". Tuschman discusses living in New York during the AIDS crisis and how the loss of his friend motivated him to volunteer and join the board of Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS.

Bob Tuschman discusses his experiences of internalized homophobia, as well as his coming out process during his senior year at Princeton University. He describes early GAP meetings and his writing of the first Princeton thesis to include the word "gay". Tuschman discusses living in New York during the AIDS crisis and how the loss of his friend motivated him to volunteer and join the board of Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS.

Class of 1979

Bob Tuschman

Bob Tuschman discusses his experiences of internalized homophobia, as well as his coming out process during his senior year at Princeton University. He describes early GAP meetings and his writing of the first Princeton thesis to include the word "gay". Tuschman discusses living in New York during the AIDS crisis and how the loss of his friend motivated him to volunteer and join the board of Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS.

Bob Tuschman discusses his experiences of internalized homophobia, as well as his coming out process during his senior year at Princeton University. He describes early GAP meetings and his writing of the first Princeton thesis to include the word "gay". Tuschman discusses living in New York during the AIDS crisis and how the loss of his friend motivated him to volunteer and join the board of Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS.

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Siblings, public school, Jewish (ethnicity), Jewish (religion), Gay, Rockefeller (residential college), Closeted, Hookups, Woodrow Wilson School, Study abroad, Queer awakening, Coming Out, Stonewall, Mattachine Society, Attraction to friend, First relationship, Banner stealing, Mintz and Brown room break-in, The Daily Princetonian, Reunions, Gay man, Friend acceptance, Family acceptance, New South Gay Dances, HIV/AIDS, Gay Liberation, AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), AIDS activism, Every Voice Conference, Shirley Tilghman, Lavender Graduation, LGBT activism, LGBT Center, Senior thesis
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Depression mentioned,
Interviewed on 
June 27, 2018

Lonny Behar

Behar discusses the difficulties of attending Princeton as a closeted gay man and young student. He elaborates on his experiences with Gay Dances on top of New South and the Douglas Brown incident. Finally, he discusses attending the Every Voice alumni conference in 2013, his creative involvement with reunions, and coming out on his own terms during and after medical school.

Behar discusses the difficulties of attending Princeton as a closeted gay man and young student. He elaborates on his experiences with Gay Dances on top of New South and the Douglas Brown incident. Finally, he discusses attending the Every Voice alumni conference in 2013, his creative involvement with reunions, and coming out on his own terms during and after medical school.

Class of 1979

Lonny Behar

Behar discusses the difficulties of attending Princeton as a closeted gay man and young student. He elaborates on his experiences with Gay Dances on top of New South and the Douglas Brown incident. Finally, he discusses attending the Every Voice alumni conference in 2013, his creative involvement with reunions, and coming out on his own terms during and after medical school.

Behar discusses the difficulties of attending Princeton as a closeted gay man and young student. He elaborates on his experiences with Gay Dances on top of New South and the Douglas Brown incident. Finally, he discusses attending the Every Voice alumni conference in 2013, his creative involvement with reunions, and coming out on his own terms during and after medical school.

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gay men, FLI students (First-Generation Low-Income), Public school, Campus visit, Jewish (ethnicity), Pre-medical (educational track), History and Philosophy of Science, Closeted, Banner stealing, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Every Voice conference, New South Gay Dance, Quadrangle (eating club), Coming out, Bicker, Christopher Eisgruber, Princeton becomes co-ed, Reunions, LGBT alumni, Mental health, Forced outing, Marriage
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Homophobia mentioned, Depression mentioned,
Interviewed on 
July 13, 2017

The Chancellor Green Pub Incident

On February 28, 1979, a group of gay students were harassed by another group of students at the Chancellor Green Pub. The gay students asked the student proctor of the pub to intervene. Instead, the proctor joined the harassers. The harassers threw wood chips at the gay students and Mark Blasius *90, a graduate student, was punched in the eye and started bleeding.

William Bowen, the University President, closed the pub on March 12, stating that the “GAP incident” was just the most recent in a string of incidents involving the pub. After meeting privately with administration on March 8, GAP believed that several university deans had agreed to publish a statement “condemning anti-gay harassment, affirming gay rights, and referring explicitly to lesbians as well as gay men.” GAP was frustrated when the resulting statement, published in the March 12 issue of The Daily Princetonian, did none of these things.

The pub’s closing garnered a strong backlash from the Princeton community, prompting many students to wear pins reading, “Beers not Queers” and “Open Tap, Close Gap.” President Bowen decided to re-open the pub at midnight on March 16, saying the campus had learned its lesson. A rally to protest the pub’s closing had been planned for the next day. Unsatisfied with the ambiguous institutional response to the pub incident, GAP continued to meet with administrators and then wrote in to The Daily Princetonian on March 22. After receiving no response, GAP sent an open letter on April 10 addressed to President Bowen, to every administrator at Nassau Hall, and to be published in The Daily Princetonian. In the letter, GAP said that besides “private tokens of sympathy,” “not a single group or official at this University has taken an unequivocal public stand against such harassment,” and asked for “concrete evidence that the administration does not condone anti-gay bigotry” and “to see anyone in the administration even go so far as to use the words ‘gay men and lesbians.’”

President Bowen responded to GAP’s letter on April 13 with a letter in The Prince condemning all harassment on campus, “including [harassment of] members of the gay alliance.” Three of the pub harassers were given warnings and one was given academic probation. Mark Blasius’ name became publicly tied with the incident as a victim of harassment, and, as a result of his publicized “homosexuality,” one of his dissertation advisors withdrew their support. Spurred by GAP’s decreased popularity after the pub incident, three students ran for student government in April on a platform to end funding for GAP, FRONT (People’s Front for the Liberation of Southern Africa), and the Women’s Center.

On February 28, 1979, a group of gay students were harassed by another group of students at the Chancellor Green Pub. The gay students asked the student proctor of the pub to intervene. Instead, the proctor joined the harassers. The harassers threw wood chips at the gay students and Mark Blasius *90, a graduate student, was punched in the eye and started bleeding.

William Bowen, the University President, closed the pub on March 12, stating that the “GAP incident” was just the most recent in a string of incidents involving the pub. After meeting privately with administration on March 8, GAP believed that several university deans had agreed to publish a statement “condemning anti-gay harassment, affirming gay rights, and referring explicitly to lesbians as well as gay men.” GAP was frustrated when the resulting statement, published in the March 12 issue of The Daily Princetonian, did none of these things.

The pub’s closing garnered a strong backlash from the Princeton community, prompting many students to wear pins reading, “Beers not Queers” and “Open Tap, Close Gap.” President Bowen decided to re-open the pub at midnight on March 16, saying the campus had learned its lesson. A rally to protest the pub’s closing had been planned for the next day. Unsatisfied with the ambiguous institutional response to the pub incident, GAP continued to meet with administrators and then wrote in to The Daily Princetonian on March 22. After receiving no response, GAP sent an open letter on April 10 addressed to President Bowen, to every administrator at Nassau Hall, and to be published in The Daily Princetonian. In the letter, GAP said that besides “private tokens of sympathy,” “not a single group or official at this University has taken an unequivocal public stand against such harassment,” and asked for “concrete evidence that the administration does not condone anti-gay bigotry” and “to see anyone in the administration even go so far as to use the words ‘gay men and lesbians.’”

President Bowen responded to GAP’s letter on April 13 with a letter in The Prince condemning all harassment on campus, “including [harassment of] members of the gay alliance.” Three of the pub harassers were given warnings and one was given academic probation. Mark Blasius’ name became publicly tied with the incident as a victim of harassment, and, as a result of his publicized “homosexuality,” one of his dissertation advisors withdrew their support. Spurred by GAP’s decreased popularity after the pub incident, three students ran for student government in April on a platform to end funding for GAP, FRONT (People’s Front for the Liberation of Southern Africa), and the Women’s Center.

The Chancellor Green Pub Incident

On February 28, 1979, a group of gay students were harassed by another group of students at the Chancellor Green Pub. The gay students asked the student proctor of the pub to intervene. Instead, the proctor joined the harassers. The harassers threw wood chips at the gay students and Mark Blasius *90, a graduate student, was punched in the eye and started bleeding.

William Bowen, the University President, closed the pub on March 12, stating that the “GAP incident” was just the most recent in a string of incidents involving the pub. After meeting privately with administration on March 8, GAP believed that several university deans had agreed to publish a statement “condemning anti-gay harassment, affirming gay rights, and referring explicitly to lesbians as well as gay men.” GAP was frustrated when the resulting statement, published in the March 12 issue of The Daily Princetonian, did none of these things.

The pub’s closing garnered a strong backlash from the Princeton community, prompting many students to wear pins reading, “Beers not Queers” and “Open Tap, Close Gap.” President Bowen decided to re-open the pub at midnight on March 16, saying the campus had learned its lesson. A rally to protest the pub’s closing had been planned for the next day. Unsatisfied with the ambiguous institutional response to the pub incident, GAP continued to meet with administrators and then wrote in to The Daily Princetonian on March 22. After receiving no response, GAP sent an open letter on April 10 addressed to President Bowen, to every administrator at Nassau Hall, and to be published in The Daily Princetonian. In the letter, GAP said that besides “private tokens of sympathy,” “not a single group or official at this University has taken an unequivocal public stand against such harassment,” and asked for “concrete evidence that the administration does not condone anti-gay bigotry” and “to see anyone in the administration even go so far as to use the words ‘gay men and lesbians.’”

President Bowen responded to GAP’s letter on April 13 with a letter in The Prince condemning all harassment on campus, “including [harassment of] members of the gay alliance.” Three of the pub harassers were given warnings and one was given academic probation. Mark Blasius’ name became publicly tied with the incident as a victim of harassment, and, as a result of his publicized “homosexuality,” one of his dissertation advisors withdrew their support. Spurred by GAP’s decreased popularity after the pub incident, three students ran for student government in April on a platform to end funding for GAP, FRONT (People’s Front for the Liberation of Southern Africa), and the Women’s Center.

On February 28, 1979, a group of gay students were harassed by another group of students at the Chancellor Green Pub. The gay students asked the student proctor of the pub to intervene. Instead, the proctor joined the harassers. The harassers threw wood chips at the gay students and Mark Blasius *90, a graduate student, was punched in the eye and started bleeding.

William Bowen, the University President, closed the pub on March 12, stating that the “GAP incident” was just the most recent in a string of incidents involving the pub. After meeting privately with administration on March 8, GAP believed that several university deans had agreed to publish a statement “condemning anti-gay harassment, affirming gay rights, and referring explicitly to lesbians as well as gay men.” GAP was frustrated when the resulting statement, published in the March 12 issue of The Daily Princetonian, did none of these things.

The pub’s closing garnered a strong backlash from the Princeton community, prompting many students to wear pins reading, “Beers not Queers” and “Open Tap, Close Gap.” President Bowen decided to re-open the pub at midnight on March 16, saying the campus had learned its lesson. A rally to protest the pub’s closing had been planned for the next day. Unsatisfied with the ambiguous institutional response to the pub incident, GAP continued to meet with administrators and then wrote in to The Daily Princetonian on March 22. After receiving no response, GAP sent an open letter on April 10 addressed to President Bowen, to every administrator at Nassau Hall, and to be published in The Daily Princetonian. In the letter, GAP said that besides “private tokens of sympathy,” “not a single group or official at this University has taken an unequivocal public stand against such harassment,” and asked for “concrete evidence that the administration does not condone anti-gay bigotry” and “to see anyone in the administration even go so far as to use the words ‘gay men and lesbians.’”

President Bowen responded to GAP’s letter on April 13 with a letter in The Prince condemning all harassment on campus, “including [harassment of] members of the gay alliance.” Three of the pub harassers were given warnings and one was given academic probation. Mark Blasius’ name became publicly tied with the incident as a victim of harassment, and, as a result of his publicized “homosexuality,” one of his dissertation advisors withdrew their support. Spurred by GAP’s decreased popularity after the pub incident, three students ran for student government in April on a platform to end funding for GAP, FRONT (People’s Front for the Liberation of Southern Africa), and the Women’s Center.

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Todd Brower

Brower describes his experiences growing up in a small, rural town and his experiences with language throughout high school. He speaks about his involvement with Triangle Club, the Campus Pub, and studying abroad in France after his sophomore and junior years. He also discusses cruising on campus, awareness of other LGBT students, and coming to terms with his identity during a Fulbright and at Stanford Law School. Finally, he details his experience with gay culture in California during the 1980's and 1990's and discusses his work as an LGBT educator within higher education.

Brower describes his experiences growing up in a small, rural town and his experiences with language throughout high school. He speaks about his involvement with Triangle Club, the Campus Pub, and studying abroad in France after his sophomore and junior years. He also discusses cruising on campus, awareness of other LGBT students, and coming to terms with his identity during a Fulbright and at Stanford Law School. Finally, he details his experience with gay culture in California during the 1980's and 1990's and discusses his work as an LGBT educator within higher education.

Class of 1976

Todd Brower

Brower describes his experiences growing up in a small, rural town and his experiences with language throughout high school. He speaks about his involvement with Triangle Club, the Campus Pub, and studying abroad in France after his sophomore and junior years. He also discusses cruising on campus, awareness of other LGBT students, and coming to terms with his identity during a Fulbright and at Stanford Law School. Finally, he details his experience with gay culture in California during the 1980's and 1990's and discusses his work as an LGBT educator within higher education.

Brower describes his experiences growing up in a small, rural town and his experiences with language throughout high school. He speaks about his involvement with Triangle Club, the Campus Pub, and studying abroad in France after his sophomore and junior years. He also discusses cruising on campus, awareness of other LGBT students, and coming to terms with his identity during a Fulbright and at Stanford Law School. Finally, he details his experience with gay culture in California during the 1980's and 1990's and discusses his work as an LGBT educator within higher education.

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gay men, men who have sex with men, homosexual men, White, Boy Scouts, Campus visit, French and Italian, French speaking, Triangle Club, Tower (eating club), Eating clubs, Chancellor Green Pub, Sexual Awakening, Cruising, First relationship, Law, Reunions, HIV/AIDS crisis, Meeting partner, Marriage, Academia, LGBT activism, Family acceptance, Employment discrimination
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Illness and death mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 18, 2018

Jane Clewe

Clewe speaks on her childhood experiences and experimentation with her sexuality, clothing, and illicit activities. She discusses her arrival to Princeton and her experiences as she came out to herself and others during her time at the University. She talks about her participation in a campus karate group, the German Work-Study summer program, Gay Alliance at Princeton programming and dances, and in the Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Services (SECH) program. In addition, she describes the Douglas Brown incident and her participation in the Extended Family program in town. Finally, she reflects on living as an out lesbian after Princeton and how her hobbies allowed her to build community.

Clewe speaks on her childhood experiences and experimentation with her sexuality, clothing, and illicit activities. She discusses her arrival to Princeton and her experiences as she came out to herself and others during her time at the University. She talks about her participation in a campus karate group, the German Work-Study summer program, Gay Alliance at Princeton programming and dances, and in the Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Services (SECH) program. In addition, she describes the Douglas Brown incident and her participation in the Extended Family program in town. Finally, she reflects on living as an out lesbian after Princeton and how her hobbies allowed her to build community.

Class of 1977

Jane Clewe

Clewe speaks on her childhood experiences and experimentation with her sexuality, clothing, and illicit activities. She discusses her arrival to Princeton and her experiences as she came out to herself and others during her time at the University. She talks about her participation in a campus karate group, the German Work-Study summer program, Gay Alliance at Princeton programming and dances, and in the Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Services (SECH) program. In addition, she describes the Douglas Brown incident and her participation in the Extended Family program in town. Finally, she reflects on living as an out lesbian after Princeton and how her hobbies allowed her to build community.

Clewe speaks on her childhood experiences and experimentation with her sexuality, clothing, and illicit activities. She discusses her arrival to Princeton and her experiences as she came out to herself and others during her time at the University. She talks about her participation in a campus karate group, the German Work-Study summer program, Gay Alliance at Princeton programming and dances, and in the Sexuality Education Counseling and Health Services (SECH) program. In addition, she describes the Douglas Brown incident and her participation in the Extended Family program in town. Finally, she reflects on living as an out lesbian after Princeton and how her hobbies allowed her to build community.

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White, lesbian, Private school, Public school, Queer awakening, butch, Unitarian, Drugs, Sexual Awakening, Computer Science, Athletics, German, Travel abroad, Gap year, First awareness of queer people, Coming out, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Coming out, Family acceptance, Mintz and Brown room break-in, Banner stealing, Sexuality Education, Counseling , and Health (SECH), Campus resources, Affinity groups, First relationship, New South Gay Dance, Women’s Center, Outdoor Action, Friend acceptance, Pride parade, LGBT activism, Meeting partner, Marriage, Clubs/bars
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Illness and death mentioned, Sexism mentioned, Racism mentioned, Heterosexism mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Homophobia mentioned
Interviewed on 
July 11, 2017

Daniel Jaffe

Jaffe speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted, gay student. He discusses traumatic experiences, including an attempt at suicide, reckoning his Jewish faith with his sexuality, his involvement with the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and the Douglas Brown incident. He also talks about academic stressors, studying abroad in Russia, and his experience with romantic relationships with men and women at Princeton. He also reflects on his activism for lesbian and gay rights while at Harvard Law School, his career as a creative writing professor, and his relationship with his husband.

Jaffe speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted, gay student. He discusses traumatic experiences, including an attempt at suicide, reckoning his Jewish faith with his sexuality, his involvement with the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and the Douglas Brown incident. He also talks about academic stressors, studying abroad in Russia, and his experience with romantic relationships with men and women at Princeton. He also reflects on his activism for lesbian and gay rights while at Harvard Law School, his career as a creative writing professor, and his relationship with his husband.

Class of 1978

Daniel Jaffe

Jaffe speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted, gay student. He discusses traumatic experiences, including an attempt at suicide, reckoning his Jewish faith with his sexuality, his involvement with the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and the Douglas Brown incident. He also talks about academic stressors, studying abroad in Russia, and his experience with romantic relationships with men and women at Princeton. He also reflects on his activism for lesbian and gay rights while at Harvard Law School, his career as a creative writing professor, and his relationship with his husband.

Jaffe speaks about his time at Princeton as a closeted, gay student. He discusses traumatic experiences, including an attempt at suicide, reckoning his Jewish faith with his sexuality, his involvement with the Gay Alliance at Princeton, and the Douglas Brown incident. He also talks about academic stressors, studying abroad in Russia, and his experience with romantic relationships with men and women at Princeton. He also reflects on his activism for lesbian and gay rights while at Harvard Law School, his career as a creative writing professor, and his relationship with his husband.

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Gay men, Jewish (ethnicity), Jewish (religion), Cross-dressing, Religion and queerness, Theater, Queer awakening, Campus visit, Firestone C Floor hookup spot, Dinky station, Cruising, Attraction to friend, Mental health, Libraries and queer awakening, Gay Alliance of Princeton (GAP), Mintz and Brown room break-in, Heteronormativity, Stevenson Hall, Politics, Russian, Study abroad, Clubs/bars, HIV/AIDS crisis, New South Gay Dance, LGBT alumni, South Africa apartheid activism, Generational understandings of identity, Non-discrimination policy, Law, Writing, Marriage, Family estrangement, Family acceptance, Leather, Meeting partner, Activism
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Harassment mentioned, Anti-Semitism mentioned, Slur, Homophobia mentioned, Trauma mentioned, Depression mentioned, Suicide mentioned, Illness and death mentioned
Interviewed on 
August 26, 2017
Princeton LGBTQIA+ Oral History Project

1980s

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